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		<title>Deviated septum</title>
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Too Old???  medicare pays for alternate therapy for chronic health problems.  If Medicare does not approve of a procedure the HMO does not either.  shirley 

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<p>Too Old???  medicare pays for alternate therapy for chronic health problems.  If Medicare does not approve of a procedure the HMO does not either.  shirley </p>
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<p>Probably that they don&#8217;t care much about my deviated septum because  they are pretty sure it&#8217;s not related to my primary problem&#44; which is  neck and shoulder pain.  This week i went to the doctor and my goal was to ask for the required  paper to see a physician. He did not want to and gave me a prescription  instead. I tried to explain him that i want to fix the problem&#44; not  mask it with pain killers. It&#8217;s frustrating. He did not realize that  i&#8217;ve been suffering for many years&#44; that my condition is serious to the  point of quitting my quality job.  But don&#8217;t get me wrong i&#8217;m not complaining about doctors&#44; i appreciate  their services. They must see so many people every day that they can&#8217;t  feel every patient distress correctly. It&#8217;s normal.  Back to my problem&#44; i went to see another doctor today. He gave me a  paper to see an ENT about the deviated septum&#44; good news. About the  neck and shoulder pain i was told to make exercices and watch my  posture at computer. Looks like the solution to a complicated problem  might be simple.  Thanks for reading!  Matt </p>
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<p>My husband has a deviated septum. He is a Senior and Medicare would not  pay for it.  They pay for nasal meds with steroids in  &nbsp;it. &nbsp;Its been 10 years now.  shirley </p>
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<p>On Sun&#44; 17 Jul 2005 10:03:07 -0400&#44; thebagladyshirley&#8230;@webtv.net (Shirley  Thebaglady) wrote:  &gt;My husband has a deviated septum. He is a Senior and Medicare would not  &gt;pay for it. </p>
<p>*If* he needs and wants the surgery (after a couple of opinions at least)&#44; he  should appeal.  You will probably find that the policy is along the following lines:  &quot;Aetna considers septoplasty medically necessary when any of the following  clinical criteria is met:  &nbsp; &nbsp;1. Septal deviation causing continuous nasal airway obstruction resulting in  nasal breathing difficulty not responding to appropriate medical therapy; or  &nbsp; &nbsp;2. Documented recurrent sinusitis felt to be due to a deviated septum not  relieved by appropriate medical and antibiotic therapy; or  &#8230;&#8230;..&quot;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt;They pay for nasal meds with steroids in  &gt; it. &nbsp;Its been 10 years now.  </p>
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<p>My Hubbys nose seems to close up at night and &nbsp;he cannot breath through  his nose.  He elevates his head at night now &nbsp;and uses Rhinacort so he does not get  nasal infections` anymore.  His doctor that did the fungal surgery appealed to Medicare but they  still said no.  shirley </p>
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<p>On Mon&#44; 18 Jul 2005 06:56:24 -0400&#44; thebagladyshirley&#8230;@webtv.net (Shirley  Thebaglady) wrote:  &gt;My Hubbys nose seems to close up at night and &nbsp;he cannot breath through  &gt;his nose.  &gt;He elevates his head at night now &nbsp;and uses Rhinacort so he does not get  &gt;nasal infections` anymore.  &gt;His doctor that did the fungal surgery appealed to Medicare but they  &gt;still said no. </p>
<p>On what grounds? </p>
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<p>&quot;Matt&quot; &lt;matio&#8230;@hotmail.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:1121298246.889868.66530@f14g2000cwb.googlegroups.com&#8230;  &gt;I had constant shoulder&#44; neck&#44; jaw and eye pain for more than 10 years&#44;  &gt; mostly on right side. Also my right nostril is often congested for no  &gt; reason (no nasal discharge) and i get frequent nosebleeds on the left  &gt; side during winter. I was told by two doctors that i have deviated  &gt; septum&#44; and this is the cause of my congestion/nosebleeds. Also had  &gt; scans for my sinuses&#44; they are clear. They don&#8217;t seem to care much  &gt; about it.  &gt; However&#44; could a deviated septum cause severe muscle pain down to the  &gt; shoulder? The facial pain and pain behind the eyes is realistic&#44; but  &gt; what about neck and shoulder? I don&#8217;t think this is realistic&#44; but i  &gt; wish it is! I would not hesitate to have a surgery done then.  &gt; Hoping to find answers to run away from hell. Thank you. </p>
<p>Unfortunately&#44; as a doctor I can&#8217;t give advice on the Internet regarding  your medical problem&#44; but I would advise you to see a different doctor.  Several things come to mind which haven&#8217;t been pursued by the doctors you&#8217;ve  seen so far. &nbsp;You could either start with a primary care physician (FP or  IM)&#44; or go straight to a neurologist.  This problem of doctors not seeming to care is pervasive. &nbsp;It results from  declining reimbursement rates of insurance companies (which take their lead  from Medicare) for primary care physicians&#44; and the consequent need to see  lots of patients every day (15 minutes per patient seems to be the best you  can do nowadays and still stay in business). &nbsp;However&#44; ultimately the  problem is with the individual physicians&#44; who need to find a way to  practice within the constraints of the system and still give their patients  good care. &nbsp;My approach is to ask patients to come back frequently. &nbsp;The  down sides to this approach are (1) the patient has to be lots of co-pays  for lots of visits&#44; and (2) you can&#8217;t get everything done right now that  you&#8217;d like to get done. &nbsp;But I see no better solution. &nbsp;There&#8217;s really no  excuse for a doctor not seeming to care&#44; in my opinion. </p>
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<p>On 13 Jul 2005 16:44:06 -0700&#44; &quot;Matt&quot; &lt;matio&#8230;@hotmail.com&gt; wrote:  &gt;I had constant shoulder&#44; neck&#44; jaw and eye pain for more than 10 years&#44;  &gt;mostly on right side. Also my right nostril is often congested for no  &gt;reason (no nasal discharge) and i get frequent nosebleeds on the left  &gt;side during winter. I was told by two doctors that i have deviated  &gt;septum&#44; and this is the cause of my congestion/nosebleeds. Also had  &gt;scans for my sinuses&#44; they are clear </p>
<p>That part is good news but have you had the CT scan &nbsp;looked at personally by a  sinus surgery specailist who also examined you? &nbsp; &nbsp;Sometimes things are subtle.  &gt;However&#44; could a deviated septum cause severe muscle pain down to the  &gt;shoulder? The facial pain and pain behind the eyes is realistic&#44; but  &gt;what about neck and shoulder? I don&#8217;t think this is realistic&#44; but i  &gt;wish it is! I would not hesitate to have a surgery done then. </p>
<p>I do not know about that part &#8211; I have my doubts &#8211; but I suspect Dr. Grossan or  others may have a comment.. &nbsp;Some of it may not be sinus-nasal in origin.  Even if you are just looking at a possible minor septal correction I would  sugest only considering having a very experienced sinus surgeon (e.g at a major  medcial center) do it or give an opinion on it.. </p>
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<p>I had constant shoulder&#44; neck&#44; jaw and eye pain for more than 10 years&#44;  mostly on right side. Also my right nostril is often congested for no  reason (no nasal discharge) and i get frequent nosebleeds on the left  side during winter. I was told by two doctors that i have deviated  septum&#44; and this is the cause of my congestion/nosebleeds. Also had  scans for my sinuses&#44; they are clear. They don&#8217;t seem to care much  about it.  However&#44; could a deviated septum cause severe muscle pain down to the  shoulder? The facial pain and pain behind the eyes is realistic&#44; but  what about neck and shoulder? I don&#8217;t think this is realistic&#44; but i  wish it is! I would not hesitate to have a surgery done then.  Hoping to find answers to run away from hell. Thank you.  Matt </p>
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   Okay&#44; I got a message from the doctor&#8217;s office. &#160;I have minor arrythmia   but   it&#8217;s &#34;nothing to worry about and no treatment is necessary unless it   continues to bother you&#34;. &#160;Uh&#8230; it&#8217;s been bothering me&#44; that&#8217;s why I went   to the doctor! &#160;I called [...]]]></description>
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<p>   Okay&#44; I got a message from the doctor&#8217;s office. &nbsp;I have minor arrythmia   but   it&#8217;s &quot;nothing to worry about and no treatment is necessary unless it   continues to bother you&quot;. &nbsp;Uh&#8230; it&#8217;s been bothering me&#44; that&#8217;s why I went   to the doctor! &nbsp;I called back and left a message because this sure does   sound ambiguous to me.   More later&#8230;   Jill   &#8212;   I used to have a handle on life&#8230;but it broke off. </p>
<p>It does sound like this definitely *has* been bothering you (shoulder pain&#44;  lack of sleep&#44; etc.). &nbsp;However&#44; it might give you a bit of comfort to know  that my mother was first diagnosed with arrhythmia when she was in high  school. &nbsp;She is now 89 years old and has never had a bit of &quot;heart&quot;  difficulty. &nbsp;She would sometimes be aware of something that felt like heart  palpitatons&#44; but that was annoying rather than dangerous. &nbsp;There were also a  couple of instances in her life was doctors delayed surgery because they  detected the arrhythmia and wanted to be sure that she was a suitable  candidate for surgery. &nbsp;In each case&#44; she was cleared and had the surgery  (with no problems) a day or two later. &nbsp;Perhaps this type of event is what  your doctor referred to &#8212; but if so&#44; he needs to be more forthcoming about  your other symptoms.  MaryL </p>
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<p>   Okay&#44; I got a message from the doctor&#8217;s office. &nbsp;I have minor arrythmia   but   it&#8217;s &quot;nothing to worry about and no treatment is necessary unless it   continues to bother you&quot;. &nbsp;Uh&#8230; it&#8217;s been bothering me&#44; that&#8217;s why I went   to the doctor! &nbsp;I called back and left a message because this sure does   sound ambiguous to me.   More later&#8230;   Jill   &#8212;   I used to have a handle on life&#8230;but it broke off. </p>
<p>I was just going to ask how you are feeling.  Purrs continuing to come your way.  Winnie </p>
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<p>  Okay&#44; I got a message from the doctor&#8217;s office. &nbsp;I have minor arrythmia   but   it&#8217;s &quot;nothing to worry about and no treatment is necessary unless it   continues to bother you&quot;. &nbsp;Uh&#8230; it&#8217;s been bothering me&#44; that&#8217;s why I   went   to the doctor! &nbsp;I called back and left a message because this sure does   sound ambiguous to me.   More later&#8230;   Jill </p>
<p>Admittedly&#44; I might have a different perspective&#44; but I simply wouldn&#8217;t  accept not knowing WHICH arrythmia&#44; and how it is being judged minor or  not. Now&#44; there&#8217;s no question that some arrythmias are&#44; in any form&#44;  emergencies. There are others&#44; however&#44; that might just happen every so  many beats&#44; and it&#8217;s useful to know how frequent the events were now &#8212;  so that if you have problems in the future&#44; there&#8217;s a basis for  comparison.  It would seem appropriate to sit down for a discussion with a  cardiologist&#44; reviewing your symptoms and making a decision whether the  arrythmia is causing them or not. A wise physician once said to a group  of young doctors&#44; busily looking up lab values&#44; &quot;Gentlemen&#44; treat the  patient&#44; not the chart. The chart isn&#8217;t sick.&quot; &nbsp;  Interpretation of tests can go both ways. They can point to disease that  needs to be monitored&#44; and can also cause worry over something that  truly is not clinically significant.  Again&#44; it&#8217;s hard to judge without seeing the report. In my own case&#44; I  was having significant angina&#44; which did not show up on 12-lead basic  EKG&#44; treadmill EKG&#44; or on Holter&#44; because electrically&#44; my heart was  essentially normal. It took nuclear scanning to define the problem. Once  that showed something&#44; I moved fairly quickly to cardiac  catheterization/angiography and then to an angioplasty. &nbsp;One of the  major factors in this was having a cardiologist who knew and trusted me&#44;  and vice versa&#44; and listened when I said &quot;Michael&#44; I don&#8217;t care if the  ST segment is isoelectric. I&#8217;m having a classic clinical presentation of  unstable angina. Keep looking&#44; and observe that medical (drug) therapy  isn&#8217;t working.&quot;  I&#8217;m really not trying to be alarming&#44; just to point out that cardiology  is not cut and dried&#44; and the cardiologist has to treat the patient&#44; not  the test. </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  Okay&#44; I got a message from the doctor&#8217;s office. &nbsp;I have minor   arrythmia but   it&#8217;s &quot;nothing to worry about and no treatment is necessary unless it   continues to bother you&quot;. &nbsp;Uh&#8230; it&#8217;s been bothering me&#44; that&#8217;s why I   went   to the doctor! &nbsp;I called back and left a message because this sure   does sound ambiguous to me.   More later&#8230;   Jill   Admittedly&#44; I might have a different perspective&#44; but I simply   wouldn&#8217;t accept not knowing WHICH arrythmia&#44; and how it is being   judged minor or not. Now&#44; there&#8217;s no question that some arrythmias   are&#44; in any form&#44; emergencies. There are others&#44; however&#44; that might   just happen every so many beats&#44; and it&#8217;s useful to know how frequent   the events were now &#8212; so that if you have problems in the future&#44;   there&#8217;s a basis for comparison.   It would seem appropriate to sit down for a discussion with a   cardiologist&#44; reviewing your symptoms and making a decision whether   the arrythmia is causing them or not. A wise physician once said to a   group of young doctors&#44; busily looking up lab values&#44; &quot;Gentlemen&#44;   treat the patient&#44; not the chart. The chart isn&#8217;t sick.&quot;   Interpretation of tests can go both ways. They can point to disease   that needs to be monitored&#44; and can also cause worry over something   that truly is not clinically significant.   Again&#44; it&#8217;s hard to judge without seeing the report. In my own case&#44; I   was having significant angina&#44; which did not show up on 12-lead basic   EKG&#44; treadmill EKG&#44; or on Holter&#44; because electrically&#44; my heart was   essentially normal. It took nuclear scanning to define the problem.   Once that showed something&#44; I moved fairly quickly to cardiac   catheterization/angiography and then to an angioplasty. &nbsp;One of the   major factors in this was having a cardiologist who knew and trusted   me&#44; and vice versa&#44; and listened when I said &quot;Michael&#44; I don&#8217;t care   if the ST segment is isoelectric. I&#8217;m having a classic clinical   presentation of unstable angina. Keep looking&#44; and observe that   medical (drug) therapy isn&#8217;t working.&quot;   I&#8217;m really not trying to be alarming&#44; just to point out that   cardiology is not cut and dried&#44; and the cardiologist has to treat   the patient&#44; not the test. </p>
<p>I am scheduled to go in and talk with my doctor on Monday afternoon. &nbsp;He is  not a cardiologist but I&#8217;m not willing to let them just say don&#8217;t worry  about it. &nbsp;If I have to demand a referral to a cardiologist&#44; so be it.  Because whatever it is&#44; whether it&#8217;s my heart causing the arm/shoulder pain  or something as simple as a pinched nerve&#44; I want to know and I want it  treated. &nbsp;Period.  Jill </p>
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<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;   Okay&#44; I got a message from the doctor&#8217;s office. &nbsp;I have minor    arrythmia but    it&#8217;s &quot;nothing to worry about and no treatment is necessary unless it    continues to bother you&quot;. &nbsp;Uh&#8230; it&#8217;s been bothering me&#44; that&#8217;s why I    went    to the doctor! &nbsp;I called back and left a message because this sure    does sound ambiguous to me.    More later&#8230;    Jill    Admittedly&#44; I might have a different perspective&#44; but I simply    wouldn&#8217;t accept not knowing WHICH arrythmia&#44; and how it is being    judged minor or not. Now&#44; there&#8217;s no question that some arrythmias    are&#44; in any form&#44; emergencies. There are others&#44; however&#44; that might    just happen every so many beats&#44; and it&#8217;s useful to know how frequent    the events were now &#8212; so that if you have problems in the future&#44;    there&#8217;s a basis for comparison.    It would seem appropriate to sit down for a discussion with a    cardiologist&#44; reviewing your symptoms and making a decision whether    the arrythmia is causing them or not. A wise physician once said to a    group of young doctors&#44; busily looking up lab values&#44; &quot;Gentlemen&#44;    treat the patient&#44; not the chart. The chart isn&#8217;t sick.&quot;    Interpretation of tests can go both ways. They can point to disease    that needs to be monitored&#44; and can also cause worry over something    that truly is not clinically significant.    Again&#44; it&#8217;s hard to judge without seeing the report. In my own case&#44; I    was having significant angina&#44; which did not show up on 12-lead basic    EKG&#44; treadmill EKG&#44; or on Holter&#44; because electrically&#44; my heart was    essentially normal. It took nuclear scanning to define the problem.    Once that showed something&#44; I moved fairly quickly to cardiac    catheterization/angiography and then to an angioplasty. &nbsp;One of the    major factors in this was having a cardiologist who knew and trusted    me&#44; and vice versa&#44; and listened when I said &quot;Michael&#44; I don&#8217;t care    if the ST segment is isoelectric. I&#8217;m having a classic clinical    presentation of unstable angina. Keep looking&#44; and observe that    medical (drug) therapy isn&#8217;t working.&quot;    I&#8217;m really not trying to be alarming&#44; just to point out that    cardiology is not cut and dried&#44; and the cardiologist has to treat    the patient&#44; not the test.   I am scheduled to go in and talk with my doctor on Monday afternoon. &nbsp;He   is   not a cardiologist but I&#8217;m not willing to let them just say don&#8217;t worry   about it. &nbsp;If I have to demand a referral to a cardiologist&#44; so be it.   Because whatever it is&#44; whether it&#8217;s my heart causing the arm/shoulder   pain   or something as simple as a pinched nerve&#44; I want to know and I want it   treated. &nbsp;Period. </p>
<p>Unless your primary physician is in a very large group practice&#44; there  may very well be a cardiologist already involved. These days&#44; Holter  recordings are analyzed by special-purpose computers that tend to be  cost-justified only by cardiologists.  In other words&#44; just as if you had an X-ray taken and there would be a  radiologist report&#44; there&#8217;s probably a cardiologist&#8217;s report with the  Holder interpretation. </p>
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<p>   I am scheduled to go in and talk with my doctor on Monday afternoon. &nbsp;He  is   not a cardiologist but I&#8217;m not willing to let them just say don&#8217;t worry   about it. &nbsp;If I have to demand a referral to a cardiologist&#44; so be it.   Because whatever it is&#44; whether it&#8217;s my heart causing the arm/shoulder  pain   or something as simple as a pinched nerve&#44; I want to know and I want it   treated. &nbsp;Period. </p>
<p>Jill&#44;  That is the best attitude to have when going in to talk to your doctor. &nbsp;You  and your doctor are in a partnership regarding your health. &nbsp;Don&#8217;t be afraid  to stand up for what you know and feel.  Good luck!  Diane </p>
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<p>Okay&#44; I got a message from the doctor&#8217;s office. &nbsp;I have minor arrythmia but  it&#8217;s &quot;nothing to worry about and no treatment is necessary unless it  continues to bother you&quot;. &nbsp;Uh&#8230; it&#8217;s been bothering me&#44; that&#8217;s why I went  to the doctor! &nbsp;I called back and left a message because this sure does  sound ambiguous to me.  More later&#8230;  Jill  &#8212;  I used to have a handle on life&#8230;but it broke off. </p>
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<p>   Okay&#44; I got a message from the doctor&#8217;s office. &nbsp;I have minor arrythmia  but   it&#8217;s &quot;nothing to worry about and no treatment is necessary unless it   continues to bother you&quot;. &nbsp;Uh&#8230; it&#8217;s been bothering me&#44; that&#8217;s why I went   to the doctor! &nbsp;I called back and left a message because this sure does   sound ambiguous to me. </p>
<p>Please let us know what the doctor says (is that what&#8217;s causing the shoulder  pain&#44; or is that from something else that *does* need to be treated?).  Whatever it is&#44; purrs that it stop bothering you.  Hugs&#44;  CatNipped  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; More later&#8230;   Jill   &#8212;   I used to have a handle on life&#8230;but it broke off.  </p>
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  Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &#160;I know the   leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? 
