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im so  sorry to keep dumping this stuff here but i dont know what else to do. was talking this morning to family about all the stresses i am under (this stabbing abdominal pain that i used to have all the time is back and it hurts bunches) and i mentioned the guy’s name.  they said who?  i said the *sshole from my first job.  one of my sons said "<his last name? (he has a very odd last name) theres a girl in our school with that last name"  so i looked her up in the student directory.  yep, it is him.  23 years and 300 miles away, yet here it is slapping me in the face.  and now my sons are going to school with my molester.  sounds like a made-for-tv movie, doesnt it?

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his daughter.  which is the lesser of 2 evils however now i must worry about running into him at school functions. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – ummm…. are they going to school with your molester, or with his daughter? — astri im so  sorry to keep dumping this stuff here but i dont know what else to do. was talking this morning to family about all the stresses i am under (this stabbing abdominal pain that i used to have all the time is back and it hurts bunches) and i mentioned the guy’s name.  they said who?  i said the *sshole from my first job.  one of my sons said "<his last name? (he has a very odd last name) theres a girl in our school with that last name"  so i looked her up in the student directory.  yep, it is him.  23 years and 300 miles away, yet here it is slapping me in the face.  and now my sons are going to school with my molester.  sounds like a made-for-tv movie, doesnt it?

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ummm…. are they going to school with your molester, or with his daughter? — astri – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – im so  sorry to keep dumping this stuff here but i dont know what else to do. was talking this morning to family about all the stresses i am under (this stabbing abdominal pain that i used to have all the time is back and it hurts bunches) and i mentioned the guy’s name.  they said who?  i said the *sshole from my first job.  one of my sons said "<his last name? (he has a very odd last name) theres a girl in our school with that last name"  so i looked her up in the student directory.  yep, it is him.  23 years and 300 miles away, yet here it is slapping me in the face.  and now my sons are going to school with my molester.  sounds like a made-for-tv movie, doesnt it?

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Dear Domino – We are sorry for you to think to be sorry for saying what is going on.  We are glad that you are writing, and glad to know, even if the news is so difficult.  All we can say is that we send you thoughts of strength and peace.  If need be, maybe there is the matter of a restraining order?  I guess that would involve too much in the way of rummaging in the past, though.  I hope you can avoid this creep, but if not, I hope you can also find the strength to give him the stony treatment he deserves.  You were surprised, unawares this time – next time, if there is one, you won’t be. Beauty. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – im so  sorry to keep dumping this stuff here but i dont know what else to do. was talking this morning to family about all the stresses i am under (this stabbing abdominal pain that i used to have all the time is back and it hurts bunches) and i mentioned the guy’s name.  they said who?  i said the *sshole from my first job.  one of my sons said "<his last name? (he has a very odd last name) theres a girl in our school with that last name"  so i looked her up in the student directory.  yep, it is him.  23 years and 300 miles away, yet here it is slapping me in the face.  and now my sons are going to school with my molester.  sounds like a made-for-tv movie, doesnt it?

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oh, Domino, this is terrible.  i too was molested as a teenager by the boss at one of my first jobs.  i just couldn’t imagine him living in my neighborhood now, and running into him and having to deal with his presence in any way. and the nerve of that guy, chatting you up like y’all had a friendly, ordinary connection!  grrr.  i hope you can somehow avoid having to come into contact with him. sending you good thoughts and warm wishes, tv

im so  sorry to keep dumping this stuff here but i dont know what else to do. was talking this morning to family about all the stresses i am under (this stabbing abdominal pain that i used to have all the time is back and it hurts bunches) and i mentioned the guy’s name.  they said who?  i said the *sshole from my first job.  one of my sons said "<his last name? (he has a very odd last name) theres a girl in our school with that last name"  so i looked her up in the student directory.  yep, it is him.  23 years and 300 miles away, yet here it is slapping me in the face.  and now my sons are going to school with my molester.  sounds like a made-for-tv movie, doesnt it?

– Life is less like counting the seeds in an apple and more like counting the apples in a seed. – Chris Blake

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i hope i can avoid him too.  funny, when i realized who he was and all, i sort of went blank.  and then i heard my mother’s voice start coming out of my been here?"  etc etc.  i was shocked cuz all i wanted to do was get away and here i am conversing with this guy.  he asked about my sons who were with me and introduced himself to them.  they shook his hand like the little gentlemen that they are and then called him a ‘freak’ when i told them what he had done to me. :)  i love my sons! thanks, tv, for writing. take good care, domino – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – oh, Domino, this is terrible.  i too was molested as a teenager by the boss at one of my first jobs.  i just couldn’t imagine him living in my neighborhood now, and running into him and having to deal with his presence in any way. and the nerve of that guy, chatting you up like y’all had a friendly, ordinary connection!  grrr.  i hope you can somehow avoid having to come into contact with him. sending you good thoughts and warm wishes, tv im so  sorry to keep dumping this stuff here but i dont know what else to do. was talking this morning to family about all the stresses i am under (this stabbing abdominal pain that i used to have all the time is back and it hurts bunches) and i mentioned the guy’s name.  they said who?  i said the *sshole from my first job.  one of my sons said "<his last name? (he has a very odd last name) theres a girl in our school with that last name"  so i looked her up in the student directory.  yep, it is him.  23 years and 300 miles away, yet here it is slapping me in the face.  and now my sons are going to school with my molester.  sounds like a made-for-tv movie, doesnt it? — Life is less like counting the seeds in an apple and more like counting the apples in a seed. – Chris Blake

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aww…sh!t, man…..that really s*cks.  I’m sorry you have to keep on dealin with this.  Seems like it never ends sometimes. wish i could help.  i’ll send ya some strength, if i figure out how to do it… keep on keepin on….. blue, for dyenths

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – im so  sorry to keep dumping this stuff here but i dont know what else to do. was talking this morning to family about all the stresses i am under (this stabbing abdominal pain that i used to have all the time is back and it hurts bunches) and i mentioned the guy’s name. they said who?  i said the *sshole from my first job.  one of my sons said "<his last name? (he has a very odd last name) theres a girl in our school with that last name"  so i looked her up in the student directory.  yep, it is him.  23 years and 300 miles away, yet here it is slapping me in the face.  and now my sons are going to school with my molester.  sounds like a made-for-tv movie, doesnt it?

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