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<p>  Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I know the   leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? </p>
<p>I wore one for a couple of days about 5 years ago. &nbsp;The leads connect  to a small box that goes into a cloth holster with a shoulder strap.  Chances are no events will occur while you are wearing it. &nbsp;It&#8217;s like  your car not making the funny noise when you take it to the mechanic.  Plenty of things besides the heart can cause shoulder pain. &nbsp;I hope it  is nothing dangerous and that it is something you can treat effectively. </p>
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<p>  Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I   know the leads go on my chest but what about the box itself?   I wore one for a couple of days about 5 years ago. &nbsp;The leads connect   to a small box that goes into a cloth holster with a shoulder strap.   Chances are no events will occur while you are wearing it. &nbsp;It&#8217;s like   your car not making the funny noise when you take it to the mechanic.   Plenty of things besides the heart can cause shoulder pain. &nbsp;I hope it   is nothing dangerous and that it is something you can treat   effectively. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s what my doctor likened it to (the mechanic thing). &nbsp;But apparently  the technology is such now that if I feel something arrythmic I can push a  button and it will &quot;mark&quot; that for more close examination. &nbsp;Of course it  won&#8217;t happen when I&#8217;m wearing it. &nbsp;LOL  Jill </p>
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<p>  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;   Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I    know the leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? &nbsp;I&#8217;m    trying to figure out what to wear and even though I have some loose    clothing it&#8217;s not so loose that it won&#8217;t be evident there&#8217;s a box    taped to my chest if that&#8217;s what they are going to do! &nbsp;It didn&#8217;t    occur to me to ask when they scheduled    me to come in tomorrow and they were closed today.    My shoulder pain is lessened but that is probably due to the    lidocaine patches I&#8217;ve been cutting up and putting on it. &nbsp;But now    the &quot;tingle&quot; is going even further down my arm. &nbsp;This is all very    disconcerting.    Jill    &#8212;    I used to have a handle on life&#8230;but it broke off.    Yep&#44; shoulder harness with a body strap as I recall. A real bitch to    sleep with.   LOL &nbsp;It&#8217;s a bitch to sleep with this nagging pain anyway! &nbsp;I&#8217;ll be taking   valerian root tonight for sure. &nbsp;And maybe I&#8217;ll go pour a glass of wine&#8230;   Jill </p>
<p>*Every* night I take: &nbsp;3 valerian root capsules (herbal for sleep)&#44; 1  melatonin (herbal for sleep)&#44; 2 Tylenol PMs (OTC for pain and sleep)&#44; 2  Zanaflex (prescription muscle relaxers)&#44; 2 Sudapheds (OTC for sinus)&#44; and 1  Ambien (prescription sleep aid). &nbsp;And I&#8217;m lucky if I sleep a solid 4  hours!!!! &nbsp;Fibromyalgia is *so* much fun!  Hugs&#44;  CatNipped </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I   know the leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? &nbsp;I&#8217;m   trying to figure out what to wear and even though I have some loose   clothing it&#8217;s not so loose that it won&#8217;t be evident there&#8217;s a box   taped to my chest if that&#8217;s what they are going to do! &nbsp;It didn&#8217;t   occur to me to ask when they scheduled   me to come in tomorrow and they were closed today.   My shoulder pain is lessened but that is probably due to the   lidocaine patches I&#8217;ve been cutting up and putting on it. &nbsp;But now   the &quot;tingle&quot; is going even further down my arm. &nbsp;This is all very   disconcerting.   Jill   &#8212;   I used to have a handle on life&#8230;but it broke off.   Yep&#44; shoulder harness with a body strap as I recall. A real bitch to   sleep with. </p>
<p>LOL &nbsp;It&#8217;s a bitch to sleep with this nagging pain anyway! &nbsp;I&#8217;ll be taking  valerian root tonight for sure. &nbsp;And maybe I&#8217;ll go pour a glass of wine&#8230;  Jill </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I   know the leads go on my chest but what about the box itself?   Jill   Yep&#44; shoulder harness with a body strap as I recall. A real bitch to   sleep with.   LOL &nbsp;It&#8217;s a bitch to sleep with this nagging pain anyway! &nbsp;I&#8217;ll be   taking valerian root tonight for sure. &nbsp;And maybe I&#8217;ll go pour a   glass of wine&#8230;   Jill   *Every* night I take: &nbsp;3 valerian root capsules (herbal for sleep)&#44; 1   melatonin (herbal for sleep)&#44; 2 Tylenol PMs (OTC for pain and sleep)&#44;   2 Zanaflex (prescription muscle relaxers)&#44; 2 Sudapheds (OTC for   sinus)&#44; and 1 Ambien (prescription sleep aid). &nbsp;And I&#8217;m lucky if I   sleep a solid 4 hours!!!! &nbsp;Fibromyalgia is *so* much fun!   Hugs&#44;   CatNipped </p>
<p>Good lord&#44; Lori! &nbsp;I&#8217;d never wake up in the morning if I did that.  {{{{{{{PURRRS}}}}}}}  I can&#8217;t take Melatonin unless I absolutely have no reason to get up the next  morning. &nbsp;It leaves me so groggy I can&#8217;t function. &nbsp;Ditto Tylenol (or any  other) &quot;PM&quot; over-the-counter analgesic or just plain OTC sleep aid. &nbsp;Ambien  worked for me but they rarely have it in &quot;samples&quot; and I can&#8217;t afford it  from the pharmacy. &nbsp;Valerian usually works; I might have to make it 3 caps  instead of 2 tonight.  The chamomile tea Tweed sent also helps me relax&#44; but I don&#8217;t drink tea  every night. &nbsp;I&#8217;ll have to search out another box in a month or so&#44; though.  I love the taste. &nbsp;And it can also be used in a hot bath as a soothing  herbal <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Jill </p>
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<p>  Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp; </p>
<p>I know the   leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? &nbsp; </p>
<p>Wherever convenient &#8212; on a shoulder strap&#44; belt clip&#44; or even in a  large enough pocket.  I&#8217;m trying to figure   out what to wear and even though I have some loose clothing it&#8217;s not so   loose that it won&#8217;t be evident there&#8217;s a box taped to my chest if that&#8217;s   what they are going to do! &nbsp; </p>
<p>No&#44; the box itself doesn&#8217;t go on the chest. The leads are 3-4 feet long&#44;  so you are quite flexible in where you put it.  It didn&#8217;t occur to me to ask when they   scheduled   me to come in tomorrow and they were closed today. </p>
<p>Change your picture a little. The box doesn&#8217;t go on your chest&#44; just  five or so electrodes (depending on the monitor).  If it&#8217;s of modern manufacture&#44; the box is about the size and weight of a  CD player. I&#8217;ve usually taken the long strap&#44; put it around my neck&#44; and  ran it under a sweatshirt or the like&#44; letting it hang at the waist.  Some monitors also come with a belt clip&#44; which&#44; if you have shoulder  pain&#44; might be a better idea for you.  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; My shoulder pain is lessened but that is probably due to the lidocaine   patches I&#8217;ve been cutting up and putting on it. &nbsp;But now the &quot;tingle&quot; is   going even further down my arm. &nbsp;This is all very disconcerting.   Jill  </p>
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<p>  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I know the   leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? &nbsp;I&#8217;m trying to figure   out what to wear and even though I have some loose clothing it&#8217;s not so   loose that it won&#8217;t be evident there&#8217;s a box taped to my chest if that&#8217;s   what they are going to do! &nbsp;It didn&#8217;t occur to me to ask when they   scheduled   me to come in tomorrow and they were closed today.   My shoulder pain is lessened but that is probably due to the lidocaine   patches I&#8217;ve been cutting up and putting on it. &nbsp;But now the &quot;tingle&quot; is   going even further down my arm. &nbsp;This is all very disconcerting.   Jill   &#8212;   I used to have a handle on life&#8230;but it broke off. </p>
<p>Yep&#44; shoulder harness with a body strap as I recall. A real bitch to sleep  with. </p>
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<p> Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I know the  leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? &nbsp;I&#8217;m trying to figure  out what to wear and even though I have some loose clothing it&#8217;s not so  loose that it won&#8217;t be evident there&#8217;s a box taped to my chest if that&#8217;s  what they are going to do! &nbsp;It didn&#8217;t occur to me to ask when they scheduled  me to come in tomorrow and they were closed today.  My shoulder pain is lessened but that is probably due to the lidocaine  patches I&#8217;ve been cutting up and putting on it. &nbsp;But now the &quot;tingle&quot; is  going even further down my arm. &nbsp;This is all very disconcerting.  Jill </p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t ever worn one of these monitors&#44; but&#44; if I remember  correctly&#44; they come with a shoulder strap.  &#8212;  PGP key available from http://pgp.mit.edu  &quot;Reserve your right to think&#44; for even to think wrongly is better  than not to think at all.&quot; &#8212; Hypatia of Alexandria </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I   know the leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? &nbsp;I&#8217;m   trying to figure out what to wear and even though I have some loose   clothing it&#8217;s not so loose that it won&#8217;t be evident there&#8217;s a box   taped to my chest if that&#8217;s what they are going to do! &nbsp;It didn&#8217;t   occur to me to ask when they scheduled me to come in tomorrow and   they were closed today.   My shoulder pain is lessened but that is probably due to the   lidocaine patches I&#8217;ve been cutting up and putting on it. &nbsp;But now   the &quot;tingle&quot; is going even further down my arm. &nbsp;This is all very   disconcerting.   Jill   I haven&#8217;t ever worn one of these monitors&#44; but&#44; if I remember   correctly&#44; they come with a shoulder strap. </p>
<p>That would be good! &nbsp;I looked for info online but all I can find are  descriptions of how it works&#44; not how you &quot;wear&quot; it <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  &nbsp;Thanks&#44; John.  Jill </p>
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<p>Do you know where they will attach this Holter monitor thing? &nbsp;I know the  leads go on my chest but what about the box itself? &nbsp;I&#8217;m trying to figure  out what to wear and even though I have some loose clothing it&#8217;s not so  loose that it won&#8217;t be evident there&#8217;s a box taped to my chest if that&#8217;s  what they are going to do! &nbsp;It didn&#8217;t occur to me to ask when they scheduled  me to come in tomorrow and they were closed today.  My shoulder pain is lessened but that is probably due to the lidocaine  patches I&#8217;ve been cutting up and putting on it. &nbsp;But now the &quot;tingle&quot; is  going even further down my arm. &nbsp;This is all very disconcerting.  Jill  &#8212;  I used to have a handle on life&#8230;but it broke off. </p>
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<p>  I will not be able to suggest any exercises long distance&#44; but one   suggestion I have right now is to avoid OTC anti-inflammatory drugs   before   doing your workouts (after is fine).   Then why do they shoot ppl up with cortisone pre rehab?   Rehab and individual exercise without a diagnosis are two different animals. </p>
<p>You didn&#8217;t answer the question. Why do they shoot up cortisone before rehab  or for that matter&#44; before exercise? We see this all the time in amateur  and pro athletes. </p>
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<p>  What&#8217;s wrong with the knees? </p>
<p>Painful on movement&#44; particularly lateral movement.  Moira&#44; the Faerie Godmother </p>
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<p>   Does anyone know of some non-weight bearing knee exercises I  should    be doing while watching TV so as to strengthen my knees for  their    weight bearing task? &nbsp;Yes. &nbsp;I know I should be striving to put  less    weight on them.   It would be helpful to know where specifically is your knee  hurting and what   movements (sitting&#44; standing&#44; kneeling&#44; squatting&#44; climbing </p>
<p>stairs&#44; etc.)  Kicking movements&#44; particularly sideways&#44; as in breast stroke&#44; are  particularly painful.   causes the pain. Do your knees swell up? </p>
<p>No.   Has your doctor had x-rays done on   your knees (preferably at a few angles) and&#44; if so&#44; was he able to  diagnose   any joint condition? Has your gait been analyzed by your doctor or  a   physical therapist? ISTM the best course of action would be for  your doctor   to refer you to a physical therapist. </p>
<p>No joint condition visible on x-rays. &nbsp;Weight related.   I will not be able to suggest any exercises long distance&#44; but one   suggestion I have right now is to avoid OTC anti-inflammatory  drugs before   doing your workouts (after is fine). </p>
<p>Yes. &nbsp;That much has been impressed on me by my doctor. &nbsp;He is  concerned about the knees in terms of the fact that exercise has  improved my shoulder joints but it makes my knee joints worse. &nbsp;I do  need to actually see him.  Moira&#44; the Faerie Godmother </p>
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<p>    I will not be able to suggest any exercises long distance&#44; but one    suggestion I have right now is to avoid OTC anti-inflammatory drugs  before    doing your workouts (after is fine).   Then why do they shoot ppl up with cortisone pre rehab? </p>
<p>Rehab and individual exercise without a diagnosis are two different animals. </p>
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<p>  Excuse me&#8230; &nbsp;last year while being rehabbed for my knee problems my   physical therapist actually recommended me to continue at the gym. &nbsp;Although   I worked with them to alter my workout so that no further damage would be   done and that what I did do would compliment my PT. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s an entirely different scenario. You had a regimen overseen by a  professional. Ppl do at home PT and at gym PT all the time. It even may be  absolutely necessary if your insurance doesn&#8217;t cover or you can&#8217;t get to  the PT&#8217;s office.  I often had client/athletes who were in some stage of PT and we either did  workarounds or implementations.  PT comes as a prescription from a physician. I have never seen a  prescription that said &quot;all PT at the gym&quot;. That becomes a client  preference or necessity.   Although much of what the physical therapist was having me do was   contridictory to what personal trainers would recommend for proper workout   techniques. &nbsp; It was a rather enlightening experience. </p>
<p>Should have been and points out the significant differences in PT and  strength training in general. These are different mindsets and those trains  rarely meet&#44; ime.  However&#44; Pts love to get their gear in strength gyms so we see ab boards&#44;  balancers&#44; Swiss balls&#44; tubing and all other kinds of crap on the strength  room floor parodying being necessary&#44; novel or required. It&#8217;s a bunch of  hoo-hoo. </p>
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<p>   Excuse me for interrupting but wth are you doing in a gym without getting   completely rehabbed first? </p>
<p>Excuse me&#8230; &nbsp;last year while being rehabbed for my knee problems my  physical therapist actually recommended me to continue at the gym. &nbsp;Although  I worked with them to alter my workout so that no further damage would be  done and that what I did do would compliment my PT.  Although much of what the physical therapist was having me do was  contridictory to what personal trainers would recommend for proper workout  techniques. &nbsp; It was a rather enlightening experience. </p>
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<p>  &nbsp;I have   to admit the reason why I even considered continuting my training   sessions is because working out with a trainer simply makes the time go   faster and the overall gym experience more enjoyable. </p>
<p>Then go for it. </p>
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<p>  . One hour of training each week isn&#8217;t   going to do much for you. </p>
<p>Entirely depends one your level of strength and what is accomplished on  that once a week regimen. </p>
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<p>  I will not be able to suggest any exercises long distance&#44; but one   suggestion I have right now is to avoid OTC anti-inflammatory drugs before   doing your workouts (after is fine). </p>
<p>Then why do they shoot ppl up with cortisone pre rehab? </p>
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<p>  I have joint issues. &nbsp;I&#8217;m in the gym so that I can be rehabbed. </p>
<p>You&#8217;re gym have a staff or visiting physio or PT?  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; &nbsp;For   the most part I&#8217;m gentle with myself (probably too gentle&#44; I&#8217;m a   sissy).   When my shoulder aches I have to remind myself that a month ago I&#8217;d   periodically shriek with pain when I moved it and I was medicating   for pain every few days. &nbsp;I haven&#8217;t needed to medicate or shriek for   two weeks now. &nbsp;The gym is paying off already.   The shoulder pain is good pain and must be worked through. &nbsp;The knee   pain &#8230;..   Does anyone know of some non-weight bearing knee exercises I should   be doing while watching TV so as to strengthen my knees for their   weight bearing task? &nbsp;Yes. &nbsp;I know I should be striving to put less   weight on them. </p>
<p>What&#8217;s wrong with the knees? </p>
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<p> The knee   pain &#8230;..   Does anyone know of some non-weight bearing knee exercises I should   be doing while watching TV so as to strengthen my knees for their   weight bearing task? &nbsp;Yes. &nbsp;I know I should be striving to put less   weight on them. </p>
<p>It would be helpful to know where specifically is your knee hurting and what  movements (sitting&#44; standing&#44; kneeling&#44; squatting&#44; climbing stairs&#44; etc.)  causes the pain. Do your knees swell up? Has your doctor had x-rays done on  your knees (preferably at a few angles) and&#44; if so&#44; was he able to diagnose  any joint condition? Has your gait been analyzed by your doctor or a  physical therapist? ISTM the best course of action would be for your doctor  to refer you to a physical therapist.  I will not be able to suggest any exercises long distance&#44; but one  suggestion I have right now is to avoid OTC anti-inflammatory drugs before  doing your workouts (after is fine). </p>
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<p>  Excuse me for interrupting but wth are you doing in a gym without  getting   completely rehabbed first? </p>
<p>I have joint issues. &nbsp;I&#8217;m in the gym so that I can be rehabbed. &nbsp;For  the most part I&#8217;m gentle with myself (probably too gentle&#44; I&#8217;m a  sissy).  When my shoulder aches I have to remind myself that a month ago I&#8217;d  periodically shriek with pain when I moved it and I was medicating  for pain every few days. &nbsp;I haven&#8217;t needed to medicate or shriek for  two weeks now. &nbsp;The gym is paying off already.  The shoulder pain is good pain and must be worked through. &nbsp;The knee  pain &#8230;..  Does anyone know of some non-weight bearing knee exercises I should  be doing while watching TV so as to strengthen my knees for their  weight bearing task? &nbsp;Yes. &nbsp;I know I should be striving to put less  weight on them.  Moira&#44; the Faerie Godmother  Day seven of my new WOL  136.8kg/134.4kg/90kg (first goal) </p>
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<p>  Trainers aren&#8217;t for motivation&#44; they&#8217;re for tweaking your program   making sure that you perform your lifts correctly&#44; and also for   certain kinds of exercises that cannot be done alone (i.e.&#44; medicine   ball&#44; boxing/sparing&#44; etc).   To use your trainer for &quot;motivation&quot;&#44; you&#8217;d have to be seeing him a   whole lot more than once a week. One hour of training each week isn&#8217;t   going to do much for you. </p>
<p>I think I&#8217;ll have to politely disagree with your point of view. Although  &nbsp; I enjoy the burn in my major muscle groups after each session&#44; I have  to admit the reason why I even considered continuting my training  sessions is because working out with a trainer simply makes the time go  faster and the overall gym experience more enjoyable. &nbsp;While I don&#8217;t  need that EVERYTIME i go to the gym&#44; once a week&#44; it definitely gives me  something to look forward to.  as for the cute trainer&#8230;well&#8230;that was just a passing thought. &nbsp;I was  just psyched that I finally got to have a conversation with him&#8230;but  really he&#8217;s not my type&#8230;:) </p>
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<p>  Trainers aren&#8217;t for motivation&#44; they&#8217;re for tweaking your program   making sure that you perform your lifts correctly&#44; and also for   certain kinds of exercises that cannot be done alone (i.e.&#44; medicine   ball&#44; boxing/sparing&#44; etc). </p>
<p>lol   I used a physical trainer 3xx a week for a year&#44; but with a back   problem switched to pilates reformer training. Doing both was actually   making my back worse&#44; so until I&#8217;m rehabbed.. I have switched to a   lifting routine completely performed on a bosu or fit ball.. I&#8217;m also using   therabands to improve shoulder stability. </p>
<p>Excuse me for interrupting but wth are you doing in a gym without getting  completely rehabbed first? </p>
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<p>leg up&#44; a  &nbsp; 1.. The act of assisting someone&#44; giving someone a boost. For example&#44;  Studying with Jane&#44; who knows French history well&#44; will give you a leg up  for the final exam. This usage alludes to helping a person get on a horse by  getting a foot in the stirrup. [First half of 1800s]  &nbsp; 2.. A position of advantage&#44; as in Because of the advertising campaign&#44; we  had a leg up on the competition. </p>
<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;   Staying motivated is tough. &nbsp;With the new trainer you&#8217;ll have a leg up&#44;  so    to speak.   i know&#44; right???   anyway&#44; well&#44; i&#8217;ve decided to keep my legs down. I know&#44; not the fun   choice&#44; but i&#8217;m over it.   well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up   for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and   hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230;  </p>
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<p> excercises you can follow. &nbsp;It costs about $1000 for 20 training  sessions at my gym. Since I plan to be losing weight for at least  another&#8230;50 weeks&#44; what am i to do? buy 50 training sessions just so I  can have the motivation? i think all the talk about &quot;motivation comes  from within&quot; on this forum has laid that question to rest. </p>
<p>Trainers aren&#8217;t for motivation&#44; they&#8217;re for tweaking your program  making sure that you perform your lifts correctly&#44; and also for  certain kinds of exercises that cannot be done alone (i.e.&#44; medicine  ball&#44; boxing/sparing&#44; etc).  I used a physical trainer 3xx a week for a year&#44; but with a back  problem switched to pilates reformer training. Doing both was actually  making my back worse&#44; so until I&#8217;m rehabbed I have switched to a  lifting routine completely performed on a bosu or fit ball&#44; and a lot  of cable machine work after my reformer sessions. I&#8217;m also using  therabands to improve shoulder stability.  To use your trainer for &quot;motivation&quot;&#44; you&#8217;d have to be seeing him a  whole lot more than once a week. One hour of training each week isn&#8217;t  going to do much for you.  FWIW.  Barbara  Barbara Hirsch&#44; Publisher  OBESITY MEDS AND RESEARCH NEWS  The latest in obesity research and weight loss drug development  http://www.obesity-news.com/ </p>
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<p>  Staying motivated is tough. &nbsp;With the new trainer you&#8217;ll have a leg up&#44; so   to speak. </p>
<p>i know&#44; right???  anyway&#44; well&#44; i&#8217;ve decided to keep my legs down. I know&#44; not the fun  choice&#44; but i&#8217;m over it.  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up  for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and  hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230;  </p>
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<p> well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up  for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and  hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230;   It is unethical for a trainer to date his trainee&#8230; &nbsp;so if you switch to   him&#44; don&#8217;t expect anything more than a professional relationship. </p>
<p>heh&#44; from what I hear I shouldn&#8217;t expect anything less&#8230;.but then  again&#44; i&#8217;m not really confident enough to proposition him. (not yet *wink*) </p>
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<p> well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up  for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and  hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230;   Paying your trainer to spend time with you because you have a crush on   him&#8230; I do not think it is a good deal. </p>
<p>i dunno. i feel like i&#8217;m paying for the company anyways. I mean sure  they guide you through the excercises and they kill you&#44; but it&#8217;s really  &nbsp; more of a motivator than anything else. Like i said in a previous  post&#44; SHAPE magazine has pull-out index cards every month with gym  excercises you can follow. &nbsp;It costs about $1000 for 20 training  sessions at my gym. Since I plan to be losing weight for at least  another&#8230;50 weeks&#44; what am i to do? buy 50 training sessions just so I  can have the motivation? i think all the talk about &quot;motivation comes  from within&quot; on this forum has laid that question to rest.  I can use that $2k towards my annual wardrobe budget &#8212; a better motivator. </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up  for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and  hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230;   No&#44; it&#8217;s not a good idea.   1) If you like your &nbsp;current trainer&#44; and are seeing the results you   want&#44; you should continue with her. Just cause this other trainer is   hot&#44; doesn&#8217;t mean he&#8217;ll train you as well. </p>
<p>he&#8217;s been there as long as she has and i know he&#8217;s a good trainer. &nbsp;I  see him everytime i go to the gym&#44; so he&#8217;s booked day all the time  basically.   2) Trainers are like health care providers. If they have a   professional relationship with you&#44; they should not be having an   intimate relationship with you. </p>
<p>yeah i was really just joking around. Are you kidding? i&#8217;m not going to  renew my training session! those things are expensive and seriously&#44; I  don&#8217;t have anything i need to target yet&#44; unless you count &quot;fat rolls  everywhere.&quot; and all the excercises my traininers guides me through now&#44;  well&#44; i can do it on my own with a &quot;SHAPE&quot; magazine subscription.   So if what you really want to do is date this guy&#44; then you have ample   opportunity to get to know him in the gym. And since he won&#8217;t be YOUR   personal trainer&#44; he&#8217;ll be free to go out with you if it turns out   he&#8217;s as attracted to you and you are to him. </p>
<p>He is pretty hot and my trainer was nice enough to introduce us. &nbsp;We  talked a little bit and I made him laugh several times&#44; and vice versa.  Altho I&#8217;m not hideously ugly&#44; I&#8217;m not confident enough to date a  physical trainer! So&#8230;we&#8217;ll see&#8230;maybe this will serve as extra  motivation for me to visit the gym. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
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<p>Staying motivated is tough. &nbsp;With the new trainer you&#8217;ll have a leg up&#44; so  to speak. </p>
<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up   for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and   hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230;  </p>
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<p>  well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up   for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and   hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230; </p>
<p>What&#8217;s interesting is the fact that you even asked this question.  It defines you. </p>
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<p>   well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up   for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and   hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230; </p>
<p>It is unethical for a trainer to date his trainee&#8230; &nbsp;so if you switch to  him&#44; don&#8217;t expect anything more than a professional relationship. </p>
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<p> well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up  for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and  hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230; </p>
<p>No&#44; it&#8217;s not a good idea.  1) If you like your &nbsp;current trainer&#44; and are seeing the results you  want&#44; you should continue with her. Just cause this other trainer is  hot&#44; doesn&#8217;t mean he&#8217;ll train you as well.  2) Trainers are like health care providers. If they have a  professional relationship with you&#44; they should not be having an  intimate relationship with you.  So if what you really want to do is date this guy&#44; then you have ample  opportunity to get to know him in the gym. And since he won&#8217;t be YOUR  personal trainer&#44; he&#8217;ll be free to go out with you if it turns out  he&#8217;s as attracted to you and you are to him.  Barbara Hirsch&#44; Publisher  OBESITY MEDS AND RESEARCH NEWS  The latest in obesity research and weight loss drug development  http://www.obesity-news.com/ </p>
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<p>well&#44; not my own trainer but her collegue. My training sessions are up  for renewal and now i&#8217;m tempted to switch to him cuz he&#8217;s funny and  hot&#8230;hmmm&#8230;.wonder if this is a good idea&#8230; </p>
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<p>yes&#44; they are a little &#8216;boingy&#44;&#8217; but they do feel quite nice.  Make sure to get the right length- try it on first if you can.  m  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  been using them for years and love them&#8230; i have one on my already light   sadowsky and it makes it feel even more feather weight.   its the only strap that i like to use&#8230; they have a little bit of stretch   to them but it it is very little and it bounces right back&#8230;.. love love   love it    Hi&#44;    I&#8217;m thinking of ordering one of this straps&#44; I bought a leather padded    strap a while ago&#44; and while it was better than my old canvas Fender    strap&#44; the stitches on the sides also grab a little on my shoulder after    some time.    Does anyone have experience with this straps&#44; are they really    comfortable? Or other equally suitable for my Jazz copy and my 5 string?    (5 string on the heavy side&#44; jazz is even heavier&#8230;)    Here is the site:    http://www.comfortstrapp.com/    And the good thing is&#44; I found those in Germany&#44; they are sold by a    luthier that makes really nice basses too called Marleux&#44; if you don&#8217;t    know&#44; check it out:    http://www.marleaux-bass.com/eng/    Thanks    Chris    Looks like it would be comfortable&#44; I been using the levi padded strap&#44; I    like it very much.    BR  </p>
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<p>I have been using a Neotech bass strap for two years now. My Warwick is  heaver than my other basses and this strap has helped quite a bit. &#8211; George  http://www.musiciansfriend.com/srs7/g=bass/s=specials/search/detail/b&#8230; </p>
<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; Hi&#44;   I&#8217;m thinking of ordering one of this straps&#44; I bought a leather padded   strap a while ago&#44; and while it was better than my old canvas Fender   strap&#44; the stitches on the sides also grab a little on my shoulder after   some time.   Does anyone have experience with this straps&#44; are they really   comfortable? Or other equally suitable for my Jazz copy and my 5 string?   (5 string on the heavy side&#44; jazz is even heavier&#8230;)   Here is the site:   http://www.comfortstrapp.com/   And the good thing is&#44; I found those in Germany&#44; they are sold by a   luthier that makes really nice basses too called Marleux&#44; if you don&#8217;t   know&#44; check it out:   http://www.marleaux-bass.com/eng/   Thanks   Chris  </p>
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<p> yes&#44; they are a little &#8216;boingy&#44;&#8217; but they do feel quite nice.  Make sure to get the right length- try it on first if you can.  m </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also been using them for years and the do make a big difference.  I&#8217;ve got two of the 1st generation one size only ones that I had to  break the stitching and dismantle at the ends to get &#8216;em short enough.  Some guys have been very happy with this  http://wassermanuniform.com/noashok.htm  modified into a strap. I&#8217;m gonna order on for the bigass courier bag I  carry my rigging gear for work in. Should have it in a couple of  weeks.  jeffb </p>
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<p>One of the most comforable straps I owned was one I made myself&#44; out of a  length of stout leather belt &#8216;blank&#8217; about 44&quot; in length&#44; and nearly 3&quot; in  width; I bought this from a local anglers supply shop for about </p>
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<p>&#8216;Here&#8217;! &lt;g&gt;  just been a combo of &#8216;busy and sick&#8217; and &#8217;sick and busy&#8217;  all summer long&#8230;&#8230;  hugs to all&#44;  from ~Shelagh~  &quot;Beverley&quot; &lt;beverly.brow&#8230;@verizon.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:1v30d.9261$PK3.5045@trnddc08&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Did ya&#8217;ll hear that???  &gt; I was about to post a roll call but J did it. Unfortunately hers is buried  &gt; at the bottom under another heading!!!  &gt; Where the heck is everyone??? This newsgroup has been slow all summer but  &gt; lately it&#8217;s been so dead!!! To be honest right now I could not keep up  &gt; with  &gt; 100 posts a day but geez&#44; people&#44; please lets us know you are still alive  &gt; and kicking!!  &gt; I&#8217;ve got the County Fair coming up so I&#8217;m busier than a beehive trying to  &gt; get it all done. I went to the new Fair grounds today and the place was  &gt; one  &gt; big mud hole. OMG!!! How are we going to have a Fair under these  &gt; conditions??? Ivan had better blow itself out and not dump more water on  &gt; us  &gt; much less come near FL!!  &gt; Bev  </p>
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<p>Hi it&#8217;s me Pigmet and I&#8217;m here!  I have been busy however. I was playin Pirates for a while&#44; but then I  realized that I was not a pirate in my heart. &nbsp;I like givin things to  people. &nbsp;Plus I don&#8217;t like hurricanes that are so strong that I blow away  completely! &nbsp;So I will just be me&#44; Pigmet&#44; which is pretty great to be  anyways.  Mair is doin okay. &nbsp;She dropped back down to 10mg of pred after a burst to  30 mg. &nbsp;She&#8217;s havin just some mild shoulder pain today&#44; along with some  mental confusion. &nbsp;But I am helpin to remind her of things&#44; and together we  are doin okay.  Now everybody think of Anti Beverley&#44; cause she has a County Fair that she  has to make&#44; and this is a lot of work. &nbsp;I&#8217;m not big enough to really help&#44;  but I am big enough to send well-wishes.  Well-wishes to all of you&#44;  Pigmet  &quot;Beverley&quot; &lt;beverly.brow&#8230;@verizon.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:1v30d.9261$PK3.5045@trnddc08&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Did ya&#8217;ll hear that???  &gt; I was about to post a roll call but J did it. Unfortunately hers is buried  &gt; at the bottom under another heading!!!  &gt; Where the heck is everyone??? This newsgroup has been slow all summer but  &gt; lately it&#8217;s been so dead!!! To be honest right now I could not keep up  with  &gt; 100 posts a day but geez&#44; people&#44; please lets us know you are still alive  &gt; and kicking!!  &gt; I&#8217;ve got the County Fair coming up so I&#8217;m busier than a beehive trying to  &gt; get it all done. I went to the new Fair grounds today and the place was  one  &gt; big mud hole. OMG!!! How are we going to have a Fair under these  &gt; conditions??? Ivan had better blow itself out and not dump more water on  us  &gt; much less come near FL!!  &gt; Bev  </p>
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<p>Busy&#44; mostly. &nbsp;And my personal life has gone to hell lately. &nbsp;Still  trying to clean up the last of that mess. &nbsp;I believe things will be  better in the end&#44; but I&#8217;m really tired of the bullshit I&#8217;ve been  having to deal with. &nbsp;The stress has been a drain&#44; on top of moving.  &#8212;  Lee M.Thompson-Herbert &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;l&#8230;@retro.com &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;KoX 1995&#44; SP4  Head Muso&#44; White Rats Morris&#44; Faultline Morris  See my CafePress Shops: http://www.retro.com/employees/lee/CafePress.html  &quot;A head-on collision between Morticia Adams and Martha Stewart&quot; </p>
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<p>Lee Thompson-Herbert wrote:  &gt; Busy&#44; mostly. &nbsp;And my personal life has gone to hell lately. &nbsp;Still  &gt; trying to clean up the last of that mess. &nbsp;I believe things will be  &gt; better in the end&#44; but I&#8217;m really tired of the bullshit I&#8217;ve been  &gt; having to deal with. &nbsp;The stress has been a drain&#44; on top of moving. </p>
<p>Hello Lee&#44;  Thanks for taking the time to answer the roll call.  I hope some things get better for you soon&#44;  J </p>
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<p>Mary Ann wrote:  &gt; Hi all! &nbsp;Haven&#8217;t been keeping track of the lupus news lately. &nbsp;Guess  &gt; I&#8217;ve been &quot;hunkering down&quot; too many times. &nbsp;Sure is stressful. &quot;Charley&quot;  &gt; missed us by 10 miles to the south and a &quot;Frances&#8217;&quot; tornado belt missed  &gt; us 7 miles to the north!..The third time worries me a little. &nbsp;Cookie  &gt; (dog) and Pearl (cat) are good indicators that a hurricane is on the way  &gt; again&#8230;&#8230; If I felt a little better I would have taken off for  &gt; Illinois&#44; but really didn&#8217;t feel up to it. &nbsp;If I had done that the last  &gt; 2 times&#44; &nbsp;I couldn&#8217;t have stopped midway because either hurricane would  &gt; have caught up with me!! &nbsp;Really makes life intereesting. &nbsp;My shutters  &gt; are all down&#44; so I am prepared&#8212;again!!&#8230;&#8230;. Gentle hugs to all.  &gt; Mary Ann.. </p>
<p>Stay safe&#44; hun&#44;  Hugs  J </p>
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<p>BJ wrote:  &gt; I am here too. I agree&#44; it has been very quiet around here. I keep meaning  &gt; to tell you that I think you and G clean up very nicely. &lt;g&gt; What a lovely  &gt; picture of the two of you. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll second that !  &gt; The pain from the shingles is almost gone. The last of the lesions are  &gt; almost healed too. I am happy that is behind me. I have something else that  &gt; has to be handled. It isn&#8217;t serious&#44; but I do have to go to the hospital on  &gt; the 27th to get that fixed. It has been a summer of one thing after another.  &gt; We all seem to manage in our own way&#44; so I am muddling along. </p>
<p>Good to hear that the shingles is improving.  Best wishes with the &quot;fixing&quot; on the 27th.  Hugs BJ  J </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -janers wrote:  &gt; Since the biopsy came back NEGATIVE&#44; I have been trying to get my body rid  &gt; of this chest&#44; (RIB) pain and back on track&#44; but it is taking me awhile.  &gt; Celebrex will kick in and then go from there&#44; back to my walking machine  &gt; with high hopes.  &gt; We are also preparing for a trip to York Pennsylvania. &nbsp;Going to a motor  &gt; home rally and meet folks with motor homes like ours. &nbsp;Never been to one so  &gt; if this is too much&#44; never again. &nbsp;We will be on our own but there is lots  &gt; to do and we&#44; thankfully&#44; do not have to do anything we can&#8217;t or won&#8217;t.  &gt; That is a nice part.  &gt; Then our DIL is due Oct now but they moved the due date up. &nbsp;NOW watch it  &gt; happend when we are on our way HOME . &nbsp;Then we will go to their area in  &gt; Ohio and stay at a RV park for a few days. &nbsp;Another baby to hold. heheheh  &gt; The Little one now is growing and doing ok but fighting intolerance to  &gt; forumula and haveing diarrhea all the time. &nbsp;even did with breast milk&#44; now  &gt; daughter can not do that&#44; dried up early. </p>
<p>The motor home rally sounds like fun&#44; Janers.  Hope the delivery timing works out for you.  Hugs  J </p>
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<p>Chaos Hill wrote:  &gt; Lurking off and on&#8230; keeping up as best I can&#8230;. but here&#8230;. &nbsp;hope all  &gt; you FL folks are ok and neighbors dry as well!  &gt; Doing pretty well lately&#44; keeping busy in the yard/garden and contemplating  &gt; the universe. Autumnal changes in the weather have my internal barometer  &gt; acting up&#44; but otherwise life is good.  &gt; Leslie </p>
<p>Aww another who&#8217;s affected by the barometer.  Good to hear that you&#8217;re doing pretty good&#44; despite that.  It all started with the Harvest Moon&#44; then the geese&#44; there&#8217;s the most beautiful  starry sky out there tonight.  It&#8217;s awesome to see ourselves in terms of the universe (so tiny)&#44; yet so  powerful (in terms of little bugs).  [end &quot;What is the meaning of life&quot; rant] &lt;smile&gt;  Hugs  J </p>
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<p>Mair wrote:  &gt; Hi it&#8217;s me Pigmet and I&#8217;m here!  &gt; I have been busy however. I was playin Pirates for a while&#44; but then I  &gt; realized that I was not a pirate in my heart. &nbsp;I like givin things to  &gt; people. &nbsp;Plus I don&#8217;t like hurricanes that are so strong that I blow away  &gt; completely! &nbsp;So I will just be me&#44; Pigmet&#44; which is pretty great to be  &gt; anyways.  &gt; Mair is doin okay. &nbsp;She dropped back down to 10mg of pred after a burst to  &gt; 30 mg. &nbsp;She&#8217;s havin just some mild shoulder pain today&#44; along with some  &gt; mental confusion. &nbsp;But I am helpin to remind her of things&#44; and together we  &gt; are doin okay. </p>
<p>Yep&#44; you is pretty great to be&#8230;  So happy to hear from Pigmet and know that both you and Mair are doing well.  Hugs to you both&#44;  J </p>
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<p>Shelagh wrote:  &gt; &#8216;Here&#8217;! &lt;g&gt;  &gt; just been a combo of &#8216;busy and sick&#8217; and &#8217;sick and busy&#8217;  &gt; all summer long&#8230;&#8230;  &gt; hugs to all&#44;  &gt; from ~Shelagh~ </p>
<p>Good to hear from you&#44; Shelagh&#44;  I heard that your province had a lot of (high) heat this year.  I hope you feel some better soon.  Hugs to you&#44;  J </p>
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<p>Beverley wrote:  &gt; I&#8217;ve got the County Fair coming up so I&#8217;m busier than a beehive trying to  &gt; get it all done. I went to the new Fair grounds today and the place was one  &gt; big mud hole. OMG!!! How are we going to have a Fair under these  &gt; conditions??? Ivan had better blow itself out and not dump more water on us  &gt; much less come near FL!! </p>
<p>oh ! oh! get your rubber boots out.  Work hard (reverse psychology) &lt;smile&gt;  Hugs Bev&#44; I know you&#8217;ll get it done&#44; but please take care of you&#44; too&#44;  J </p>
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<p>I am checking in. &nbsp;Sorry haven&#8217;t posted in forever. &nbsp;Just started back  up on my shots again after taking almost two months off due to this  cantanous lupus flare or episode. &nbsp;Hope everyone is having a good  summer. &nbsp;Melody aka Lassy </p>
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<p>Thanks J  Sweet of you to check up on &#8216;all of us&#8217; loopy loopers.  Stay well yourself!!  Take good care of you and  *not only just cause you are &#8216;needed&#8217; here &lt;g&gt;!!  Hugs from  ~Shelagh~  &quot;J&quot; &lt;ex&#8230;@privacy.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:4142DA6D.E456191F@execulink.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Shelagh wrote:  &gt;&gt; &#8216;Here&#8217;! &lt;g&gt;  &gt;&gt; just been a combo of &#8216;busy and sick&#8217; and &#8217;sick and busy&#8217;  &gt;&gt; all summer long&#8230;&#8230;  &gt;&gt; hugs to all&#44;  &gt;&gt; from ~Shelagh~  &gt; Good to hear from you&#44; Shelagh&#44;  &gt; I heard that your province had a lot of (high) heat this year.  &gt; I hope you feel some better soon.  &gt; Hugs to you&#44;  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Lee are you actually in your new place?  I hate unloading boxes. to me they are like rabbits you put two boxes in a  closet and the next time you open the door there are six boxes in there.  <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' />   Bev  &quot;Lee Thompson-Herbert&quot; &lt;l&#8230;@retro.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:41429297$0$8082$a1866201@newsreader.dsl.net&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Busy&#44; mostly. &nbsp;And my personal life has gone to hell lately. &nbsp;Still  &gt; trying to clean up the last of that mess. &nbsp;I believe things will be  &gt; better in the end&#44; but I&#8217;m really tired of the bullshit I&#8217;ve been  &gt; having to deal with. &nbsp;The stress has been a drain&#44; on top of moving.  &gt; &#8212;  &gt; Lee M.Thompson-Herbert &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;l&#8230;@retro.com &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; KoX 1995&#44; SP4  &gt; Head Muso&#44; White Rats Morris&#44; Faultline Morris  &gt; See my CafePress Shops: http://www.retro.com/employees/lee/CafePress.html  &gt; &quot;A head-on collision between Morticia Adams and Martha Stewart&quot;  </p>
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<p>How&#8217;s your daughter? Weren&#8217;t they testing her for lupus?  Bev  &quot;Lassy Lass&quot; &lt;lassyinc&#8230;@webtv.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:3039-414327EF-688@storefull-3216.bay.webtv.net&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; I am checking in. &nbsp;Sorry haven&#8217;t posted in forever. &nbsp;Just started back  &gt; up on my shots again after taking almost two months off due to this  &gt; cantanous lupus flare or episode. &nbsp;Hope everyone is having a good  &gt; summer. &nbsp;Melody aka Lassy  </p>
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<p>CP here. &nbsp;On and off computer problems during the summer. &nbsp;Now back to  school for another year. &nbsp;Struggling with fatigue but otherwise doing  pretty well. </p>
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<p>I have just been busy taking care of my grandkids&#8230;Been pretty tired all  the time&#8230;  Glad to hear all have missed the wrath of the hurricanes so far..Praying  that Ivan fizzles out in the middle of the gulf&#8230;  Bev&#44; Hope you take it easy with the fair&#8230;Do not over do it&#8230;  Sending you all hugs and prayers..  Cindy  &quot;Beverley&quot; &lt;beverly.brow&#8230;@verizon.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:1v30d.9261$PK3.5045@trnddc08&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Did ya&#8217;ll hear that???  &gt; I was about to post a roll call but J did it. Unfortunately hers is buried  &gt; at the bottom under another heading!!!  &gt; Where the heck is everyone??? This newsgroup has been slow all summer but  &gt; lately it&#8217;s been so dead!!! To be honest right now I could not keep up  &gt; with  &gt; 100 posts a day but geez&#44; people&#44; please lets us know you are still alive  &gt; and kicking!!  &gt; I&#8217;ve got the County Fair coming up so I&#8217;m busier than a beehive trying to  &gt; get it all done. I went to the new Fair grounds today and the place was  &gt; one  &gt; big mud hole. OMG!!! How are we going to have a Fair under these  &gt; conditions??? Ivan had better blow itself out and not dump more water on  &gt; us  &gt; much less come near FL!!  &gt; Bev  </p>
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<p>In article &lt;1UO0d.4727$iS2.1627@trnddc09&gt;&#44;  Beverley &lt;beverly.brow&#8230;@verizon.net&gt; wrote:  &gt;Lee are you actually in your new place?  &gt;I hate unloading boxes. to me they are like rabbits you put two boxes in a  &gt;closet and the next time you open the door there are six boxes in there. </p>
<p>Yeah&#44; we&#8217;ve been in the new place about a month now. &nbsp;Compared to the  Hellhole House&#44; this is great. &nbsp;All the windows and doors actually work&#44;  I don&#8217;t have to strain anything to make them open and close. &nbsp;I get a choice  as to which hand to use. &nbsp;Some of the shelves even roll out&#44; so I don&#8217;t have  to reach and stretch as much for things&#44; and the cabnets are better laid-out  than the old place. &nbsp;And I can get my walker into all the rooms. &nbsp;Actually&#44;  I can get the wheelchair into all the rooms if I have it in the house. &nbsp;No  ramp yet&#44; though. &nbsp;All in all&#44; a much better place for me.  The garage is full of boxes. &nbsp;Very organized&#44; but full of boxes. &nbsp;Sigh.  &#8212;  Lee M.Thompson-Herbert &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;l&#8230;@retro.com &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;KoX 1995&#44; SP4  Head Muso&#44; White Rats Morris&#44; Faultline Morris  See my CafePress Shops: http://www.retro.com/employees/lee/CafePress.html  &quot;A head-on collision between Morticia Adams and Martha Stewart&quot; </p>
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<p>FYI&#8230; CELEBREX is a sulfa based drug I beleive&#44; so it may be helping and  harming you at the same time. &nbsp;Anyone with lupus should avoid any food or  medicine with sulfa or sulfites.  Terrice </p>
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<p>I have checked this site daily for the last month and as Beverly said&#44; it  is &quot;dead&quot; here &gt;&gt;LOL  so I just never posted or had much time either.  Since the biopsy came back NEGATIVE&#44; I have been trying to get my body rid  of this chest&#44; (RIB) pain and back on track&#44; but it is taking me awhile.  Celebrex will kick in and then go from there&#44; back to my walking machine  with high hopes.  We are also preparing for a trip to York Pennsylvania. &nbsp;Going to a motor  home rally and meet folks with motor homes like ours. &nbsp;Never been to one so  if this is too much&#44; never again. &nbsp;We will be on our own but there is lots  to do and we&#44; thankfully&#44; do not have to do anything we can&#8217;t or won&#8217;t.  That is a nice part.  Then our DIL is due Oct now but they moved the due date up. &nbsp;NOW watch it  happend when we are on our way HOME . &nbsp;Then we will go to their area in  Ohio and stay at a RV park for a few days. &nbsp;Another baby to hold. heheheh  The Little one now is growing and doing ok but fighting intolerance to  forumula and haveing diarrhea all the time. &nbsp;even did with breast milk&#44; now  daughter can not do that&#44; dried up early.  well time to go. &nbsp;I am hanging loose  hugs to all  janers </p>
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<p>Hi Bev&#44;  I am here too. I agree&#44; it has been very quiet around here. I keep meaning  to tell you that I think you and G clean up very nicely. &lt;g&gt; What a lovely  picture of the two of you.  The pain from the shingles is almost gone. The last of the lesions are  almost healed too. I am happy that is behind me. I have something else that  has to be handled. It isn&#8217;t serious&#44; but I do have to go to the hospital on  the 27th to get that fixed. It has been a summer of one thing after another.  We all seem to manage in our own way&#44; so I am muddling along.  BJ-Sk. Canada  &quot;Beverley&quot; &lt;beverly.brow&#8230;@verizon.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:1v30d.9261$PK3.5045@trnddc08&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Did ya&#8217;ll hear that???  &gt; I was about to post a roll call but J did it. Unfortunately hers is buried  &gt; at the bottom under another heading!!!  &gt; Where the heck is everyone??? This newsgroup has been slow all summer but  &gt; lately it&#8217;s been so dead!!! To be honest right now I could not keep up  with  &gt; 100 posts a day but geez&#44; people&#44; please lets us know you are still alive  &gt; and kicking!!  &gt; I&#8217;ve got the County Fair coming up so I&#8217;m busier than a beehive trying to  &gt; get it all done. I went to the new Fair grounds today and the place was  one  &gt; big mud hole. OMG!!! How are we going to have a Fair under these  &gt; conditions??? Ivan had better blow itself out and not dump more water on  us  &gt; much less come near FL!!  &gt; Bev  </p>
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<p>Where&#8217;s Cloud???  She might still be without elect. She did evacuate but she did return home.  Still&#44; we&#8217;ve not heard from her.  Bev  &quot;Beverley&quot; &lt;beverly.brow&#8230;@verizon.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:1v30d.9261$PK3.5045@trnddc08&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Did ya&#8217;ll hear that???  &gt; I was about to post a roll call but J did it. Unfortunately hers is buried  &gt; at the bottom under another heading!!!  &gt; Where the heck is everyone??? This newsgroup has been slow all summer but  &gt; lately it&#8217;s been so dead!!! To be honest right now I could not keep up  with  &gt; 100 posts a day but geez&#44; people&#44; please lets us know you are still alive  &gt; and kicking!!  &gt; I&#8217;ve got the County Fair coming up so I&#8217;m busier than a beehive trying to  &gt; get it all done. I went to the new Fair grounds today and the place was  one  &gt; big mud hole. OMG!!! How are we going to have a Fair under these  &gt; conditions??? Ivan had better blow itself out and not dump more water on  us  &gt; much less come near FL!!  &gt; Bev  </p>
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<p>Hi Mary Ann&#44;  You are going through some very stressful and frightening times. Be safe. I  will be glad when all of this is over for you.  Report in as you can.  BJ-Sk. Canada  &quot;Mary Ann&quot; &lt;mafreri&#8230;@webtv.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:12925-4141BAE7-135@storefull-3114.bay.webtv.net&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hi all! &nbsp;Haven&#8217;t been keeping track of the lupus news lately. &nbsp;Guess  &gt; I&#8217;ve been &quot;hunkering down&quot; too many times. &nbsp;Sure is stressful. &quot;Charley&quot;  &gt; missed us by 10 miles to the south and a &quot;Frances&#8217;&quot; tornado belt missed  &gt; us 7 miles to the north!..The third time worries me a little. &nbsp;Cookie  &gt; (dog) and Pearl (cat) are good indicators that a hurricane is on the way  &gt; again&#8230;&#8230; If I felt a little better I would have taken off for  &gt; Illinois&#44; but really didn&#8217;t feel up to it. &nbsp;If I had done that the last  &gt; 2 times&#44; &nbsp;I couldn&#8217;t have stopped midway because either hurricane would  &gt; have caught up with me!! &nbsp;Really makes life intereesting. &nbsp;My shutters  &gt; are all down&#44; so I am prepared&#8212;again!!&#8230;&#8230;. Gentle hugs to all.  &gt; Mary Ann..  </p>
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<p>Hi all! &nbsp;Haven&#8217;t been keeping track of the lupus news lately. &nbsp;Guess  I&#8217;ve been &quot;hunkering down&quot; too many times. &nbsp;Sure is stressful. &quot;Charley&quot;  missed us by 10 miles to the south and a &quot;Frances&#8217;&quot; tornado belt missed  us 7 miles to the north!..The third time worries me a little. &nbsp;Cookie  (dog) and Pearl (cat) are good indicators that a hurricane is on the way  again&#8230;&#8230; If I felt a little better I would have taken off for  Illinois&#44; but really didn&#8217;t feel up to it. &nbsp;If I had done that the last  2 times&#44; &nbsp;I couldn&#8217;t have stopped midway because either hurricane would  have caught up with me!! &nbsp;Really makes life intereesting. &nbsp;My shutters  are all down&#44; so I am prepared&#8212;again!!&#8230;&#8230;. Gentle hugs to all.  Mary Ann.. &nbsp; </p>
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<p>Oh&#44; no you too? I didn&#8217;t realize you were there too. I have too many friends  down there. One has already been told to evacuate but she can&#8217;t figure out  how because there is no gas at any of the gas stations!! &nbsp;Keep in touch the  best you can and let us know if you are okay or if you have evacuated&#44; etc.  Bev  &quot;Mary Ann&quot; &lt;mafreri&#8230;@webtv.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:12925-4141BAE7-135@storefull-3114.bay.webtv.net&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hi all! &nbsp;Haven&#8217;t been keeping track of the lupus news lately. &nbsp;Guess  &gt; I&#8217;ve been &quot;hunkering down&quot; too many times. &nbsp;Sure is stressful. &quot;Charley&quot;  &gt; missed us by 10 miles to the south and a &quot;Frances&#8217;&quot; tornado belt missed  &gt; us 7 miles to the north!..The third time worries me a little. &nbsp;Cookie  &gt; (dog) and Pearl (cat) are good indicators that a hurricane is on the way  &gt; again&#8230;&#8230; If I felt a little better I would have taken off for  &gt; Illinois&#44; but really didn&#8217;t feel up to it. &nbsp;If I had done that the last  &gt; 2 times&#44; &nbsp;I couldn&#8217;t have stopped midway because either hurricane would  &gt; have caught up with me!! &nbsp;Really makes life intereesting. &nbsp;My shutters  &gt; are all down&#44; so I am prepared&#8212;again!!&#8230;&#8230;. Gentle hugs to all.  &gt; Mary Ann..  </p>
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Hi Bev&#44;  That is a good plan. I think things like this are part of the reason that  health costs are so high. The worst part is that you have someone who is ill  driving all that way for nothing. I have had that happen. I am a placid  person&#44; but [...]]]></description>
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<p>Hi Bev&#44;  That is a good plan. I think things like this are part of the reason that  health costs are so high. The worst part is that you have someone who is ill  driving all that way for nothing. I have had that happen. I am a placid  person&#44; but have reacted badly to that sort of thing.  BJ-shivering in SK.  &quot;Beverley&quot; &lt;pottings&#8230;@sybercom.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:u7t0agg1kf3m46@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Why can&#8217;t we bill them for wasting our time? I bet you had a bill for  &gt; today&#8217;s visit!  &gt; Bev  &gt; &quot;rothnie browning&quot; &lt;browningandskenewordsmi&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in  message  &gt; news:G6vf8.834$K4l.597@news2.bloor.is&#8230;  &gt; &gt; thanks for asking re. my x-rays. Drove to next town &quot; Barrie &quot; to see my  &gt; dr.  &gt; &gt; OH he says &#44; you had it done Tues. hmm they have not told me he says &#44;  so  &gt; he  &gt; &gt; ph. and they tell him oooo yah &#44; they are not read yet and that dr. is  not  &gt; &gt; in till afternoon.  &gt; &gt; So I leave still gurgling and drive home again . So here I sit waiting  &gt; &gt; GRRRRR!!  &gt; &gt; Bruce On. -10 &#44; stopped snowing:))))  </p>
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<p>thanks for asking re. my x-rays. Drove to next town &quot; Barrie &quot; to see my dr.  OH he says &#44; you had it done Tues. hmm they have not told me he says &#44; so he  ph. and they tell him oooo yah &#44; they are not read yet and that dr. is not  in till afternoon.  So I leave still gurgling and drive home again . So here I sit waiting  GRRRRR!!  Bruce On. -10 &#44; stopped snowing:)))) </p>
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<p>Why can&#8217;t we bill them for wasting our time? I bet you had a bill for  today&#8217;s visit!  Bev  &quot;rothnie browning&quot; &lt;browningandskenewordsmi&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:G6vf8.834$K4l.597@news2.bloor.is&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; thanks for asking re. my x-rays. Drove to next town &quot; Barrie &quot; to see my  dr.  &gt; OH he says &#44; you had it done Tues. hmm they have not told me he says &#44; so  he  &gt; ph. and they tell him oooo yah &#44; they are not read yet and that dr. is not  &gt; in till afternoon.  &gt; So I leave still gurgling and drive home again . So here I sit waiting  &gt; GRRRRR!!  &gt; Bruce On. -10 &#44; stopped snowing:))))  </p>
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<p>Hi Bruce&#44;  That is so frustrating. It is maddening when you waste time and energy that  way. Will your doctor just phone you with results now? I hope you are not  feeling too ill.  BJ-SK&#8212;YUK&#44; it&#8217;s cold.  &quot;rothnie browning&quot; &lt;browningandskenewordsmi&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:G6vf8.834$K4l.597@news2.bloor.is&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; thanks for asking re. my x-rays. Drove to next town &quot; Barrie &quot; to see my  dr.  &gt; OH he says &#44; you had it done Tues. hmm they have not told me he says &#44; so  he  &gt; ph. and they tell him oooo yah &#44; they are not read yet and that dr. is not  &gt; in till afternoon.  &gt; So I leave still gurgling and drive home again . So here I sit waiting  &gt; GRRRRR!!  &gt; Bruce On. -10 &#44; stopped snowing:))))  </p>
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<p>I think you must be very sweet by nature. You welcome to the group andmake  people smile. I didn&#8217;t have anything important to say&#44; just that. </p>
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<p>Dear LR&#44;  What a lovely thing to say. I am having another bad week&#44; but you just made  it seem better. I hope things are better for you.  Fond Regards&#44;  BJ  &quot;LightRainbow&quot; &lt;lightrain&#8230;@aol.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:20011105142954.28641.00003056@mb-cg.aol.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; I think you must be very sweet by nature. You welcome to the group andmake  &gt; people smile. I didn&#8217;t have anything important to say&#44; just that.  </p>
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<p>On 05 Nov 2001 19:29:54 GMT&#44; lightrain&#8230;@aol.com (LightRainbow)  wrote:  &gt;I think you must be very sweet by nature. You welcome to the group andmake  &gt;people smile. I didn&#8217;t have anything important to say&#44; just that. </p>
<p>Oh I don&#8217;t know. &nbsp;That sounds pretty important to me. &nbsp; </p>
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<p>I agree with Light Rainbow you are very sweet I do hope you start feeling  better soon  Soft hugs Cindy  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -BJ wrote:  &gt; Dear LR&#44;  &gt; What a lovely thing to say. I am having another bad week&#44; but you just made  &gt; it seem better. I hope things are better for you.  &gt; Fond Regards&#44;  &gt; BJ  &gt; &quot;LightRainbow&quot; &lt;lightrain&#8230;@aol.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:20011105142954.28641.00003056@mb-cg.aol.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; I think you must be very sweet by nature. You welcome to the group andmake  &gt; &gt; people smile. I didn&#8217;t have anything important to say&#44; just that.  </p>
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<p>Hey&#44; BJ &#8211; wouildn&#8217;t you like to visit SoCal? &nbsp;I&#8217;ve got lots of room&#44;  and lots of rooms that need cleaning&lt;g&gt;!  BJ &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:vFI%7.1314$iOo3.10093007@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; Well&#44; my old girl (13) is bathed&#44;dried and groomed. I do them in the  &gt; bathtub. They are Golden Retrievers so not the right size for the shower.  I  &gt; don&#8217;t think the underbelly could be rinsed properly that way&#44; even if they  &gt; could fit in there. Nerve pain is different from any other kind. If you  have  &gt; a nerve in your shoulder that is bothering you it helps to get a glimpse  of  &gt; what happens to me. It may be hard to believe&#44; but this is true. Every  part  &gt; of my body was assalted by that pain. Now you know why I say I would  rather  &gt; check out now&#44; than go through that again. It lasts over several months. I  &gt; said to my husband that I wouldn&#8217;t let an animal suffer that way and yet  &gt; nobody offered me anything that would allow me to sleep even for a  15minute  &gt; period. It was a nightmare.As usual&#44; you have wowed me with websites. That  &gt; is interesting. I have moved to doing laundry now. Gee&#44; my husband is  right.  &gt; I do talk in riddles and jump from one subject to another. Oh well&#44; you  are  &gt; likely getting used to me too. I just feel the need to clean things up and  &gt; get my dogs looking nice. Maybe I&#8217;m pregnant and it is the nesting  instinct  &gt; kicking in. Man&#44; that would be a medical miracle. Take care.  &gt; BJ  &gt; &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:3C3F4058.DDA835FC@rogers.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Hello BJ&#44;  &gt; &gt; I mop the baseboards too. &nbsp;I&#8217;ve been working on cleaning doors and  &gt; doorframes  &gt; &gt; (only 5 but it&#8217;s taken me a week) and going thru papers to throw some  out.  &gt; &gt; Yep&#44; I tell my cats&#44; now the floor is clean enough to eat off..then Katy  &gt; drops a  &gt; &gt; furball&#44; then I tell her what a good job she did&#44; get out the cleaning  &gt; stuff and  &gt; &gt; clean it up. &nbsp;Yes&#44; it&#8217;s interesting in the sunlight to see paw prints  (and  &gt; my  &gt; &gt; own footprints) all over the floors. &nbsp;Was thinking today I probably  &gt; wouldn&#8217;t be  &gt; &gt; good at floor-painting. I&#8217;d end up in the &quot;proverbial  corner&#8230;waiting&#8230;  &gt; &gt; I think I have an idea what the neuralgia is like. &nbsp;When I move my right  &gt; arm a  &gt; &gt; certain way&#44; I get nerve pain in the upper arm. &nbsp;Mom had similar in her  &gt; face for  &gt; &gt; over 20 years. &nbsp;At the time&#44; they didn&#8217;t have /give the kinds of meds  they  &gt; do  &gt; &gt; now.  &gt; &gt; Thought you might be interested in this.  &gt; &gt; http://www.cosmiverse.com/science01110205.html  &gt; &gt; Research is great but I wished they&#8217;d only make announcements when they  &gt; have the  &gt; &gt; solution.  &gt; &gt; I&#8217;m glad your doctor is understanding and on board with the meds.  &gt; &gt; Your right&#44; some of the shoulder pain has gotten better now. (except  when  &gt; I try  &gt; &gt; to sleep on that side). &nbsp;And I&#8217;ve still got the tennis elbow thing  &gt; happening.  &gt; &gt; How do you bath your dog? &nbsp;My friend&#8217;s hubby takes his into the shower  &gt; with him&#44;  &gt; &gt; then lets the dog shake the water off&#44; lets him out into the house&#44; then  &gt; &gt; continues to shower himself. &nbsp;Says it&#8217;s the least messiest way of doing  &gt; it.  &gt; &gt; You sound tired. &nbsp;Hope you don&#8217;t overdo.  &gt; &gt; Take care&#44;  &gt; &gt; J  &gt; &gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; I do scrub along the baseboard and resort to a mop for the rest. My  dogs  &gt; &gt; &gt; made foot prints on the floor already. I always say that I want them  to  &gt; have  &gt; &gt; &gt; a clean floor on which to shed&#44; drool&#44; and make paw marks. That is a  &gt; price I  &gt; &gt; &gt; pay for companionship. I have had three knee surgeries&#44; so kneeling is  &gt; &gt; &gt; painful for me too. It is nothing like neuralgia though. Even my teeth  &gt; hurt  &gt; &gt; &gt; when I have that. I swear that my hair hurts when I have it in my  scalp.  &gt; It  &gt; &gt; &gt; did inspire me to talk to my doc about pain management though. He came  &gt; in on  &gt; &gt; &gt; my case in the middle of my last flare. The rheumy was not receptive  to  &gt; our  &gt; &gt; &gt; pleas for pain meds. This doctor has put a plan in place should I go  &gt; through  &gt; &gt; &gt; the same thing again. He wrote it in my file. I am not talking about  &gt; joint&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; bone&#44; and muscle pain&#44; which is bad enough in itself. I am talking  about  &gt; the  &gt; &gt; &gt; neuralogical stuff. The neuropathic pain is enough to make suicide  seem  &gt; like  &gt; &gt; &gt; the only way out. He is more than willing to give me morphine to get  me  &gt; &gt; &gt; through it. He said that if I ever feel that he is not understanding  &gt; &gt; &gt; anything I am trying to discuss with him; I should tell him that he  &gt; isn&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; &gt; hearing me. He said I could tell him anything. I was nervous about the  &gt; &gt; &gt; discussion. I thought he may say that he would start with something  like  &gt; &gt; &gt; Demerol&#44; which is like taking an aspirin when it comes to pain like  &gt; that. I  &gt; &gt; &gt; must have described it well enough because he didn&#8217;t hesitate about  &gt; going to  &gt; &gt; &gt; the big guns. It is reassuring for me. I fell confident that with all  of  &gt; the  &gt; &gt; &gt; suppressing drugs and my changes in life style that I can avoid  another  &gt; &gt; &gt; major flare. It is good to know that there is a plan just in case  things  &gt; go  &gt; &gt; &gt; bad. The CNS stuff is so hard. I get brain dead when it flares. I  &gt; wouldn&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; &gt; remember how to make coffee&#44; can&#8217;t form thoughts and I am at a loss to  &gt; &gt; &gt; explain to the rheumy what is happening. See what happens when you ask  a  &gt; &gt; &gt; question. I get verbal diarrhea and you can&#8217;t shut me up. I was  thinking  &gt; &gt; &gt; about your shoulder. Whenever I have cort injections it seems worse  for  &gt; at  &gt; &gt; &gt; least two days. The doc always says to rest the joint. The pain seems  to  &gt; &gt; &gt; magically disappear after a few days. Maybe it is just taking a little  &gt; &gt; &gt; longer for you too. It is mild here too. We have had record breaking  &gt; high  &gt; &gt; &gt; temps. I want to bath my old dog today. It would be nice to have clean  &gt; dog  &gt; &gt; &gt; hair dust bunnies rolling across my clean floor. I do feel good when I  &gt; &gt; &gt; accomplish something big. I feel like I then have a reason to feel  &gt; tired. I  &gt; &gt; &gt; think a lot of my feelings of self worth come from what I can do in a  &gt; day.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Not a good attitude for a lupie I guess. I can get really down on  myself  &gt; if  &gt; &gt; &gt; I waste the whole day resting. Sometimes I wish we lived in the city  &gt; where  &gt; &gt; &gt; there would be far less work to do. Man&#44; I am on a tangent. Button it  &gt; BJ.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Hope you have a good day.  &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ  </p>
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<p>JARogow &lt;JARo&#8230;@home.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:TkE08.35120$B61.12152332@news1.rsm1.occa.home.com&#8230;  &gt; Hey&#44; BJ &#8211; wouildn&#8217;t you like to visit SoCal? &nbsp;I&#8217;ve got lots of room&#44;  &gt; and lots of rooms that need cleaning&lt;g&gt;! </p>
<p>Wow &#8211; you can tell I&#8217;m tired &#8211; posing email and misspelling.  Sorry </p>
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<p>Yes Judith&#44; I would love to come. I just need a few days of rest first. That  will give you time to send me an airline ticket.  BJ- freezing her buns in S. Sk.  &quot;JARogow&quot; &lt;JARo&#8230;@home.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:TkE08.35120$B61.12152332@news1.rsm1.occa.home.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hey&#44; BJ &#8211; wouildn&#8217;t you like to visit SoCal? &nbsp;I&#8217;ve got lots of room&#44;  &gt; and lots of rooms that need cleaning&lt;g&gt;!  &gt; BJ &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:vFI%7.1314$iOo3.10093007@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; Well&#44; my old girl (13) is bathed&#44;dried and groomed. I do them in the  &gt; &gt; bathtub. They are Golden Retrievers so not the right size for the  shower.  &gt; I  &gt; &gt; don&#8217;t think the underbelly could be rinsed properly that way&#44; even if  they  &gt; &gt; could fit in there. Nerve pain is different from any other kind. If you  &gt; have  &gt; &gt; a nerve in your shoulder that is bothering you it helps to get a glimpse  &gt; of  &gt; &gt; what happens to me. It may be hard to believe&#44; but this is true. Every  &gt; part  &gt; &gt; of my body was assalted by that pain. Now you know why I say I would  &gt; rather  &gt; &gt; check out now&#44; than go through that again. It lasts over several months.  I  &gt; &gt; said to my husband that I wouldn&#8217;t let an animal suffer that way and yet  &gt; &gt; nobody offered me anything that would allow me to sleep even for a  &gt; 15minute  &gt; &gt; period. It was a nightmare.As usual&#44; you have wowed me with websites.  That  &gt; &gt; is interesting. I have moved to doing laundry now. Gee&#44; my husband is  &gt; right.  &gt; &gt; I do talk in riddles and jump from one subject to another. Oh well&#44; you  &gt; are  &gt; &gt; likely getting used to me too. I just feel the need to clean things up  and  &gt; &gt; get my dogs looking nice. Maybe I&#8217;m pregnant and it is the nesting  &gt; instinct  &gt; &gt; kicking in. Man&#44; that would be a medical miracle. Take care.  &gt; &gt; BJ  &gt; &gt; &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; news:3C3F4058.DDA835FC@rogers.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; Hello BJ&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; I mop the baseboards too. &nbsp;I&#8217;ve been working on cleaning doors and  &gt; &gt; doorframes  &gt; &gt; &gt; (only 5 but it&#8217;s taken me a week) and going thru papers to throw some  &gt; out.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Yep&#44; I tell my cats&#44; now the floor is clean enough to eat off..then  Katy  &gt; &gt; drops a  &gt; &gt; &gt; furball&#44; then I tell her what a good job she did&#44; get out the cleaning  &gt; &gt; stuff and  &gt; &gt; &gt; clean it up. &nbsp;Yes&#44; it&#8217;s interesting in the sunlight to see paw prints  &gt; (and  &gt; &gt; my  &gt; &gt; &gt; own footprints) all over the floors. &nbsp;Was thinking today I probably  &gt; &gt; wouldn&#8217;t be  &gt; &gt; &gt; good at floor-painting. I&#8217;d end up in the &quot;proverbial  &gt; corner&#8230;waiting&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; I think I have an idea what the neuralgia is like. &nbsp;When I move my  right  &gt; &gt; arm a  &gt; &gt; &gt; certain way&#44; I get nerve pain in the upper arm. &nbsp;Mom had similar in  her  &gt; &gt; face for  &gt; &gt; &gt; over 20 years. &nbsp;At the time&#44; they didn&#8217;t have /give the kinds of meds  &gt; they  &gt; &gt; do  &gt; &gt; &gt; now.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Thought you might be interested in this.  &gt; &gt; &gt; http://www.cosmiverse.com/science01110205.html  &gt; &gt; &gt; Research is great but I wished they&#8217;d only make announcements when  they  &gt; &gt; have the  &gt; &gt; &gt; solution.  &gt; &gt; &gt; I&#8217;m glad your doctor is understanding and on board with the meds.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Your right&#44; some of the shoulder pain has gotten better now. (except  &gt; when  &gt; &gt; I try  &gt; &gt; &gt; to sleep on that side). &nbsp;And I&#8217;ve still got the tennis elbow thing  &gt; &gt; happening.  &gt; &gt; &gt; How do you bath your dog? &nbsp;My friend&#8217;s hubby takes his into the shower  &gt; &gt; with him&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; then lets the dog shake the water off&#44; lets him out into the house&#44;  then  &gt; &gt; &gt; continues to shower himself. &nbsp;Says it&#8217;s the least messiest way of  doing  &gt; &gt; it.  &gt; &gt; &gt; You sound tired. &nbsp;Hope you don&#8217;t overdo.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Take care&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; J  &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I do scrub along the baseboard and resort to a mop for the rest. My  &gt; dogs  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; made foot prints on the floor already. I always say that I want them  &gt; to  &gt; &gt; have  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; a clean floor on which to shed&#44; drool&#44; and make paw marks. That is a  &gt; &gt; price I  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; pay for companionship. I have had three knee surgeries&#44; so kneeling  is  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; painful for me too. It is nothing like neuralgia though. Even my  teeth  &gt; &gt; hurt  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; when I have that. I swear that my hair hurts when I have it in my  &gt; scalp.  &gt; &gt; It  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; did inspire me to talk to my doc about pain management though. He  came  &gt; &gt; in on  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; my case in the middle of my last flare. The rheumy was not receptive  &gt; to  &gt; &gt; our  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; pleas for pain meds. This doctor has put a plan in place should I go  &gt; &gt; through  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; the same thing again. He wrote it in my file. I am not talking about  &gt; &gt; joint&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; bone&#44; and muscle pain&#44; which is bad enough in itself. I am talking  &gt; about  &gt; &gt; the  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; neuralogical stuff. The neuropathic pain is enough to make suicide  &gt; seem  &gt; &gt; like  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; the only way out. He is more than willing to give me morphine to get  &gt; me  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; through it. He said that if I ever feel that he is not understanding  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; anything I am trying to discuss with him; I should tell him that he  &gt; &gt; isn&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; hearing me. He said I could tell him anything. I was nervous about  the  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; discussion. I thought he may say that he would start with something  &gt; like  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Demerol&#44; which is like taking an aspirin when it comes to pain like  &gt; &gt; that. I  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; must have described it well enough because he didn&#8217;t hesitate about  &gt; &gt; going to  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; the big guns. It is reassuring for me. I fell confident that with  all  &gt; of  &gt; &gt; the  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; suppressing drugs and my changes in life style that I can avoid  &gt; another  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; major flare. It is good to know that there is a plan just in case  &gt; things  &gt; &gt; go  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; bad. The CNS stuff is so hard. I get brain dead when it flares. I  &gt; &gt; wouldn&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; remember how to make coffee&#44; can&#8217;t form thoughts and I am at a loss  to  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; explain to the rheumy what is happening. See what happens when you  ask  &gt; a  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; question. I get verbal diarrhea and you can&#8217;t shut me up. I was  &gt; thinking  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; about your shoulder. Whenever I have cort injections it seems worse  &gt; for  &gt; &gt; at  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; least two days. The doc always says to rest the joint. The pain  seems  &gt; to  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; magically disappear after a few days. Maybe it is just taking a  little  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; longer for you too. It is mild here too. We have had record breaking  &gt; &gt; high  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; temps. I want to bath my old dog today. It would be nice to have  clean  &gt; &gt; dog  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; hair dust bunnies rolling across my clean floor. I do feel good when  I  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; accomplish something big. I feel like I then have a reason to feel  &gt; &gt; tired. I  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; think a lot of my feelings of self worth come from what I can do in  a  &gt; &gt; day.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Not a good attitude for a lupie I guess. I can get really down on  &gt; myself  &gt; &gt; if  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I waste the whole day resting. Sometimes I wish we lived in the city  &gt; &gt; where  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; there would be far less work to do. Man&#44; I am on a tangent. Button  it  &gt; &gt; BJ.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Hope you have a good day.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ  </p>
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<h4><strong>Response:</strong></h4>
<p>I&#8217;m shipping you my broom to ride &#8211; the saddle is very comfortable&#44;  and I can stay home while you borrow it.  BJ &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:VoF08.1476$iOo3.25559212@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Yes Judith&#44; I would love to come. I just need a few days of rest first.  That  &gt; will give you time to send me an airline ticket.  &gt; BJ- freezing her buns in S. Sk.  &gt; &quot;JARogow&quot; &lt;JARo&#8230;@home.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:TkE08.35120$B61.12152332@news1.rsm1.occa.home.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Hey&#44; BJ &#8211; wouildn&#8217;t you like to visit SoCal? &nbsp;I&#8217;ve got lots of room&#44;  &gt; &gt; and lots of rooms that need cleaning&lt;g&gt;!  &gt; &gt; BJ &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; news:vFI%7.1314$iOo3.10093007@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; Well&#44; my old girl (13) is bathed&#44;dried and groomed. I do them in the  &gt; &gt; &gt; bathtub. They are Golden Retrievers so not the right size for the  &gt; shower.  &gt; &gt; I  &gt; &gt; &gt; don&#8217;t think the underbelly could be rinsed properly that way&#44; even if  &gt; they  &gt; &gt; &gt; could fit in there. Nerve pain is different from any other kind. If  you  &gt; &gt; have  &gt; &gt; &gt; a nerve in your shoulder that is bothering you it helps to get a  glimpse  &gt; &gt; of  &gt; &gt; &gt; what happens to me. It may be hard to believe&#44; but this is true. Every  &gt; &gt; part  &gt; &gt; &gt; of my body was assalted by that pain. Now you know why I say I would  &gt; &gt; rather  &gt; &gt; &gt; check out now&#44; than go through that again. It lasts over several  months.  &gt; I  &gt; &gt; &gt; said to my husband that I wouldn&#8217;t let an animal suffer that way and  yet  &gt; &gt; &gt; nobody offered me anything that would allow me to sleep even for a  &gt; &gt; 15minute  &gt; &gt; &gt; period. It was a nightmare.As usual&#44; you have wowed me with websites.  &gt; That  &gt; &gt; &gt; is interesting. I have moved to doing laundry now. Gee&#44; my husband is  &gt; &gt; right.  &gt; &gt; &gt; I do talk in riddles and jump from one subject to another. Oh well&#44;  you  &gt; &gt; are  &gt; &gt; &gt; likely getting used to me too. I just feel the need to clean things up  &gt; and  &gt; &gt; &gt; get my dogs looking nice. Maybe I&#8217;m pregnant and it is the nesting  &gt; &gt; instinct  &gt; &gt; &gt; kicking in. Man&#44; that would be a medical miracle. Take care.  &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ  &gt; &gt; &gt; &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; &gt; news:3C3F4058.DDA835FC@rogers.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Hello BJ&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I mop the baseboards too. &nbsp;I&#8217;ve been working on cleaning doors and  &gt; &gt; &gt; doorframes  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; (only 5 but it&#8217;s taken me a week) and going thru papers to throw  some  &gt; &gt; out.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Yep&#44; I tell my cats&#44; now the floor is clean enough to eat off..then  &gt; Katy  &gt; &gt; &gt; drops a  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; furball&#44; then I tell her what a good job she did&#44; get out the  cleaning  &gt; &gt; &gt; stuff and  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; clean it up. &nbsp;Yes&#44; it&#8217;s interesting in the sunlight to see paw  prints  &gt; &gt; (and  &gt; &gt; &gt; my  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; own footprints) all over the floors. &nbsp;Was thinking today I probably  &gt; &gt; &gt; wouldn&#8217;t be  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; good at floor-painting. I&#8217;d end up in the &quot;proverbial  &gt; &gt; corner&#8230;waiting&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I think I have an idea what the neuralgia is like. &nbsp;When I move my  &gt; right  &gt; &gt; &gt; arm a  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; certain way&#44; I get nerve pain in the upper arm. &nbsp;Mom had similar in  &gt; her  &gt; &gt; &gt; face for  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; over 20 years. &nbsp;At the time&#44; they didn&#8217;t have /give the kinds of  meds  &gt; &gt; they  &gt; &gt; &gt; do  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; now.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Thought you might be interested in this.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; http://www.cosmiverse.com/science01110205.html  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Research is great but I wished they&#8217;d only make announcements when  &gt; they  &gt; &gt; &gt; have the  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; solution.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I&#8217;m glad your doctor is understanding and on board with the meds.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Your right&#44; some of the shoulder pain has gotten better now. (except  &gt; &gt; when  &gt; &gt; &gt; I try  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; to sleep on that side). &nbsp;And I&#8217;ve still got the tennis elbow thing  &gt; &gt; &gt; happening.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; How do you bath your dog? &nbsp;My friend&#8217;s hubby takes his into the  shower  &gt; &gt; &gt; with him&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; then lets the dog shake the water off&#44; lets him out into the house&#44;  &gt; then  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; continues to shower himself. &nbsp;Says it&#8217;s the least messiest way of  &gt; doing  &gt; &gt; &gt; it.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; You sound tired. &nbsp;Hope you don&#8217;t overdo.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Take care&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; J  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I do scrub along the baseboard and resort to a mop for the rest.  My  &gt; &gt; dogs  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; made foot prints on the floor already. I always say that I want  them  &gt; &gt; to  &gt; &gt; &gt; have  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; a clean floor on which to shed&#44; drool&#44; and make paw marks. That is  a  &gt; &gt; &gt; price I  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; pay for companionship. I have had three knee surgeries&#44; so  kneeling  &gt; is  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; painful for me too. It is nothing like neuralgia though. Even my  &gt; teeth  &gt; &gt; &gt; hurt  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; when I have that. I swear that my hair hurts when I have it in my  &gt; &gt; scalp.  &gt; &gt; &gt; It  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; did inspire me to talk to my doc about pain management though. He  &gt; came  &gt; &gt; &gt; in on  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; my case in the middle of my last flare. The rheumy was not  receptive  &gt; &gt; to  &gt; &gt; &gt; our  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; pleas for pain meds. This doctor has put a plan in place should I  go  &gt; &gt; &gt; through  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; the same thing again. He wrote it in my file. I am not talking  about  &gt; &gt; &gt; joint&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; bone&#44; and muscle pain&#44; which is bad enough in itself. I am talking  &gt; &gt; about  &gt; &gt; &gt; the  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; neuralogical stuff. The neuropathic pain is enough to make suicide  &gt; &gt; seem  &gt; &gt; &gt; like  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; the only way out. He is more than willing to give me morphine to  get  &gt; &gt; me  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; through it. He said that if I ever feel that he is not  understanding  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; anything I am trying to discuss with him; I should tell him that  he  &gt; &gt; &gt; isn&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; hearing me. He said I could tell him anything. I was nervous about  &gt; the  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; discussion. I thought he may say that he would start with  something  &gt; &gt; like  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Demerol&#44; which is like taking an aspirin when it comes to pain  like  &gt; &gt; &gt; that. I  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; must have described it well enough because he didn&#8217;t hesitate  about  &gt; &gt; &gt; going to  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; the big guns. It is reassuring for me. I fell confident that with  &gt; all  &gt; &gt; of  &gt; &gt; &gt; the  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; suppressing drugs and my changes in life style that I can avoid  &gt; &gt; another  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; major flare. It is good to know that there is a plan just in case  &gt; &gt; things  &gt; &gt; &gt; go  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; bad. The CNS stuff is so hard. I get brain dead when it flares. I  &gt; &gt; &gt; wouldn&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; remember how to make coffee&#44; can&#8217;t form thoughts and I am at a  loss  &gt; to  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; explain to the rheumy what is happening. See what happens when you  &gt; ask  &gt; &gt; a  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; question. I get verbal diarrhea and you can&#8217;t shut me up. I was  &gt; &gt; thinking  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; about your shoulder. Whenever I have cort injections it seems  worse  &gt; &gt; for  &gt; &gt; &gt; at  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; least two days. The doc always says to rest the joint. The pain  &gt; seems  &gt; &gt; to  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; magically disappear after a few days. Maybe it is just taking a  &gt; little  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; longer for you too. It is mild here too. We have had record  breaking  &gt; &gt; &gt; high  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; temps. I want to bath my old dog today. It would be nice to have  &gt; clean  &gt; &gt; &gt; dog  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; hair dust bunnies rolling across my clean floor. I do feel good  when  &gt; I  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; accomplish something big. I feel like I then have a reason to feel  &gt; &gt; &gt; tired. I  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; think a lot of my feelings of self worth come from what I can do  in  &gt; a  &gt; &gt; &gt; day.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Not a good attitude for a lupie I guess. I can get really down on  &gt; &gt; myself  &gt; &gt; &gt; if  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I waste the whole day resting. Sometimes I wish we lived in the  city  &gt; &gt; &gt; where  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; there would be far less work to do. Man&#44; I am on a tangent. Button  &gt; it  &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Hope you have a good day.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ  </p>
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<p>In article &lt;vFI%7.1314$iOo3.10093&#8230;@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&gt;&#44; BJ  &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote  &gt;Hi J&#44;  &gt;Well&#44; my old girl (13) is bathed&#44;dried and groomed. I do them in the  &gt;bathtub. They are Golden Retrievers so not the right size for the shower. I  &gt;don&#8217;t think the underbelly could be rinsed properly that way&#44; even if they  &gt;could fit in there. </p>
<p>The answer to that problem is a longer flexible pipe between shower head  and where the water comes out of. (OK&#44; that was for a Sheltie&#44; but it  should work for a G.R. too.)  &#8212;  Andy [Editor&#44; Austrian Philatelic Society]  For Austrian philately &lt;URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/austamps&gt;  For Lupus &lt;URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk/lupus&gt;  For my other interests &lt;URL:http://www.kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk&gt; </p>
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<p>Wow&#44; I understand the pain. &nbsp;I have to take headache med &#44; klonipin&#44; pamilar  &amp; paxil along with listening to relaxation music&#44; sometimes listening  several times cause I can&#8217;t relax easy. this is horrible that any of us have  to know this much about our bodies. and it sure takes courage to go another  day.  &quot;Beverley&quot; &lt;pottings&#8230;@sybercom.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:u3v9cmravsk4ff@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Geez&#44; I know all about neuralgia! Several horrible bouts of it and I do  hope  &gt; I never have it again. I&#8217;ve had (and forgive my spelling here) trigeminal  &gt; neuralgia and glosophringal neuralgia. That means it attacks the nerves on  &gt; face I think it&#8217;s the 1&#44; 5&#44; and 12 nerve sets. Like I say I&#8217;m not very  good  &gt; with the medical stuff. It shoots from the jaw socket area or rather  &gt; slightly behind over the one eye and down the nose&#44; across the cheek and  &gt; under the lower jaw bone &#8211; runs right to the midline and stops dead. So  &gt; strange I know where my midline is!!! And also attacks the tongue and down  &gt; the back of my throat all on the one side. The most horrible pain I have  &gt; ever withstood. My doctor at the time told me more suicides are committed  &gt; over neuralgia pain than any other medical problem! I can not talk or  &gt; anything when one of these bouts occur. I live on liquid food taken  through  &gt; a coffee stirrer slipped between the check and teeth on the other side of  &gt; the mouth and hope it doesn&#8217;t slip to the bad side of my mouth triggering  &gt; the most intense pain. They talked about killing the nerves on that side  of  &gt; my face and told me it drop my face like I had had a stroke. I can&#8217;t say I  &gt; was cured but I have acupuncture done. It was done by a trained person  from  &gt; Korea but not licensed to practice in USA.- so it was very illegal but I  &gt; wasn&#8217;t charged. Because the pain did not lessen at the time &#8211; it was  thought  &gt; it wasn&#8217;t working and he wouldn&#8217;t treat me more. Also at the time my  husband  &gt; decided that I was so tense with pain that I was fighting myself. I said I  &gt; had to relax but I couldn&#8217;t &#8211; it was impossible. So one night when it was  so  &gt; bad he called the doctor for me and as I wrote he told the doctor on the  &gt; phone what was happening. The doctor told me to take several Xanax tablets  I  &gt; had as one super high dose. And continue to take them normally&#44; if I  needed  &gt; them. Well&#44; I slept the rest of the night almost straight through and when  I  &gt; felt the neuralgia flaring during the day I took another Xanax. Relief!!!!  &gt; Now&#44; I&#8217;ve had several neuralgia (what I refer to as buzzing) sensations  but  &gt; never another bout of full neuralgia attacks. So the question is &#8211; did the  &gt; acupuncture work and that is what &nbsp;has kept me from having another bad  flare  &gt; or did it just go away on it&#8217;s own? I will say I am much more prone to  &gt; having a problem with the neuralgia when I&#8217;m under heavy stress. But mine  &gt; has been so bad I can&#8217;t imagine cleaning the house &#8211; I don&#8217;t want to move  &gt; any part of my body.  &gt; Bev  &gt; &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:xyp%7.1271$iOo3.42664032@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; That was so nice of you to notice. I am okay now. I had a couple of bad  &gt; &gt; days. I had neuralgia in my scalp and face. I couldn&#8217;t sit still long  &gt; enough  &gt; &gt; to sit at the computer to type. My vision was blurred too. I had to keep  &gt; &gt; moving so I scrubbed floors and vacuumed as a distraction. It is better  &gt; &gt; today. I can tell you that it is the hard way to get housework done. How  &gt; is  &gt; &gt; the shoulder now that a couple of days have passed?  &gt; &gt; Hugs&#44;  &gt; &gt; BJ  &gt; &gt; &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; news:3C3CAAA2.37F0A63B@rogers.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; How are you? &nbsp;Missed your posts today&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; Best&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; J </p>
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<p>I think we all tend to say &quot;Just fine&quot;. After all who really wants to hear  us whine and complain? My husband was being very kind tonight asked if I was  okay. I told him not really but nothing serious. Kind of hard to explain  what is wrong sometimes anyway.  Bev  &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:S2%%7.1360$iOo3.13697412@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; It is funny&#44; but I don&#8217;t like to unload even here. It isn&#8217;t that I don&#8217;t  &gt; think the group would understand. I have always been a comforter to  friends  &gt; and family. I don&#8217;t like to complain about my situation. I still think it  &gt; may be a bit of denial on my part. I don&#8217;t like to ask my husband to do  &gt; something because it is too hard for me to do. It isn&#8217;t because I can&#8217;t  &gt; admit it to him. I think it is more because I can&#8217;t admit it to myself. I  &gt; cover up a lot of things about my health. Why do I do that? My answer to  &gt; &quot;how are you&quot; is always &quot;I&#8217;m fine&#44; thank you. Then I listen to everyone  &gt; else&#8217;s problems.  &gt; BJ-the invinceable  &gt; &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:3C40136B.F6F5DDD6@rogers.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; &gt; []yet  &gt; &gt; &gt; nobody offered me anything that would allow me to sleep even for a  &gt; 15minute  &gt; &gt; &gt; period. It was a nightmare.  &gt; &gt; &nbsp;Sounds like you&#8217;ve had a horrible time. Sure hope the meds are now  &gt; helping the  &gt; &gt; situation.  &gt; &gt; &gt; I have moved to doing laundry now. Gee&#44; my husband is right.  &gt; &gt; &gt; I do talk in riddles and jump from one subject to another. Oh well&#44;  you  &gt; are  &gt; &gt; &gt; likely getting used to me too.  &gt; &gt; Actually you&#8217;re much more verbose this week. &nbsp;That&#8217;s good. &nbsp;It helps to  &gt; unload  &gt; &gt; at times.  &gt; &gt; &gt; I just feel the need to clean things up and  &gt; &gt; &gt; get my dogs looking nice. Maybe I&#8217;m pregnant and it is the nesting  &gt; instinct  &gt; &gt; &gt; kicking in. Man&#44; that would be a medical miracle.  &gt; &gt; Well since you brought this up (guys can stop reading at this point)&#44;  it&#8217;s  &gt; been  &gt; &gt; discovered&#44; in recent years that males have cycles. &nbsp;In additon&#44; many  &gt; women I  &gt; &gt; speak too have detected symptoms that continue beyond &quot;the cycling  years&quot;.  &gt; One  &gt; &gt; of the things we had in common is that the week before cycles we&#8217;d be  more  &gt; &gt; depressed and also be doing the &quot;busy-busy&quot; thing. &nbsp;Like jobs we&#8217;d  ignored  &gt; for  &gt; &gt; months or weeks. &nbsp;So my current theory is that&#44; beyond the cycling  years&#44;  &gt; our  &gt; &gt; brains are programmed monthly to continue these habits and that there  are  &gt; still  &gt; &gt; subtle changes which occur monthly.  &gt; &gt; What do ya think about this theory?  &gt; &gt; Hope you&#8217;re sleeping (now) and recuperating from all that work.  &gt; &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Hi Beverley&#44;  You are right about that. I figure the time to say something is when you  need to go to emergency. My husband always says he needs to know&#44; but I  don&#8217;t think that is true most of the time.  Hope you are &quot;just fine&quot;. Well&#44; reasonably okay at least.  Regards and good night&#44;  BJ  &quot;Beverley&quot; &lt;pottings&#8230;@sybercom.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:u424ktr75ifd14@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; I think we all tend to say &quot;Just fine&quot;. After all who really wants to hear  &gt; us whine and complain? My husband was being very kind tonight asked if I  was  &gt; okay. I told him not really but nothing serious. Kind of hard to explain  &gt; what is wrong sometimes anyway.  &gt; Bev  &gt; &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:S2%%7.1360$iOo3.13697412@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; It is funny&#44; but I don&#8217;t like to unload even here. It isn&#8217;t that I don&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; think the group would understand. I have always been a comforter to  &gt; friends  &gt; &gt; and family. I don&#8217;t like to complain about my situation. I still think  it  &gt; &gt; may be a bit of denial on my part. I don&#8217;t like to ask my husband to do  &gt; &gt; something because it is too hard for me to do. It isn&#8217;t because I can&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; admit it to him. I think it is more because I can&#8217;t admit it to myself.  I  &gt; &gt; cover up a lot of things about my health. Why do I do that? My answer to  &gt; &gt; &quot;how are you&quot; is always &quot;I&#8217;m fine&#44; thank you. Then I listen to everyone  &gt; &gt; else&#8217;s problems.  &gt; &gt; BJ-the invinceable  &gt; &gt; &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; news:3C40136B.F6F5DDD6@rogers.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; []yet  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; nobody offered me anything that would allow me to sleep even for a  &gt; &gt; 15minute  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; period. It was a nightmare.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &nbsp;Sounds like you&#8217;ve had a horrible time. Sure hope the meds are now  &gt; &gt; helping the  &gt; &gt; &gt; situation.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I have moved to doing laundry now. Gee&#44; my husband is right.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I do talk in riddles and jump from one subject to another. Oh well&#44;  &gt; you  &gt; &gt; are  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; likely getting used to me too.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Actually you&#8217;re much more verbose this week. &nbsp;That&#8217;s good. &nbsp;It helps  to  &gt; &gt; unload  &gt; &gt; &gt; at times.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; I just feel the need to clean things up and  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; get my dogs looking nice. Maybe I&#8217;m pregnant and it is the nesting  &gt; &gt; instinct  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; kicking in. Man&#44; that would be a medical miracle.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Well since you brought this up (guys can stop reading at this point)&#44;  &gt; it&#8217;s  &gt; &gt; been  &gt; &gt; &gt; discovered&#44; in recent years that males have cycles. &nbsp;In additon&#44; many  &gt; &gt; women I  &gt; &gt; &gt; speak too have detected symptoms that continue beyond &quot;the cycling  &gt; years&quot;.  &gt; &gt; One  &gt; &gt; &gt; of the things we had in common is that the week before cycles we&#8217;d be  &gt; more  &gt; &gt; &gt; depressed and also be doing the &quot;busy-busy&quot; thing. &nbsp;Like jobs we&#8217;d  &gt; ignored  &gt; &gt; for  &gt; &gt; &gt; months or weeks. &nbsp;So my current theory is that&#44; beyond the cycling  &gt; years&#44;  &gt; &gt; our  &gt; &gt; &gt; brains are programmed monthly to continue these habits and that there  &gt; are  &gt; &gt; still  &gt; &gt; &gt; subtle changes which occur monthly.  &gt; &gt; &gt; What do ya think about this theory?  &gt; &gt; &gt; Hope you&#8217;re sleeping (now) and recuperating from all that work.  &gt; &gt; &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Hi J&#44;  It is funny&#44; but I don&#8217;t like to unload even here. It isn&#8217;t that I don&#8217;t  think the group would understand. I have always been a comforter to friends  and family. I don&#8217;t like to complain about my situation. I still think it  may be a bit of denial on my part. I don&#8217;t like to ask my husband to do  something because it is too hard for me to do. It isn&#8217;t because I can&#8217;t  admit it to him. I think it is more because I can&#8217;t admit it to myself. I  cover up a lot of things about my health. Why do I do that? My answer to  &quot;how are you&quot; is always &quot;I&#8217;m fine&#44; thank you. Then I listen to everyone  else&#8217;s problems.  BJ-the invinceable  &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:3C40136B.F6F5DDD6@rogers.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; []yet  &gt; &gt; nobody offered me anything that would allow me to sleep even for a  15minute  &gt; &gt; period. It was a nightmare.  &gt; &nbsp;Sounds like you&#8217;ve had a horrible time. Sure hope the meds are now  helping the  &gt; situation.  &gt; &gt; I have moved to doing laundry now. Gee&#44; my husband is right.  &gt; &gt; I do talk in riddles and jump from one subject to another. Oh well&#44; you  are  &gt; &gt; likely getting used to me too.  &gt; Actually you&#8217;re much more verbose this week. &nbsp;That&#8217;s good. &nbsp;It helps to  unload  &gt; at times.  &gt; &gt; I just feel the need to clean things up and  &gt; &gt; get my dogs looking nice. Maybe I&#8217;m pregnant and it is the nesting  instinct  &gt; &gt; kicking in. Man&#44; that would be a medical miracle.  &gt; Well since you brought this up (guys can stop reading at this point)&#44; it&#8217;s  been  &gt; discovered&#44; in recent years that males have cycles. &nbsp;In additon&#44; many  women I  &gt; speak too have detected symptoms that continue beyond &quot;the cycling years&quot;.  One  &gt; of the things we had in common is that the week before cycles we&#8217;d be more  &gt; depressed and also be doing the &quot;busy-busy&quot; thing. &nbsp;Like jobs we&#8217;d ignored  for  &gt; months or weeks. &nbsp;So my current theory is that&#44; beyond the cycling years&#44;  our  &gt; brains are programmed monthly to continue these habits and that there are  still  &gt; subtle changes which occur monthly.  &gt; What do ya think about this theory?  &gt; Hope you&#8217;re sleeping (now) and recuperating from all that work.  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>BJ wrote:  &gt; []yet  &gt; nobody offered me anything that would allow me to sleep even for a 15minute  &gt; period. It was a nightmare. </p>
<p>&nbsp;Sounds like you&#8217;ve had a horrible time. Sure hope the meds are now helping the  situation.  &gt; I have moved to doing laundry now. Gee&#44; my husband is right.  &gt; I do talk in riddles and jump from one subject to another. Oh well&#44; you are  &gt; likely getting used to me too. </p>
<p>Actually you&#8217;re much more verbose this week. &nbsp;That&#8217;s good. &nbsp;It helps to unload  at times.  &gt; I just feel the need to clean things up and  &gt; get my dogs looking nice. Maybe I&#8217;m pregnant and it is the nesting instinct  &gt; kicking in. Man&#44; that would be a medical miracle. </p>
<p>Well since you brought this up (guys can stop reading at this point)&#44; it&#8217;s been  discovered&#44; in recent years that males have cycles. &nbsp;In additon&#44; many women I  speak too have detected symptoms that continue beyond &quot;the cycling years&quot;. &nbsp;One  of the things we had in common is that the week before cycles we&#8217;d be more  depressed and also be doing the &quot;busy-busy&quot; thing. &nbsp;Like jobs we&#8217;d ignored for  months or weeks. &nbsp;So my current theory is that&#44; beyond the cycling years&#44; our  brains are programmed monthly to continue these habits and that there are still  subtle changes which occur monthly.  What do ya think about this theory?  Hope you&#8217;re sleeping (now) and recuperating from all that work.  J </p>
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<p>Geez&#44; I know all about neuralgia! Several horrible bouts of it and I do hope  I never have it again. I&#8217;ve had (and forgive my spelling here) trigeminal  neuralgia and glosophringal neuralgia. That means it attacks the nerves on  face I think it&#8217;s the 1&#44; 5&#44; and 12 nerve sets. Like I say I&#8217;m not very good  with the medical stuff. It shoots from the jaw socket area or rather  slightly behind over the one eye and down the nose&#44; across the cheek and  under the lower jaw bone &#8211; runs right to the midline and stops dead. So  strange I know where my midline is!!! And also attacks the tongue and down  the back of my throat all on the one side. The most horrible pain I have  ever withstood. My doctor at the time told me more suicides are committed  over neuralgia pain than any other medical problem! I can not talk or  anything when one of these bouts occur. I live on liquid food taken through  a coffee stirrer slipped between the check and teeth on the other side of  the mouth and hope it doesn&#8217;t slip to the bad side of my mouth triggering  the most intense pain. They talked about killing the nerves on that side of  my face and told me it drop my face like I had had a stroke. I can&#8217;t say I  was cured but I have acupuncture done. It was done by a trained person from  Korea but not licensed to practice in USA.- so it was very illegal but I  wasn&#8217;t charged. Because the pain did not lessen at the time &#8211; it was thought  it wasn&#8217;t working and he wouldn&#8217;t treat me more. Also at the time my husband  decided that I was so tense with pain that I was fighting myself. I said I  had to relax but I couldn&#8217;t &#8211; it was impossible. So one night when it was so  bad he called the doctor for me and as I wrote he told the doctor on the  phone what was happening. The doctor told me to take several Xanax tablets I  had as one super high dose. And continue to take them normally&#44; if I needed  them. Well&#44; I slept the rest of the night almost straight through and when I  felt the neuralgia flaring during the day I took another Xanax. Relief!!!!  Now&#44; I&#8217;ve had several neuralgia (what I refer to as buzzing) sensations but  never another bout of full neuralgia attacks. So the question is &#8211; did the  acupuncture work and that is what &nbsp;has kept me from having another bad flare  or did it just go away on it&#8217;s own? I will say I am much more prone to  having a problem with the neuralgia when I&#8217;m under heavy stress. But mine  has been so bad I can&#8217;t imagine cleaning the house &#8211; I don&#8217;t want to move  any part of my body.  Bev  &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:xyp%7.1271$iOo3.42664032@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; That was so nice of you to notice. I am okay now. I had a couple of bad  &gt; days. I had neuralgia in my scalp and face. I couldn&#8217;t sit still long  enough  &gt; to sit at the computer to type. My vision was blurred too. I had to keep  &gt; moving so I scrubbed floors and vacuumed as a distraction. It is better  &gt; today. I can tell you that it is the hard way to get housework done. How  is  &gt; the shoulder now that a couple of days have passed?  &gt; Hugs&#44;  &gt; BJ  &gt; &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:3C3CAAA2.37F0A63B@rogers.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; How are you? &nbsp;Missed your posts today&#44;  &gt; &gt; Best&#44;  &gt; &gt; J  </p>
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<p>In article &lt;u6E%7.1301$iOo3.16384&#8230;@tomcat.sk.sympatico.ca&gt;&#44; &quot;BJ&quot;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote:  &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; I do scrub along the baseboard and resort to a mop for the rest. My dogs  &gt; made foot prints on the floor already. I always say that I want them to have  &gt; a clean floor on which to shed&#44; drool&#44; and make paw marks. That is a price I  &gt; pay for companionship. I have had three knee surgeries&#44; so kneeling is  &gt; painful for me too. It is nothing like neuralgia though. Even my teeth hurt  &gt; when I have that. I swear that my hair hurts when I have it in my scalp. It  &gt; did inspire me to talk to my doc about pain management though. He came in on  &gt; my case in the middle of my last flare. The rheumy was not receptive to our  &gt; pleas for pain meds. This doctor has put a plan in place should I go through  &gt; the same thing again. He wrote it in my file. I am not talking about joint&#44;  &gt; bone&#44; and muscle pain&#44; which is bad enough in itself. I am talking about the  &gt; neuralogical stuff. The neuropathic pain is enough to make suicide seem like  &gt; the only way out. He is more than willing to give me morphine to get me  &gt; through it. He said that if I ever feel that he is not understanding  &gt; anything I am trying to discuss with him; I should tell him that he isn&#8217;t  &gt; hearing me. He said I could tell him anything. I was nervous about the  &gt; discussion. I thought he may say that he would start with something like  &gt; Demerol&#44; which is like taking an aspirin when it comes to pain like that. I  &gt; must have described it well enough because he didn&#8217;t hesitate about going to  &gt; the big guns. It is reassuring for me. I fell confident that with all of the  &gt; suppressing drugs and my changes in life style that I can avoid another  &gt; major flare. It is good to know that there is a plan just in case things go  &gt; bad. The CNS stuff is so hard. I get brain dead when it flares. I wouldn&#8217;t  &gt; remember how to make coffee&#44; can&#8217;t form thoughts and I am at a loss to  &gt; explain to the rheumy what is happening. See what happens when you ask a  &gt; question. I get verbal diarrhea and you can&#8217;t shut me up. I was thinking  &gt; about your shoulder. Whenever I have cort injections it seems worse for at  &gt; least two days. The doc always says to rest the joint. The pain seems to  &gt; magically disappear after a few days. Maybe it is just taking a little  &gt; longer for you too. It is mild here too. We have had record breaking high  &gt; temps. I want to bath my old dog today. It would be nice to have clean dog  &gt; hair dust bunnies rolling across my clean floor. I do feel good when I  &gt; accomplish something big. I feel like I then have a reason to feel tired. I  &gt; think a lot of my feelings of self worth come from what I can do in a day.  &gt; Not a good attitude for a lupie I guess. I can get really down on myself if  &gt; I waste the whole day resting. Sometimes I wish we lived in the city where  &gt; there would be far less work to do. Man&#44; I am on a tangent. Button it BJ.  &gt; Hope you have a good day.  &gt; BJ  &gt; &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:3C3E9D9B.84ADCBB8@rogers.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Hello BJ&#44;  &gt; &gt; I was worried about you. &nbsp; That neuralgia sounds nasty. So glad you were  &gt; feeling  &gt; &gt; somewhat better yesterday.  &gt; &gt; I know what you mean&#44; moving as a distraction. &nbsp;I imagine the break from  &gt; the  &gt; &gt; computer helps a bit too?  &gt; &gt; My version of scrubbing floors is using a wet mop. &nbsp;Do you actually get  &gt; down on  &gt; &gt; your knees and scrub from area to area?  &gt; &gt; My friend does. &nbsp;She says it&#8217;s not clean unless she does. &nbsp;Those days are  &gt; long  &gt; &gt; gone for me&#44; except for specific spot control. &nbsp;Knees hurt (amongst other  &gt; &gt; things). &nbsp; I&#8217;m sorry you&#8217;ve been having such a rough time.  &gt; &gt; As to me&#44; as of yesterday&#44; I still couldn&#8217;t sleep on my left side (w/o  &gt; moaning  &gt; &gt; from the pain the whole time). &nbsp;The injection site is getting better but  &gt; still  &gt; &gt; painful. &nbsp;Some of the other pains (neck and spine) seemed better  &gt; yesterday&#44; but  &gt; &gt; since we had a slight warming yesterday&#44; not sure if that was the reason  &gt; or if  &gt; &gt; the injection is finally kicking in. &nbsp;Hope it&#8217;s the latter.  &gt; &gt; Good to see you. &nbsp;Don&#8217;t be overdoing there. &nbsp;But it&#8217;s a great feeling of  &gt; &gt; accomplishment to have clean floors eh?  &gt; &gt; Hugs  &gt; &gt; J  &gt; &gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; &gt; That was so nice of you to notice. I am okay now. I had a couple of bad  &gt; &gt; &gt; days. I had neuralgia in my scalp and face. I couldn&#8217;t sit still long  &gt; enough  &gt; &gt; &gt; to sit at the computer to type. My vision was blurred too. I had to keep  &gt; &gt; &gt; moving so I scrubbed floors and vacuumed as a distraction. It is better  &gt; &gt; &gt; today. I can tell you that it is the hard way to get housework done. How  &gt; is  &gt; &gt; &gt; the shoulder now that a couple of days have passed?  &gt; &gt;Hi BJ&#44; &nbsp;Clean floors are so great and I used to get down on the floor and </p>
<p>really do a good scrubbing job. &nbsp;One day &nbsp;my daughter came in while I was  doing a thorough job. &nbsp;She told me how stupid that was. &nbsp;I told her i had been  told it was good for my uterus &nbsp;She reminded me that I had a hysterectomy&#8211;  Brain dead &nbsp; ruth </p>
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<p>Hi J&#44;  Well&#44; my old girl (13) is bathed&#44;dried and groomed. I do them in the  bathtub. They are Golden Retrievers so not the right size for the shower. I  don&#8217;t think the underbelly could be rinsed properly that way&#44; even if they  could fit in there. Nerve pain is different from any other kind. If you have  a nerve in your shoulder that is bothering you it helps to get a glimpse of  what happens to me. It may be hard to believe&#44; but this is true. Every part  of my body was assalted by that pain. Now you know why I say I would rather  check out now&#44; than go through that again. It lasts over several months. I  said to my husband that I wouldn&#8217;t let an animal suffer that way and yet  nobody offered me anything that would allow me to sleep even for a 15minute  period. It was a nightmare.As usual&#44; you have wowed me with websites. That  is interesting. I have moved to doing laundry now. Gee&#44; my husband is right.  I do talk in riddles and jump from one subject to another. Oh well&#44; you are  likely getting used to me too. I just feel the need to clean things up and  get my dogs looking nice. Maybe I&#8217;m pregnant and it is the nesting instinct  kicking in. Man&#44; that would be a medical miracle. Take care.  BJ  &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:3C3F4058.DDA835FC@rogers.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hello BJ&#44;  &gt; I mop the baseboards too. &nbsp;I&#8217;ve been working on cleaning doors and  doorframes  &gt; (only 5 but it&#8217;s taken me a week) and going thru papers to throw some out.  &gt; Yep&#44; I tell my cats&#44; now the floor is clean enough to eat off..then Katy  drops a  &gt; furball&#44; then I tell her what a good job she did&#44; get out the cleaning  stuff and  &gt; clean it up. &nbsp;Yes&#44; it&#8217;s interesting in the sunlight to see paw prints (and  my  &gt; own footprints) all over the floors. &nbsp;Was thinking today I probably  wouldn&#8217;t be  &gt; good at floor-painting. I&#8217;d end up in the &quot;proverbial corner&#8230;waiting&#8230;  &gt; I think I have an idea what the neuralgia is like. &nbsp;When I move my right  arm a  &gt; certain way&#44; I get nerve pain in the upper arm. &nbsp;Mom had similar in her  face for  &gt; over 20 years. &nbsp;At the time&#44; they didn&#8217;t have /give the kinds of meds they  do  &gt; now.  &gt; Thought you might be interested in this.  &gt; http://www.cosmiverse.com/science01110205.html  &gt; Research is great but I wished they&#8217;d only make announcements when they  have the  &gt; solution.  &gt; I&#8217;m glad your doctor is understanding and on board with the meds.  &gt; Your right&#44; some of the shoulder pain has gotten better now. (except when  I try  &gt; to sleep on that side). &nbsp;And I&#8217;ve still got the tennis elbow thing  happening.  &gt; How do you bath your dog? &nbsp;My friend&#8217;s hubby takes his into the shower  with him&#44;  &gt; then lets the dog shake the water off&#44; lets him out into the house&#44; then  &gt; continues to shower himself. &nbsp;Says it&#8217;s the least messiest way of doing  it.  &gt; You sound tired. &nbsp;Hope you don&#8217;t overdo.  &gt; Take care&#44;  &gt; J  &gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; I do scrub along the baseboard and resort to a mop for the rest. My dogs  &gt; &gt; made foot prints on the floor already. I always say that I want them to  have  &gt; &gt; a clean floor on which to shed&#44; drool&#44; and make paw marks. That is a  price I  &gt; &gt; pay for companionship. I have had three knee surgeries&#44; so kneeling is  &gt; &gt; painful for me too. It is nothing like neuralgia though. Even my teeth  hurt  &gt; &gt; when I have that. I swear that my hair hurts when I have it in my scalp.  It  &gt; &gt; did inspire me to talk to my doc about pain management though. He came  in on  &gt; &gt; my case in the middle of my last flare. The rheumy was not receptive to  our  &gt; &gt; pleas for pain meds. This doctor has put a plan in place should I go  through  &gt; &gt; the same thing again. He wrote it in my file. I am not talking about  joint&#44;  &gt; &gt; bone&#44; and muscle pain&#44; which is bad enough in itself. I am talking about  the  &gt; &gt; neuralogical stuff. The neuropathic pain is enough to make suicide seem  like  &gt; &gt; the only way out. He is more than willing to give me morphine to get me  &gt; &gt; through it. He said that if I ever feel that he is not understanding  &gt; &gt; anything I am trying to discuss with him; I should tell him that he  isn&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; hearing me. He said I could tell him anything. I was nervous about the  &gt; &gt; discussion. I thought he may say that he would start with something like  &gt; &gt; Demerol&#44; which is like taking an aspirin when it comes to pain like  that. I  &gt; &gt; must have described it well enough because he didn&#8217;t hesitate about  going to  &gt; &gt; the big guns. It is reassuring for me. I fell confident that with all of  the  &gt; &gt; suppressing drugs and my changes in life style that I can avoid another  &gt; &gt; major flare. It is good to know that there is a plan just in case things  go  &gt; &gt; bad. The CNS stuff is so hard. I get brain dead when it flares. I  wouldn&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; remember how to make coffee&#44; can&#8217;t form thoughts and I am at a loss to  &gt; &gt; explain to the rheumy what is happening. See what happens when you ask a  &gt; &gt; question. I get verbal diarrhea and you can&#8217;t shut me up. I was thinking  &gt; &gt; about your shoulder. Whenever I have cort injections it seems worse for  at  &gt; &gt; least two days. The doc always says to rest the joint. The pain seems to  &gt; &gt; magically disappear after a few days. Maybe it is just taking a little  &gt; &gt; longer for you too. It is mild here too. We have had record breaking  high  &gt; &gt; temps. I want to bath my old dog today. It would be nice to have clean  dog  &gt; &gt; hair dust bunnies rolling across my clean floor. I do feel good when I  &gt; &gt; accomplish something big. I feel like I then have a reason to feel  tired. I  &gt; &gt; think a lot of my feelings of self worth come from what I can do in a  day.  &gt; &gt; Not a good attitude for a lupie I guess. I can get really down on myself  if  &gt; &gt; I waste the whole day resting. Sometimes I wish we lived in the city  where  &gt; &gt; there would be far less work to do. Man&#44; I am on a tangent. Button it  BJ.  &gt; &gt; Hope you have a good day.  &gt; &gt; BJ  </p>
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<p>Hello BJ&#44;  I mop the baseboards too. &nbsp;I&#8217;ve been working on cleaning doors and doorframes  (only 5 but it&#8217;s taken me a week) and going thru papers to throw some out.  Yep&#44; I tell my cats&#44; now the floor is clean enough to eat off..then Katy drops a  furball&#44; then I tell her what a good job she did&#44; get out the cleaning stuff and  clean it up. &nbsp;Yes&#44; it&#8217;s interesting in the sunlight to see paw prints (and my  own footprints) all over the floors. &nbsp;Was thinking today I probably wouldn&#8217;t be  good at floor-painting. I&#8217;d end up in the &quot;proverbial corner&#8230;waiting&#8230;  I think I have an idea what the neuralgia is like. &nbsp;When I move my right arm a  certain way&#44; I get nerve pain in the upper arm. &nbsp;Mom had similar in her face for  over 20 years. &nbsp;At the time&#44; they didn&#8217;t have /give the kinds of meds they do  now.  Thought you might be interested in this.  http://www.cosmiverse.com/science01110205.html  Research is great but I wished they&#8217;d only make announcements when they have the  solution.  I&#8217;m glad your doctor is understanding and on board with the meds.  Your right&#44; some of the shoulder pain has gotten better now. (except when I try  to sleep on that side). &nbsp;And I&#8217;ve still got the tennis elbow thing happening.  How do you bath your dog? &nbsp;My friend&#8217;s hubby takes his into the shower with him&#44;  then lets the dog shake the water off&#44; lets him out into the house&#44; then  continues to shower himself. &nbsp;Says it&#8217;s the least messiest way of doing it.  You sound tired. &nbsp;Hope you don&#8217;t overdo.  Take care&#44;  J  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -BJ wrote:  &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; I do scrub along the baseboard and resort to a mop for the rest. My dogs  &gt; made foot prints on the floor already. I always say that I want them to have  &gt; a clean floor on which to shed&#44; drool&#44; and make paw marks. That is a price I  &gt; pay for companionship. I have had three knee surgeries&#44; so kneeling is  &gt; painful for me too. It is nothing like neuralgia though. Even my teeth hurt  &gt; when I have that. I swear that my hair hurts when I have it in my scalp. It  &gt; did inspire me to talk to my doc about pain management though. He came in on  &gt; my case in the middle of my last flare. The rheumy was not receptive to our  &gt; pleas for pain meds. This doctor has put a plan in place should I go through  &gt; the same thing again. He wrote it in my file. I am not talking about joint&#44;  &gt; bone&#44; and muscle pain&#44; which is bad enough in itself. I am talking about the  &gt; neuralogical stuff. The neuropathic pain is enough to make suicide seem like  &gt; the only way out. He is more than willing to give me morphine to get me  &gt; through it. He said that if I ever feel that he is not understanding  &gt; anything I am trying to discuss with him; I should tell him that he isn&#8217;t  &gt; hearing me. He said I could tell him anything. I was nervous about the  &gt; discussion. I thought he may say that he would start with something like  &gt; Demerol&#44; which is like taking an aspirin when it comes to pain like that. I  &gt; must have described it well enough because he didn&#8217;t hesitate about going to  &gt; the big guns. It is reassuring for me. I fell confident that with all of the  &gt; suppressing drugs and my changes in life style that I can avoid another  &gt; major flare. It is good to know that there is a plan just in case things go  &gt; bad. The CNS stuff is so hard. I get brain dead when it flares. I wouldn&#8217;t  &gt; remember how to make coffee&#44; can&#8217;t form thoughts and I am at a loss to  &gt; explain to the rheumy what is happening. See what happens when you ask a  &gt; question. I get verbal diarrhea and you can&#8217;t shut me up. I was thinking  &gt; about your shoulder. Whenever I have cort injections it seems worse for at  &gt; least two days. The doc always says to rest the joint. The pain seems to  &gt; magically disappear after a few days. Maybe it is just taking a little  &gt; longer for you too. It is mild here too. We have had record breaking high  &gt; temps. I want to bath my old dog today. It would be nice to have clean dog  &gt; hair dust bunnies rolling across my clean floor. I do feel good when I  &gt; accomplish something big. I feel like I then have a reason to feel tired. I  &gt; think a lot of my feelings of self worth come from what I can do in a day.  &gt; Not a good attitude for a lupie I guess. I can get really down on myself if  &gt; I waste the whole day resting. Sometimes I wish we lived in the city where  &gt; there would be far less work to do. Man&#44; I am on a tangent. Button it BJ.  &gt; Hope you have a good day.  &gt; BJ  </p>
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<p>Please email me.  -=JR=-  &#8212;  If &quot;Miss Cleo&quot; is so good at reading people&#8217;s thoughts&#44;  why doesn&#8217;t she realize I don&#8217;t want to read her spam? </p>
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<p>How are you? &nbsp;Missed your posts today&#44;  Best&#44;  J </p>
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<p>Hi J&#44;  That was so nice of you to notice. I am okay now. I had a couple of bad  days. I had neuralgia in my scalp and face. I couldn&#8217;t sit still long enough  to sit at the computer to type. My vision was blurred too. I had to keep  moving so I scrubbed floors and vacuumed as a distraction. It is better  today. I can tell you that it is the hard way to get housework done. How is  the shoulder now that a couple of days have passed?  Hugs&#44;  BJ  &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:3C3CAAA2.37F0A63B@rogers.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; How are you? &nbsp;Missed your posts today&#44;  &gt; Best&#44;  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Hello BJ&#44;  I was worried about you. &nbsp; That neuralgia sounds nasty. So glad you were feeling  somewhat better yesterday.  I know what you mean&#44; moving as a distraction. &nbsp;I imagine the break from the  computer helps a bit too?  My version of scrubbing floors is using a wet mop. &nbsp;Do you actually get down on  your knees and scrub from area to area?  My friend does. &nbsp;She says it&#8217;s not clean unless she does. &nbsp;Those days are long  gone for me&#44; except for specific spot control. &nbsp;Knees hurt (amongst other  things). &nbsp; I&#8217;m sorry you&#8217;ve been having such a rough time.  As to me&#44; as of yesterday&#44; I still couldn&#8217;t sleep on my left side (w/o moaning  from the pain the whole time). &nbsp;The injection site is getting better but still  painful. &nbsp;Some of the other pains (neck and spine) seemed better yesterday&#44; but  since we had a slight warming yesterday&#44; not sure if that was the reason or if  the injection is finally kicking in. &nbsp;Hope it&#8217;s the latter.  Good to see you. &nbsp;Don&#8217;t be overdoing there. &nbsp;But it&#8217;s a great feeling of  accomplishment to have clean floors eh?  Hugs  J  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -BJ wrote:  &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; That was so nice of you to notice. I am okay now. I had a couple of bad  &gt; days. I had neuralgia in my scalp and face. I couldn&#8217;t sit still long enough  &gt; to sit at the computer to type. My vision was blurred too. I had to keep  &gt; moving so I scrubbed floors and vacuumed as a distraction. It is better  &gt; today. I can tell you that it is the hard way to get housework done. How is  &gt; the shoulder now that a couple of days have passed?  </p>
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<p>Hi J&#44;  I do scrub along the baseboard and resort to a mop for the rest. My dogs  made foot prints on the floor already. I always say that I want them to have  a clean floor on which to shed&#44; drool&#44; and make paw marks. That is a price I  pay for companionship. I have had three knee surgeries&#44; so kneeling is  painful for me too. It is nothing like neuralgia though. Even my teeth hurt  when I have that. I swear that my hair hurts when I have it in my scalp. It  did inspire me to talk to my doc about pain management though. He came in on  my case in the middle of my last flare. The rheumy was not receptive to our  pleas for pain meds. This doctor has put a plan in place should I go through  the same thing again. He wrote it in my file. I am not talking about joint&#44;  bone&#44; and muscle pain&#44; which is bad enough in itself. I am talking about the  neuralogical stuff. The neuropathic pain is enough to make suicide seem like  the only way out. He is more than willing to give me morphine to get me  through it. He said that if I ever feel that he is not understanding  anything I am trying to discuss with him; I should tell him that he isn&#8217;t  hearing me. He said I could tell him anything. I was nervous about the  discussion. I thought he may say that he would start with something like  Demerol&#44; which is like taking an aspirin when it comes to pain like that. I  must have described it well enough because he didn&#8217;t hesitate about going to  the big guns. It is reassuring for me. I fell confident that with all of the  suppressing drugs and my changes in life style that I can avoid another  major flare. It is good to know that there is a plan just in case things go  bad. The CNS stuff is so hard. I get brain dead when it flares. I wouldn&#8217;t  remember how to make coffee&#44; can&#8217;t form thoughts and I am at a loss to  explain to the rheumy what is happening. See what happens when you ask a  question. I get verbal diarrhea and you can&#8217;t shut me up. I was thinking  about your shoulder. Whenever I have cort injections it seems worse for at  least two days. The doc always says to rest the joint. The pain seems to  magically disappear after a few days. Maybe it is just taking a little  longer for you too. It is mild here too. We have had record breaking high  temps. I want to bath my old dog today. It would be nice to have clean dog  hair dust bunnies rolling across my clean floor. I do feel good when I  accomplish something big. I feel like I then have a reason to feel tired. I  think a lot of my feelings of self worth come from what I can do in a day.  Not a good attitude for a lupie I guess. I can get really down on myself if  I waste the whole day resting. Sometimes I wish we lived in the city where  there would be far less work to do. Man&#44; I am on a tangent. Button it BJ.  Hope you have a good day.  BJ  &quot;J Wootton&quot; &lt;jwoot&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:3C3E9D9B.84ADCBB8@rogers.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hello BJ&#44;  &gt; I was worried about you. &nbsp; That neuralgia sounds nasty. So glad you were  feeling  &gt; somewhat better yesterday.  &gt; I know what you mean&#44; moving as a distraction. &nbsp;I imagine the break from  the  &gt; computer helps a bit too?  &gt; My version of scrubbing floors is using a wet mop. &nbsp;Do you actually get  down on  &gt; your knees and scrub from area to area?  &gt; My friend does. &nbsp;She says it&#8217;s not clean unless she does. &nbsp;Those days are  long  &gt; gone for me&#44; except for specific spot control. &nbsp;Knees hurt (amongst other  &gt; things). &nbsp; I&#8217;m sorry you&#8217;ve been having such a rough time.  &gt; As to me&#44; as of yesterday&#44; I still couldn&#8217;t sleep on my left side (w/o  moaning  &gt; from the pain the whole time). &nbsp;The injection site is getting better but  still  &gt; painful. &nbsp;Some of the other pains (neck and spine) seemed better  yesterday&#44; but  &gt; since we had a slight warming yesterday&#44; not sure if that was the reason  or if  &gt; the injection is finally kicking in. &nbsp;Hope it&#8217;s the latter.  &gt; Good to see you. &nbsp;Don&#8217;t be overdoing there. &nbsp;But it&#8217;s a great feeling of  &gt; accomplishment to have clean floors eh?  &gt; Hugs  &gt; J  &gt; BJ wrote:  &gt; &gt; Hi J&#44;  &gt; &gt; That was so nice of you to notice. I am okay now. I had a couple of bad  &gt; &gt; days. I had neuralgia in my scalp and face. I couldn&#8217;t sit still long  enough  &gt; &gt; to sit at the computer to type. My vision was blurred too. I had to keep  &gt; &gt; moving so I scrubbed floors and vacuumed as a distraction. It is better  &gt; &gt; today. I can tell you that it is the hard way to get housework done. How  is  &gt; &gt; the shoulder now that a couple of days have passed?  </p>
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<p>Thinking of you today&#44; hope all went well and you&#8217;re not too  uncomfortable.  Hugs  J </p>
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<p>Same here&#44; thinking of you and hoping you heal fast!  Sue in NZ </p>
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<p>Thanks J and Sue. It went okay. Talk to you more later.  BJ-Sk. Canada  &quot;J&quot; &lt;ne&#8230;@example.org&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:41586388.C7F69F89@execulink.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Thinking of you today&#44; hope all went well and you&#8217;re not too  &gt; uncomfortable.  &gt; Hugs  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Pukeko Palace wrote:  &gt; Same here&#44; thinking of you and hoping you heal fast!  &gt; Sue in NZ </p>
<p>Hi ya Sue&#44;  We don&#8217;t have ever enough from you.  How&#8217;s it going hun?  Hugs  J </p>
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<p>Hi  Some of you may have noticed that BJ hasn&#8217;t been posting recently.  She&#8217;s going through a rough time at the moment.  I&#8217;m not sure if she&#8217;s reading or not.  Please keep her in your thoughts&#44; good vibes&#44; prayers etc.  Maybe she&#8217;ll explain when she&#8217;s able to do so.  Hugs  J </p>
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<p>J wrote:  &gt; Hi  &gt; Some of you may have noticed that BJ hasn&#8217;t been posting recently.  &gt; She&#8217;s going through a rough time at the moment.  &gt; I&#8217;m not sure if she&#8217;s reading or not.  &gt; Please keep her in your thoughts&#44; good vibes&#44; prayers etc.  &gt; Maybe she&#8217;ll explain when she&#8217;s able to do so.  &gt; Hugs  &gt; J </p>
<p>BJ&#44; You&#8217;re in my prayers sweetie. &nbsp;Hang in there! &nbsp;(((((((((BJ))))))))))  Lots of hugs for you&#44;  -Sharon  &#8212;  &quot;Don&#8217;t make me come down there&#8230;&quot;  &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;-God </p>
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<p>Absolutely.  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -J &lt;RandomI&#8230;@example.org&gt; wrote in message &lt;news:3FFA0EEC.A6ECF488@execulink.com&gt;&#8230;  &gt; Hi  &gt; Some of you may have noticed that BJ hasn&#8217;t been posting recently.  &gt; She&#8217;s going through a rough time at the moment.  &gt; I&#8217;m not sure if she&#8217;s reading or not.  &gt; Please keep her in your thoughts&#44; good vibes&#44; prayers etc.  &gt; Maybe she&#8217;ll explain when she&#8217;s able to do so.  &gt; Hugs  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Yes&#44; I noticed. &nbsp;I&#8217;ll be thinking of our BJ &amp; hoping she&#8217;s back with us  soon. &nbsp;You go slug-itate BJ &amp; get well. &nbsp;We miss you already!  Hugs4u&#44;  Maggie </p>
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<p>Will do!. &nbsp;Thanks for the heads up  Dawn  &quot;J&quot; &lt;RandomI&#8230;@example.org&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:3FFA0EEC.A6ECF488@execulink.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hi  &gt; Some of you may have noticed that BJ hasn&#8217;t been posting recently.  &gt; She&#8217;s going through a rough time at the moment.  &gt; I&#8217;m not sure if she&#8217;s reading or not.  &gt; Please keep her in your thoughts&#44; good vibes&#44; prayers etc.  &gt; Maybe she&#8217;ll explain when she&#8217;s able to do so.  &gt; Hugs  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Hi Cindy W. here I have had so much trouble keeping my computer running  and being able to get the newsgroup. I really hope BJ and Mair are  feeling better soon.  Soft hugs  Cindy W.  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -J wrote:  &gt; Hi  &gt; Some of you may have noticed that BJ hasn&#8217;t been posting recently.  &gt; She&#8217;s going through a rough time at the moment.  &gt; I&#8217;m not sure if she&#8217;s reading or not.  &gt; Please keep her in your thoughts&#44; good vibes&#44; prayers etc.  &gt; Maybe she&#8217;ll explain when she&#8217;s able to do so.  &gt; Hugs  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Hi Cindy W!  Seeing you post&#44; just might do it. : ) &nbsp;I know BJ sure missed you. &nbsp;I  still only know *of you&#44;* but hope to get to know you better. &nbsp;  Still thinking about you BJ &amp; hoping you&#8217;ll feel better soon. &nbsp;  Hugs&#44;  Maggie </p>
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<p>Sending big HUGS to BJ (and all of you!)  &quot;J&quot; &lt;RandomI&#8230;@example.org&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:3FFA0EEC.A6ECF488@execulink.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hi  &gt; Some of you may have noticed that BJ hasn&#8217;t been posting recently.  &gt; She&#8217;s going through a rough time at the moment.  &gt; I&#8217;m not sure if she&#8217;s reading or not.  &gt; Please keep her in your thoughts&#44; good vibes&#44; prayers etc.  &gt; Maybe she&#8217;ll explain when she&#8217;s able to do so.  &gt; Hugs  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Hi J&#44;  I am reading now but there is sure a lot to catch up on. Thank you for  thinking of me. Also thanks to everyone who added their good thoughts. You  are all so sweet.  BJ-Sk. Canada  &quot;J&quot; &lt;RandomI&#8230;@example.org&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:3FFA0EEC.A6ECF488@execulink.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hi  &gt; Some of you may have noticed that BJ hasn&#8217;t been posting recently.  &gt; She&#8217;s going through a rough time at the moment.  &gt; I&#8217;m not sure if she&#8217;s reading or not.  &gt; Please keep her in your thoughts&#44; good vibes&#44; prayers etc.  &gt; Maybe she&#8217;ll explain when she&#8217;s able to do so.  &gt; Hugs  &gt; J  </p>
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<p>I see BJ&#8217;s busy and ignoring us <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />   J </p>
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<p>Hi J&#44;  You are right. I have been so busy that I have not taken the time to check  up on everybody. Today isn&#8217;t shaping up to be any better. Hopefully things  will settle down by the end of this week. Stay well everybody.  BJ-Sk. Canada  &quot;J&quot; &lt;sandcast&#8230;@invalid.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:40DA9393.B316AC67@execulink.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; I see BJ&#8217;s busy and ignoring us <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />   &gt; J  </p>
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<p>Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken! </p>
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<p>Happy Birthday BJ.  Hoping that you will have a healthier and pain free year ahead of you.  Cindy  &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>J Rogow wrote:  &gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken! </p>
<p>Happy Happy Birthday to you BJ!! &nbsp;Have a great day full of love and  light&#44; and of course pain-free!  -Sharon  &#8212;  Visit my webpage:  http://www.qc.edu/~sperlof1/  ~Peace~  We must come to see that peace is not merely a distant goal we seek&#44;  but it is a means by which we arrive at that goal&#8230;  We must pursue peaceful ends through peaceful means.  &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; -Martin Luther King Jr. </p>
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<p>HAPPY BIRTHDAY BJ!!!!  hope you enjoy the day and have MANY MANY more of them too. &nbsp;NOW how many  is that this year?  Oh sorry&#44; never ask a lady her age right? &nbsp;Come on fess up here now.  Have fun what ever you do&#44; and pain is not in the day today  hugs  janers </p>
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<p>Best wishes for a pefect birthday! I always like to think that on my BD I  get to eat as much of whatever I want so have at it girl!  And many more.  Michael Roeper  Portland&#44; Oregon  &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>Happy Birthday BJ! &nbsp;Hope you have a wonderful day and many many many more!  Hugs&#44;  Sherry  &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
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<p>Happy Birthday BJ!  Have a wonderfully special day with your family!  Sending wishes for a healthy and happy year ahead  and many more like it!  &#8212;  Hugs from Shelagh  http://continue.to/lupus </p>
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<p>HAPPY&#44; HAPPY&#44; HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE ONE AND ONLY PRAIRIE CHICK!!!!!  Suzie  &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
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<p>Thank you everyone. This is one happy prairie chick&#44; I can tell you that.  Some friends treated me to lunch yesterday. My daughter took me out for  dinner&#44; and gave me a cute summer sweater. Hubby is taking me out for dinner  tonight. The very best part is that my son wrote his last exam yesterday at  law school. He is driving home today from British Columbia&#44; and will arrive  Saturday for a five day visit. I have not seen him for over two years. It is  so exciting to think that he is beginning his journey home on my birthday.  What better present could there be!!!!!  BJ-Sask. Canada  &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
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<p>Wow! That is way too cool about your son! I bet you&#8217;re so excited you can&#8217;t  sit still&#8230;&#8230;  Have a great evening!  Michael  &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:vagm8jc4nob931@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Thank you everyone. This is one happy prairie chick&#44; I can tell you that.  &gt; Some friends treated me to lunch yesterday. My daughter took me out for  &gt; dinner&#44; and gave me a cute summer sweater. Hubby is taking me out for  dinner  &gt; tonight. The very best part is that my son wrote his last exam yesterday  at  &gt; law school. He is driving home today from British Columbia&#44; and will  arrive  &gt; Saturday for a five day visit. I have not seen him for over two years. It  is  &gt; so exciting to think that he is beginning his journey home on my birthday.  &gt; What better present could there be!!!!!  &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>You got that right Michael. I have been baking an endless stream of cookies.  I am going to make apple pies tomorrow. My son&#8217;s name is Michael too. Great  name&#44; don&#8217;t you think?  BJ-Sask. Canada  &quot;Michael Roeper&quot; &lt;Roe&#8230;@attbi.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:n5Zpa.629062$S_4.680331@rwcrnsc53&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Wow! That is way too cool about your son! I bet you&#8217;re so excited you  can&#8217;t  &gt; sit still&#8230;&#8230;  &gt; Have a great evening!  &gt; Michael  &gt; &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:vagm8jc4nob931@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Thank you everyone. This is one happy prairie chick&#44; I can tell you  that.  &gt; &gt; Some friends treated me to lunch yesterday. My daughter took me out for  &gt; &gt; dinner&#44; and gave me a cute summer sweater. Hubby is taking me out for  &gt; dinner  &gt; &gt; tonight. The very best part is that my son wrote his last exam yesterday  &gt; at  &gt; &gt; law school. He is driving home today from British Columbia&#44; and will  &gt; arrive  &gt; &gt; Saturday for a five day visit. I have not seen him for over two years.  It  &gt; is  &gt; &gt; so exciting to think that he is beginning his journey home on my  birthday.  &gt; &gt; What better present could there be!!!!!  &gt; &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &gt; &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>Yup&#8230;..it&#8217;s a fine name. Figure out some way to get one of them pies down  here. Apple&#8217;s my favorite (next to you of course!!)  Have lotsa fun with family. This will be a BD you&#8217;re gonna remember all year  long. Hope you and the mister have a fine time tonight. I miss dinners with  my wife. We used to go out a lot or I&#8217;d cook for her. After the divorce&#44; I  quit cooking altogether until just recently. My oldest (Dennis&#44; 29yrs old)  is coming over tonight to help me with a mechanical thing I don&#8217;t have the  energy for and I&#8217;m fryin him up some chicken.  God bless you!  Michael  &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:vagnlcqqnk4r3f@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; You got that right Michael. I have been baking an endless stream of  cookies.  &gt; I am going to make apple pies tomorrow. My son&#8217;s name is Michael too.  Great  &gt; name&#44; don&#8217;t you think?  &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &quot;Michael Roeper&quot; &lt;Roe&#8230;@attbi.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:n5Zpa.629062$S_4.680331@rwcrnsc53&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Wow! That is way too cool about your son! I bet you&#8217;re so excited you  &gt; can&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; sit still&#8230;&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Have a great evening!  &gt; &gt; Michael  &gt; &gt; &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; news:vagm8jc4nob931@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; Thank you everyone. This is one happy prairie chick&#44; I can tell you  &gt; that.  &gt; &gt; &gt; Some friends treated me to lunch yesterday. My daughter took me out  for  &gt; &gt; &gt; dinner&#44; and gave me a cute summer sweater. Hubby is taking me out for  &gt; &gt; dinner  &gt; &gt; &gt; tonight. The very best part is that my son wrote his last exam  yesterday  &gt; &gt; at  &gt; &gt; &gt; law school. He is driving home today from British Columbia&#44; and will  &gt; &gt; arrive  &gt; &gt; &gt; Saturday for a five day visit. I have not seen him for over two years.  &gt; It  &gt; &gt; is  &gt; &gt; &gt; so exciting to think that he is beginning his journey home on my  &gt; birthday.  &gt; &gt; &gt; What better present could there be!!!!!  &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &gt; &gt; &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; &gt; news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>Hope you have a great birthday and have fun with your family.  JBAB &nbsp;(you know who&#8230;lol) </p>
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<p>Hmmmmm. Now let me see. Who might that be? Thank you JBAB. A full  description of my pigout will be sure to follow.  BJ-Sask. Canada  &quot;JBAB7542&quot; &lt;jbab7&#8230;@aol.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:20030424182828.08145.00000024@mb-m03.aol.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Hope you have a great birthday and have fun with your family.  &gt; JBAB &nbsp;(you know who&#8230;lol)  </p>
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<p>I&#8217;ll make you a deal Michael. My husband doesn&#8217;t cook&#44; unless you could  fried eggs. You cook for me. I&#8217;ll make an apple pie for you. I am known for  my darn fine pie crust.  BJ-Sk. Canada  &quot;Michael Roeper&quot; &lt;Roe&#8230;@attbi.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:ruZpa.335331$OV.365094@rwcrnsc54&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Yup&#8230;..it&#8217;s a fine name. Figure out some way to get one of them pies down  &gt; here. Apple&#8217;s my favorite (next to you of course!!)  &gt; Have lotsa fun with family. This will be a BD you&#8217;re gonna remember all  year  &gt; long. Hope you and the mister have a fine time tonight. I miss dinners  with  &gt; my wife. We used to go out a lot or I&#8217;d cook for her. After the divorce&#44; I  &gt; quit cooking altogether until just recently. My oldest (Dennis&#44; 29yrs old)  &gt; is coming over tonight to help me with a mechanical thing I don&#8217;t have the  &gt; energy for and I&#8217;m fryin him up some chicken.  &gt; God bless you!  &gt; Michael  &gt; &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:vagnlcqqnk4r3f@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; You got that right Michael. I have been baking an endless stream of  &gt; cookies.  &gt; &gt; I am going to make apple pies tomorrow. My son&#8217;s name is Michael too.  &gt; Great  &gt; &gt; name&#44; don&#8217;t you think?  &gt; &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &gt; &quot;Michael Roeper&quot; &lt;Roe&#8230;@attbi.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; news:n5Zpa.629062$S_4.680331@rwcrnsc53&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; Wow! That is way too cool about your son! I bet you&#8217;re so excited you  &gt; &gt; can&#8217;t  &gt; &gt; &gt; sit still&#8230;&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; Have a great evening!  &gt; &gt; &gt; Michael  &gt; &gt; &gt; &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; &gt; news:vagm8jc4nob931@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Thank you everyone. This is one happy prairie chick&#44; I can tell you  &gt; &gt; that.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Some friends treated me to lunch yesterday. My daughter took me out  &gt; for  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; dinner&#44; and gave me a cute summer sweater. Hubby is taking me out  for  &gt; &gt; &gt; dinner  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; tonight. The very best part is that my son wrote his last exam  &gt; yesterday  &gt; &gt; &gt; at  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; law school. He is driving home today from British Columbia&#44; and will  &gt; &gt; &gt; arrive  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Saturday for a five day visit. I have not seen him for over two  years.  &gt; &gt; It  &gt; &gt; &gt; is  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; so exciting to think that he is beginning his journey home on my  &gt; &gt; birthday.  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; What better present could there be!!!!!  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; &gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>Everybody sing with me!!!  Happy Birthday to you  Happy Birthday to you  Happy Birthday dear BJ  Happy Birthday to you!  ((((((((HUG))))))))  Bev  &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>Just great news all the way around!!!  What a great week for you.  Happy birthday again!  &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:vagm8jc4nob931@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Thank you everyone. This is one happy prairie chick&#44; I can tell you that.  &gt; Some friends treated me to lunch yesterday. My daughter took me out for  &gt; dinner&#44; and gave me a cute summer sweater. Hubby is taking me out for  dinner  &gt; tonight. The very best part is that my son wrote his last exam yesterday  at  &gt; law school. He is driving home today from British Columbia&#44; and will  arrive  &gt; Saturday for a five day visit. I have not seen him for over two years. It  is  &gt; so exciting to think that he is beginning his journey home on my birthday.  &gt; What better present could there be!!!!!  &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>yeaH! &nbsp;Give him a huge hug from me&#44; please. &nbsp;My wonderful DiL is  an Atty&#44; I know some of how difficult it is to get through the schooling.  I wish him luck in the bar exams.  &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:vagm8jc4nob931@corp.supernews.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Thank you everyone. This is one happy prairie chick&#44; I can tell you that.  &gt; Some friends treated me to lunch yesterday. My daughter took me out for  &gt; dinner&#44; and gave me a cute summer sweater. Hubby is taking me out for  dinner  &gt; tonight. The very best part is that my son wrote his last exam yesterday  at  &gt; law school. He is driving home today from British Columbia&#44; and will  arrive  &gt; Saturday for a five day visit. I have not seen him for over two years. It  is  &gt; so exciting to think that he is beginning his journey home on my birthday.  &gt; What better present could there be!!!!!  &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>In article &lt;vagm8jc4nob&#8230;@corp.supernews.com&gt;&#44; &quot;BJ&quot; &lt;B&#8230;@sk.nojunk.ca&gt; wrote: </p>
<p>What a perfect birthday you must have had. So happy that you are well  enough to enjoy it all. &nbsp;Best belated birthday wishes &nbsp; ruth  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Thank you everyone. This is one happy prairie chick&#44; I can tell you that.  &gt; Some friends treated me to lunch yesterday. My daughter took me out for  &gt; dinner&#44; and gave me a cute summer sweater. Hubby is taking me out for dinner  &gt; tonight. The very best part is that my son wrote his last exam yesterday at  &gt; law school. He is driving home today from British Columbia&#44; and will arrive  &gt; Saturday for a five day visit. I have not seen him for over two years. It is  &gt; so exciting to think that he is beginning his journey home on my birthday.  &gt; What better present could there be!!!!!  &gt; BJ-Sask. Canada  &gt; &quot;J Rogow&quot; &lt;JRo&#8230;@SpammenotNewsguy.com&gt; wrote in message  &gt; news:b88q3k02643@enews3.newsguy.com&#8230;  &gt; &gt; Happiest of Birthdays to thee oh Prairie Chicken!  </p>
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<p>There&#8217;s a bunch of us real close in age out here!  Bev  &quot;Janers&quot; &lt;rojak&#8230;@bright.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:Cs_18.1610$w67.154725@cletus.bright.net&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Didn&#8217;t you get my mail? &nbsp;I sent you something 2 or 3 days ago.  &gt; I am feeling a little better today. I think the medrol upping is finally  kicking in  &gt; here. &nbsp;Even was able to go to PT today and walk and do the stretches and  ultra sound  &gt; with massage&#8230;..Now if the insurance would get my tens unit here I would  be all set.  &gt; You know I have been lurking here but not feeling well enough to put my 2  cents in  &gt; sometimes..OK&lt; more than 2 cents LOL  &gt; I read posts on how do we handle this stuff. &nbsp;I can only say ONE DAMN DAY  AT A TIME&gt;  &gt; and think of the present&#8230;.NOT the WHAT IF&#8217;S&#8230;  &gt; But you know that is really hard sometimes when you hurt&#44; have fatigue and  just plain  &gt; feel crappy. &nbsp;I could of used another word there but I will be nice today.  &gt; It is no wonder some of us get down in the dumps. &nbsp;But I guess we just go  with the  &gt; flow&#44; so to speak.  &gt; KCAT&#44; I miss your posts. &nbsp;John&#44; GO BUCKEYES&#44; Wes&#44; hand in there&#44; it will  get better&#44;  &gt; Ruthie behave yourself and do your exercises for that arm. &nbsp;NOT THE  SPLITS&#8230;&#8230;  &gt; Now I do have a WHERE ARE YOU!! &nbsp;Yes where is Sandra???????  &gt; anyone know&#8230;.  &gt; To all of you who I have not said hello &nbsp;HELLO.  &gt; To BJ&#44; well you know how I feel. &nbsp; Are you going to be the mommy of the  group??? &nbsp;And  &gt; Bev too??? &nbsp;Does that mean YOU are older than me????  &gt; Oh my thank goodness LOL.  &gt; Cindy&#44; haven&#8217;t heard from you&#44; hope you are well also.  &gt; Well can you tell I feel a little better&#44; so watch out when I really feel  &gt; good&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..  &gt; hugs to all  &gt; janers  </p>
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<p>Take care of yourself Janers. Keep reading at least. Post when you can.  Rest.  Hugs&#44;  BJ  &quot;Janers&quot; &lt;rojak&#8230;@bright.net&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:Cs_18.1610$w67.154725@cletus.bright.net&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; Didn&#8217;t you get my mail? &nbsp;I sent you something 2 or 3 days ago.  &gt; I am feeling a little better today. I think the medrol upping is finally  kicking in  &gt; here. &nbsp;Even was able to go to PT today and walk and do the stretches and  ultra sound  &gt; with massage&#8230;..Now if the insurance would get my tens unit here I would  be all set.  &gt; You know I have been lurking here but not feeling well enough to put my 2  cents in  &gt; sometimes..OK&lt; more than 2 cents LOL  &gt; I read posts on how do we handle this stuff. &nbsp;I can only say ONE DAMN DAY  AT A TIME&gt;  &gt; and think of the present&#8230;.NOT the WHAT IF&#8217;S&#8230;  &gt; But you know that is really hard sometimes when you hurt&#44; have fatigue and  just plain  &gt; feel crappy. &nbsp;I could of used another word there but I will be nice today.  &gt; It is no wonder some of us get down in the dumps. &nbsp;But I guess we just go  with the  &gt; flow&#44; so to speak.  &gt; KCAT&#44; I miss your posts. &nbsp;John&#44; GO BUCKEYES&#44; Wes&#44; hand in there&#44; it will  get better&#44;  &gt; Ruthie behave yourself and do your exercises for that arm. &nbsp;NOT THE  SPLITS&#8230;&#8230;  &gt; Now I do have a WHERE ARE YOU!! &nbsp;Yes where is Sandra???????  &gt; anyone know&#8230;.  &gt; To all of you who I have not said hello &nbsp;HELLO.  &gt; To BJ&#44; well you know how I feel. &nbsp; Are you going to be the mommy of the  group??? &nbsp;And  &gt; Bev too??? &nbsp;Does that mean YOU are older than me????  &gt; Oh my thank goodness LOL.  &gt; Cindy&#44; haven&#8217;t heard from you&#44; hope you are well also.  &gt; Well can you tell I feel a little better&#44; so watch out when I really feel  &gt; good&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..  &gt; hugs to all  &gt; janers  </p>
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<p>Didn&#8217;t you get my mail? &nbsp;I sent you something 2 or 3 days ago.  I am feeling a little better today. I think the medrol upping is finally kicking in  here. &nbsp;Even was able to go to PT today and walk and do the stretches and ultra sound  with massage&#8230;..Now if the insurance would get my tens unit here I would be all set.  You know I have been lurking here but not feeling well enough to put my 2 cents in  sometimes..OK&lt; more than 2 cents LOL  I read posts on how do we handle this stuff. &nbsp;I can only say ONE DAMN DAY AT A TIME&gt;  and think of the present&#8230;.NOT the WHAT IF&#8217;S&#8230;  But you know that is really hard sometimes when you hurt&#44; have fatigue and just plain  feel crappy. &nbsp;I could of used another word there but I will be nice today.  It is no wonder some of us get down in the dumps. &nbsp;But I guess we just go with the  flow&#44; so to speak.  KCAT&#44; I miss your posts. &nbsp;John&#44; GO BUCKEYES&#44; Wes&#44; hand in there&#44; it will get better&#44;  Ruthie behave yourself and do your exercises for that arm. &nbsp;NOT THE SPLITS&#8230;&#8230;  Now I do have a WHERE ARE YOU!! &nbsp;Yes where is Sandra???????  anyone know&#8230;.  To all of you who I have not said hello &nbsp;HELLO.  To BJ&#44; well you know how I feel. &nbsp; Are you going to be the mommy of the group??? &nbsp;And  Bev too??? &nbsp;Does that mean YOU are older than me????  Oh my thank goodness LOL.  Cindy&#44; haven&#8217;t heard from you&#44; hope you are well also.  Well can you tell I feel a little better&#44; so watch out when I really feel  good&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..  hugs to all  janers </p>
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<p>HI BJ <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> )) Bruce here &#44; would you mind mailing me your e-mail addy &#44; I have  lost it.  Me thinks Janers in her excitement ran over it in her new m/h. She mailed me  with the company site &#44; wow&#8212; tis better than me house and quicker to  clean:))  Thanks &#44; Bruce  &#8212;  rothnie </p>
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<p>Hi Bruce&#44;  Sorry. Busy week. Just getting to you now. I don&#8217;t think you lost it. I  don&#8217;t think you ever had it. (my email addy&#44; I mean &lt;g&gt;)  BJ-the prairie chick  &quot;rothnie&quot; &lt;31019558&#8230;@rogers.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:xTLc9.150859$8aG1.140329@news01.bloor.is.net.cable.rogers.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; HI BJ <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> )) Bruce here &#44; would you mind mailing me your e-mail addy &#44; I  have  &gt; lost it.  &gt; Me thinks Janers in her excitement ran over it in her new m/h. She mailed  me  &gt; with the company site &#44; wow&#8212; tis better than me house and quicker to  &gt; clean:))  &gt; Thanks &#44; Bruce  &gt; &#8212;  &gt; rothnie  </p>
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I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the mid-80s  and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had *very*  short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan some  pictures one day). The last [...]]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the mid-80s  and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had *very*  short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan some  pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my shoulders  and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44; after  thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair. Might not  sound like much of a decision to make&#44; but this long hair of mine has become  a huge part of who I am&#44; especially since it turned grey then white.  Yesterday I went and booked the hairdresser for after my last day at work  before the holidays. Then I spent most of the evening looking for pictures  of the kind of hairstyle I would like to have. Today I had a dental  appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the office&#44; a woman in  the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if my pigtails were real. I  said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44; &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them off! There  are too many of us baldies around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat and no  hair was showing. I don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just  short-haired.)  Now&#44; how could that woman know that I had just decided to cut my hair?  No-one has ever told me not to cut my hair before&#44; at least not a complete  stranger in the street. And there was nothing strange about the woman&#44; she  seemed perfectly normal and certainly sane. This was such a strange  coincidence that I&#8217;m not at all sure about cutting my hair any longer. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> /  &#8212;  Marina&#44; Frank and Nikki  Email marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi  Pics at http://uk.f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/frankiennikki </p>
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<p>Now&#44; how could that woman know that I had just decided to cut my hair?  No-one has ever told me not to cut my hair before&#44; at least not a complete  stranger in the street. And there was nothing strange about the woman&#44; she  seemed perfectly normal and certainly sane. This was such a strange  coincidence that I&#8217;m not at all sure about cutting my hair any longer. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> /  &#8212;  Marina&#44; Frank and Nikki </p>
<p>That *is* disconcerting&#44; isn&#8217;t it? Almost like&#44; a sign or something. If you&#8217;re  not sure&#44; wait a month&#44; then see how you feel about it. &nbsp;It&#8217;s a big decision.  You&#8217;ll miss it at first&#44; for sure. The lady was right&#8211;you don&#8217;t see long  tresses especially on women my age very much. Mine is just below my shoulders&#44;  but is very fine and I just pull it back in a clip. I think about a short &#8216;do  every once in a while&#44; but I honestly don&#8217;t know how to primp&#44; I&#8217;ve never done  it. I think short hair would be more trouble!  Sherry </p>
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<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the mid-80s  and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had *very*  short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan some  pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my shoulders  and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44; after  thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair. Might not  sound like much of a decision to make&#44; but this long hair of mine has become  a huge part of who I am&#44; especially since it turned grey then white.  Yesterday I went and booked the hairdresser for after my last day at work  before the holidays. Then I spent most of the evening looking for pictures  of the kind of hairstyle I would like to have. Today I had a dental  appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the office&#44; a woman in  the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if my pigtails were real. I  said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44; &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them off! There  are too many of us baldies around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat and no  hair was showing. I don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just  short-haired.) </p>
<p>She may be on chemotherapy. &nbsp;She may have been telling you how lucky  you are to have your hair. &nbsp;  Theresa  My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com  alt.tv.frasier FAQ: http://www.im-listening.net/FAQ/ </p>
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<p>  She may be on chemotherapy. &nbsp;She may have been telling you how lucky   you are to have your hair. &nbsp; </p>
<p>That thought did cross my mind.  &#8212;  Marina&#44; Frank and Nikki  Email marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi  Pics at http://uk.f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/frankiennikki </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now.  Today I   had a dental appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the   office&#44; a woman in the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if   my pigtails were real. I said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44;   &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them off! There are too many of us baldies   around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat and no hair was showing. I   don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just short-haired.)   Now&#44; how could that woman know that I had just decided to cut my hair?   No-one has ever told me not to cut my hair before&#44; at least not a   complete stranger in the street. And there was nothing strange about   the woman&#44; she seemed perfectly normal and certainly sane. This was   such a strange coincidence that I&#8217;m not at all sure about cutting my   hair any longer. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> / </p>
<p>That&#8217;s funny! &nbsp;Until a couple of years ago I had hair down to the middle of  my back (that&#8217;s as long as it would grow). &nbsp;I went into one of those &quot;quick  cut&quot; places to get the dead ends trimmed off. &nbsp;The stylist looked at me as I  walked over and said &quot;Oh no&#44; I will *not* cut that hair off!&quot; &nbsp;How odd!  I&#8217;ve never heard of a stylist refusing to cut someone&#8217;s hair before! &nbsp;She  relaxed when I said it was just a trim.  I did wind up getting it cut later&#44; but Marina&#44; you don&#8217;t have to go &quot;short  short&quot;. &nbsp;I got mine cut to just past my shoulders. &nbsp;I still feel like I&#8217;ve  got my long hair. &nbsp;Short hair on me is really not *me*. &nbsp;Another thing to  consider; if you&#8217;re used to braids or ponytails&#44; some of those short cuts  that look so &quot;easy&quot; aren&#8217;t. &nbsp;Do you want to get up and have to fuss with  your hair? &nbsp;I sure don&#8217;t!  Good luck with your decision.  Jill </p>
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<p>  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the  mid-80s   and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had  *very*   short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan  some   pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my  shoulders   and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44;  after   thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair.  Might not   sound like much of a decision to make&#44; but this long hair of mine has  become   a huge part of who I am&#44; especially since it turned grey then white.   Yesterday I went and booked the hairdresser for after my last day at  work   before the holidays. Then I spent most of the evening looking for  pictures   of the kind of hairstyle I would like to have. Today I had a dental   appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the office&#44; a  woman in   the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if my pigtails were  real. I   said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44; &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them  off! There   are too many of us baldies around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat  and no   hair was showing. I don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just   short-haired.)   She may be on chemotherapy. &nbsp;She may have been telling you how lucky   you are to have your hair.   Theresa   My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com   alt.tv.frasier FAQ: http://www.im-listening.net/FAQ/ </p>
<p>This is a good segue to my suggestion: &nbsp;There is an organization where  you can donate your hair&#44; which is used to make wigs for people on  chemo.  I&#8217;ve worn short hair for years. &nbsp;I&#8217;m lucky enough to have just a tiny  bit of natural curl. &nbsp;I wash my hair&#44; comb it&#44; then shape it with a  round brush and let it air dry. &nbsp;No muss&#44; no fuss&#44; and it always looks  neat and nice. &nbsp;Only you can make the decision&#44; of course.  Joy </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the mid-80s   and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had *very*   short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan some   pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my shoulders   and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44; after   thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair. Might not   sound like much of a decision to make&#44; but this long hair of mine has become   a huge part of who I am&#44; especially since it turned grey then white.   Yesterday I went and booked the hairdresser for after my last day at work   before the holidays. Then I spent most of the evening looking for pictures   of the kind of hairstyle I would like to have. Today I had a dental   appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the office&#44; a woman in   the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if my pigtails were real. I   said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44; &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them off! There   are too many of us baldies around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat and no   hair was showing. I don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just   short-haired.)   Now&#44; how could that woman know that I had just decided to cut my hair?   No-one has ever told me not to cut my hair before&#44; at least not a complete   stranger in the street. And there was nothing strange about the woman&#44; she   seemed perfectly normal and certainly sane. This was such a strange   coincidence that I&#8217;m not at all sure about cutting my hair any longer. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> / </p>
<p>Maybe she was a hair angel? <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Twice now I&#8217;ve had weird experiences  where someone would come up and talk to me about something that I was  wrestling with. &nbsp;Once it happened when I was with my brother and he  looked at me and said exactly what I was thinking. &nbsp;&quot;Are you aware that  we just talked to an angel?&quot; &nbsp;I was very surprised since my brother is  pretty much a no nonsense type person.  Anyway&#44; maybe you should wait a few weeks and then get just get a couple  of inches off if you&#8217;re still feeling like it and see what you think.  Even tho it will grow back it will be a huge change to make all at once!  &#8212;  Margaret Fine </p>
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<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the mid-80s   and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had *very*   short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan some   pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my shoulders   and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44; after   thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair. Might not   sound like much of a decision to make&#44; but this long hair of mine has become   a huge part of who I am&#44; especially since it turned grey then white.   Yesterday I went and booked the hairdresser for after my last day at work   before the holidays. Then I spent most of the evening looking for pictures   of the kind of hairstyle I would like to have. Today I had a dental   appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the office&#44; a woman in   the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if my pigtails were real. I   said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44; &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them off! There   are too many of us baldies around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat and no   hair was showing. I don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just   short-haired.)   Now&#44; how could that woman know that I had just decided to cut my hair?   No-one has ever told me not to cut my hair before&#44; at least not a complete   stranger in the street. And there was nothing strange about the woman&#44; she   seemed perfectly normal and certainly sane. This was such a strange   coincidence that I&#8217;m not at all sure about cutting my hair any longer. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> / </p>
<p>Boy&#44; that&#8217;s wierd. I don&#8217;t blame you for doubts. Maybe you just need to  sleep on it a bit. Hair is hard to part with when you have had it that long.  That being said&#44; it&#8217;s also kind of fun to have a sudden complete change&#44;  which only happens with cutting&#44; not growing out.Be sure to keep us posted. </p>
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<p> yodeled:  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the  mid-80s   and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had  *very*   short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan  some   pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my  shoulders   and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44;  after   thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair.  Might not   sound like much of a decision to make&#44; but this long hair of mine has  become   a huge part of who I am&#44; especially since it turned grey then white.   Yesterday I went and booked the hairdresser for after my last day at  work   before the holidays. Then I spent most of the evening looking for  pictures   of the kind of hairstyle I would like to have. Today I had a dental   appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the office&#44; a  woman in   the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if my pigtails were  real. I   said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44; &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them  off! There   are too many of us baldies around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat  and no   hair was showing. I don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just   short-haired.)   She may be on chemotherapy. &nbsp;She may have been telling you how lucky   you are to have your hair.   Theresa   My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com   alt.tv.frasier FAQ: http://www.im-listening.net/FAQ/  This is a good segue to my suggestion: &nbsp;There is an organization where  you can donate your hair&#44; which is used to make wigs for people on  chemo.  I&#8217;ve worn short hair for years. &nbsp;I&#8217;m lucky enough to have just a tiny  bit of natural curl. &nbsp;I wash my hair&#44; comb it&#44; then shape it with a  round brush and let it air dry. &nbsp;No muss&#44; no fuss&#44; and it always looks  neat and nice. &nbsp;Only you can make the decision&#44; of course.  Joy </p>
<p>Me too. For years I had nice&#44; healthy&#44; shiny short hair with a nice  natural curl that needed nothing more than to be washed&#44; moved around  a little bit&#44; then voila. &nbsp;But could I leave it alone? &nbsp;Nooooooo. It  was really nice hair&#44; so I figured how much nicer lots of it would be.  &nbsp;Now I have hair that does absolutely nothing that I want it to do&#44;  and I&#8217;m still too stubborn to admit defeat and cut it off again. &nbsp;I  waited all this time to have long hair&#44; dammit&#44; and I&#8217;m going to have  it. &nbsp;Check with me in six months. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   Theresa  My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com  alt.tv.frasier FAQ: http://www.im-listening.net/FAQ/ </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the mid-80s   and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had *very*   short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan some   pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my shoulders   and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44; after   thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair. Might not   sound like much of a decision to make&#44; but this long hair of mine has become   a huge part of who I am&#44; especially since it turned grey then white.   Yesterday I went and booked the hairdresser for after my last day at work   before the holidays. Then I spent most of the evening looking for pictures   of the kind of hairstyle I would like to have. Today I had a dental   appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the office&#44; a woman in   the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if my pigtails were real. I   said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44; &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them off! There   are too many of us baldies around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat and no   hair was showing. I don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just   short-haired.)   Now&#44; how could that woman know that I had just decided to cut my hair?   No-one has ever told me not to cut my hair before&#44; at least not a complete   stranger in the street. And there was nothing strange about the woman&#44; she   seemed perfectly normal and certainly sane. This was such a strange   coincidence that I&#8217;m not at all sure about cutting my hair any longer. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> / </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry to hear you have probs with your shoulders and neck. Have you  tried &quot;stick-gymanstics&quot; (keppijumppa)? Many of my work buddies do it  and they say it helps their aching shoulders and necks. We&#8217;re all mostly  sitting at computers&#44; so many of us get stiff shoulders.  Here&#8217;s a Finnish site with pics (drawings) to give you the general idea:  http://www.yths.fi/suomi/terveystietoa/keppijumppa.htm  And it sure was spooky with the lady addressing you on the street about  your hair like that&#8230;  &#8212;  Christine in Vantaa&#44; Finland  christal63 (at) yahoo (dot) com  photos: http://photos.yahoo.com/christal63  Laku: DS B G 4.11 Y L W C+ I+++ T++/- A+ E H+ S+ V++ F Q+ P- B PA PL </p>
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<p>Just a thought: snip very quick&#44; regrowth very long &amp; tedious.  Definitely worth a second thought after such a timely happenstance of  an intervention&#44; and perhaps then shorten in stages?  Purrs  Gordon&#44; Bandit&#44; Pericles &amp; Snowball (1st 2 shorthairs&#44; 2nd 2  longhairs&#44; none of us anxious to change)  &#8212;  Feline family viewable at:  http://community.webshots.com/user/exocat  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the  mid-80s   and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I  had *very*   short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan  some   pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my  shoulders   and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44;  after   thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair.  </p>
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<p> &nbsp; Maybe she was a hair angel? <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Twice now I&#8217;ve had weird experiences  &nbsp; where someone would come up and talk to me about something that I was  &nbsp; wrestling with. &nbsp;Once it happened when I was with my brother and he  &nbsp; looked at me and said exactly what I was thinking. &nbsp;&quot;Are you aware that  &nbsp; we just talked to an angel?&quot; &nbsp;I was very surprised since my brother is  &nbsp; pretty much a no nonsense type person.  When I was about 20 years old&#44; I had a lot of problems getting along with  my dad&#44; and we had a lot of huge fights. One night I remember he kept  saying&#44; &quot;It&#8217;s not all my doing. You&#8217;re responsible too. I&#8217;m just a person&#44;  I&#8217;m not just your dad&#44;&quot; etc.  The next day I went with some friends to a tea house where &quot;psychics&quot;  would read your tea leaves when you were finished. (They look into your  cup and divine information from the leaves at the bottom.) I&#8217;m not  especially into stuff like that&#44; but it was for fun. Well&#44; first she  read one friend&#8217;s leaves&#44; and it was all about her career issues. The  second friend&#8217;s was about creativity and art. When she read mine&#44; she  said&#44; &quot;You have a troubled relationship with your father. But you have  to remember that he&#8217;s just a person too&#44; and now that you&#8217;re an adult&#44;  it&#8217;s a two-way street&#44; so you have to try harder&#44; too.&quot; I almost fell  off my chair!!  Of course&#44; one of the friends I went with happened to be at my father&#8217;s  house with me when this fight was happening. So maybe she met with the  &quot;psychic&quot; and told her about it&#8230; I don&#8217;t know. I&#8217;m a very down-to-earth  type of person and not given to spiritual or occult beliefs&#44; but to tell  you the truth&#44; I&#8217;d rather believe the tea leaf reader was a true psychic  (I do believe that is possible). The alternative &#8211; that my friend was  interfering and imposing her beliefs on me &#8211; is more disturbing&#8230;  It took me years to be open to that message anyway (that my dad is just  a person)&#44; but I think it was a wise message from a stranger.  Joyce </p>
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<p> This is a good segue to my suggestion: &nbsp;There is an organization where  you can donate your hair&#44; which is used to make wigs for people on  chemo. </p>
<p> &nbsp; &nbsp; That&#8217;s what I did with my hair when I got it cut. &nbsp;I&#8217;d been  letting it grow for a decade. &nbsp;Too bad they couldn&#8217;t have used the  beard hair too. &nbsp;Now&#44; there&#8217;s barely enough left for Lady Jane Grey to  snuggle in.  Regards and Purrs&#44;  O J </p>
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<p>  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; Now&#44; how could that woman know that I had just decided to cut my hair?   No-one has ever told me not to cut my hair before&#44; at least not a  complete   stranger in the street. And there was nothing strange about the woman&#44;  she   seemed perfectly normal and certainly sane. This was such a strange   coincidence that I&#8217;m not at all sure about cutting my hair any longer.  <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> /   &#8212;   Marina&#44; Frank and Nikki   That *is* disconcerting&#44; isn&#8217;t it? Almost like&#44; a sign or something. If  you&#8217;re   not sure&#44; wait a month&#44; then see how you feel about it. &nbsp;It&#8217;s a big  decision.   You&#8217;ll miss it at first&#44; for sure. The lady was right&#8211;you don&#8217;t see long   tresses especially on women my age very much. Mine is just below my  shoulders&#44;   but is very fine and I just pull it back in a clip. I think about a short  &#8216;do   every once in a while&#44; but I honestly don&#8217;t know how to primp&#44; I&#8217;ve never  done   it. I think short hair would be more trouble! </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve had long hair&#44; I&#8217;ve had short hair (*really* short hair). And  personally&#44; unless buzz-cuts ever become suitable on proffesional women&#44; I&quot;m  leaving it long. I just have to pull it back and pop it in a pony tail and  off I go. I don&#8217;t *have* bad hair days&#44; because all my hair days look the  same &#8211; in &nbsp;pony tail or plait. Short hair needed to be styled and I really  couldn&#8217;t be bothered anymore. That and I&#8217;m too cheap to go to the  hairdresser every month to make sure it keeps the style that it was intended  for. A buzz-cut I could do myself&#44; or get Joel to do (I do his buzz-cut&#44;  takes 5 minutes out on the back patio. I would not pay $30 for that!) but I  need to keep at least a semblance of feminity at work.  Yowie </p>
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<p>   Yesterday I went and booked the hairdresser for after my last day at work   before the holidays. Then I spent most of the evening looking for pictures   of the kind of hairstyle I would like to have. Today I had a dental   appointment&#44; and afterwards&#44; when I was on my way to the office&#44; a woman  in   the street came and tapped my arm and asked me if my pigtails were real. I   said&#44; &quot;Yes&#44; of course&#44;&quot; and she said&#44; &quot;Please don&#8217;t ever cut them off!  There   are too many of us baldies around already.&quot; (She was wearing a hat and no   hair was showing. I don&#8217;t know if she was actually bald or just   short-haired.) </p>
<p>Wow Marina. &nbsp;Whatever her intent or inspiration&#44; it probably causes you to  really think about it carefully anyway. &nbsp;So&#44; what are you going to do??  Susan M  Otis and Chester </p>
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<p>- Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;  &nbsp; Maybe she was a hair angel? <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Twice now I&#8217;ve had weird experiences   &nbsp; where someone would come up and talk to me about something that I was   &nbsp; wrestling with. &nbsp;Once it happened when I was with my brother and he   &nbsp; looked at me and said exactly what I was thinking. &nbsp;&quot;Are you aware that   &nbsp; we just talked to an angel?&quot; &nbsp;I was very surprised since my brother is   &nbsp; pretty much a no nonsense type person.   When I was about 20 years old&#44; I had a lot of problems getting along with   my dad&#44; and we had a lot of huge fights. One night I remember he kept   saying&#44; &quot;It&#8217;s not all my doing. You&#8217;re responsible too. I&#8217;m just a person&#44;   I&#8217;m not just your dad&#44;&quot; etc.   The next day I went with some friends to a tea house where &quot;psychics&quot;   would read your tea leaves when you were finished. (They look into your   cup and divine information from the leaves at the bottom.) I&#8217;m not   especially into stuff like that&#44; but it was for fun. Well&#44; first she   read one friend&#8217;s leaves&#44; and it was all about her career issues. The   second friend&#8217;s was about creativity and art. When she read mine&#44; she   said&#44; &quot;You have a troubled relationship with your father. But you have   to remember that he&#8217;s just a person too&#44; and now that you&#8217;re an adult&#44;   it&#8217;s a two-way street&#44; so you have to try harder&#44; too.&quot; I almost fell   off my chair!!   Of course&#44; one of the friends I went with happened to be at my father&#8217;s   house with me when this fight was happening. So maybe she met with the   &quot;psychic&quot; and told her about it&#8230; I don&#8217;t know. I&#8217;m a very down-to-earth   type of person and not given to spiritual or occult beliefs&#44; but to tell   you the truth&#44; I&#8217;d rather believe the tea leaf reader was a true psychic   (I do believe that is possible). The alternative &#8211; that my friend was   interfering and imposing her beliefs on me &#8211; is more disturbing&#8230;   It took me years to be open to that message anyway (that my dad is just   a person)&#44; but I think it was a wise message from a stranger.   Joyce </p>
<p>Wow. That is just too coincidental and it seems like your friend would  have given themselves away if it were a set up&#44; don&#8217;t you think? &nbsp;I went  to a psychic once with a friend. &nbsp;Her line with me was that I was going  to be well off&#44; happy&#44; etc. &nbsp;I thought this is what she told everyone  (this was before I heard my friends reading) but as I was leaving she  stopped me and said &quot;You didn&#8217;t ask the question that is really in your  heart but I&#8217;ll give you the answer anyway. &nbsp;As much as you love him he  loves you&quot; &nbsp;I was floored since I had been wondering (for no reason I  might add) if my husband loved me as much as I loved him. Then I heard  my friends reading. &nbsp;My friend asked the psychic if she would ever be  rich. &nbsp;The psychic said Listen you will never do more in your life but  get by. &nbsp;You shouldn&#8217;t even ask about money because so many others areas  of your life are screwed up. &nbsp;Work on the relationship with your husband  because he is very sick. &nbsp;Work on your own health because you don&#8217;t want  to leave your kids orphans. &nbsp;My friend was really upset because she was  having marital problems but her husband was not sick. &nbsp;ABout six weeks  later her husband did get very sick and was permanently disabled and  almost died several times. &nbsp;Made a believer out of me. &nbsp; &nbsp;This person  read auras. &nbsp;Ever since then I do not discount things like that.  &#8212;  Margaret Fine </p>
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<p>  I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. I stopped cutting it in the mid-80s   and after a few years&#44; it was as long as it is now (before that I had *very*   short hair&#44; with all the colours of the rainbow. Will have to scan some   pictures one day). The last few years&#44; I&#8217;ve had trouble with my shoulders   and neck&#44; and just making a pony tail is getting very painful. So&#44; after   thinking it over for a long time&#44; I&#8217;ve decided to cut off my hair. Might not   sound like much of a decision to make&#44; but this long hair of mine has become   a huge part of who I am&#44; especially since it turned grey then white.   &lt;snipped </p>
<p>I had my hair cut off to about chin length last year. It used to  be down to my shoulder blades. I think it probably looks better  short (I no longer look much like Ozzy Osborne!)&#44; but unless I  can be bothered to keep getting it trimmed it gets untidy very  quickly&#44; and I&#8217;m not one who&#8217;s very interested in that kind of  stuff. It was so much easier to just clip the whole lot back in a  ponytail. I think I&#8217;ll probably end up letting it grow back  again&#44; but I don&#8217;t regret giving the change a try. That probably  doesn&#8217;t help you make your mind up at all&#44; does it?  Don&#8217;t know what you use to tie your ponytail &#8211; I find a spring  loaded clip or a barette a heck of a lot easier than an elastic  band. That might help with the shoulder pain a bit. </p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve had long hair&#44; I&#8217;ve had short hair (*really* short hair). And  personally&#44; unless buzz-cuts ever become suitable on proffesional women&#44; I&quot;m  leaving it long. I just have to pull it back and pop it in a pony tail and  off I go. I don&#8217;t *have* bad hair days&#44; because all my hair days look the  same &#8211; in &nbsp;pony tail or plait. Short hair needed to be styled and I really  couldn&#8217;t be bothered anymore. That and I&#8217;m too cheap to go to the  hairdresser every month to make sure it keeps the style that it was intended  for. A buzz-cut I could do myself&#44; or get Joel to do (I do his buzz-cut&#44;  takes 5 minutes out on the back patio. I would not pay $30 for that!) but I  need to keep at least a semblance of feminity at work.  Yowie </p>
<p>You&#8217;re my kind o&#8217; gal&#44; Yowie. Exactly my attitude about standing in front of  the mirror for an hour &quot;fixing&quot; my hair&#8230;.I won&#8217;t do it. I have a big  assortment of clips and it takes me 2 minutes tops. I also cut DH&#8217;s hair. One  day we figured&#44; he doesn&#8217;t have *that* much hair left anyway&#44; so why not try?  Saves 10 bucks and I am now quite good at it. The first haircut he looked a  little like an Auschwitz survivor or something&#44; but I did get better. He  couldn&#8217;t have cared less though.  Sherry </p>
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<p> I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now. </p>
<p>&lt;&lt;snip  Funny&#44; I just cut my long hair. It was real fine and brittle and  wouldn&#8217;t behave. Hair changes texture as you get older and many of us  get thin on top. Now with short hair it fluffs up and hides the  thinness on top. And I look better. And I don&#8217;t have all that weight  pulling on my neck. And it looks better with my wrinkles!  The picture i saw of you didn&#8217;t look like your hair was thin. That  means more hair to weigh you down. But before making a decision&#44; can  you try a short wig for awhile to see if the style fits you? Have you  checked into handicapped supplies? There may be something to help you  tend to your hair without raising your arms so high. You can use a  long-handle bath brush to help you shampoo your hair. Maybe a  spaghetti lifter can be used as a de-tangler&#8211;coarse comb; and a clean  bath brush as a hair brush. A lot of them have straight handles; but  occasionally I have seen them with curved handles. Just a couple  ideas.  &#8212;  CATherine </p>
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<p>  I&#8217;ve had long hair&#44; I&#8217;ve had short hair (*really* short hair). And   personally&#44; unless buzz-cuts ever become suitable on proffesional women&#44;  I&quot;m   leaving it long. I just have to pull it back and pop it in a pony tail and   off I go. I don&#8217;t *have* bad hair days&#44; because all my hair days look the   same &#8211; in &nbsp;pony tail or plait. Short hair needed to be styled and I really   couldn&#8217;t be bothered anymore. That and I&#8217;m too cheap to go to the   hairdresser every month to make sure it keeps the style that it was  intended   for. A buzz-cut I could do myself&#44; or get Joel to do (I do his buzz-cut&#44;   takes 5 minutes out on the back patio. I would not pay $30 for that!) but  I   need to keep at least a semblance of feminity at work. </p>
<p>The going to a hairdresser each month is what is my main problem with having  short hair &#8211; not really the expense&#44; just the bother. I&#8217;ve had short hair  before&#44; and my job doesn&#8217;t pose that kind of restrictions on me&#44; so there&#8217;s  really no other reason not to do it &#8211; except that this complete stranger  came up to me and told me never to cut my hair just when I had set my plans  in motion for doing just that.  &#8212;  Marina&#44; Frank and Nikki  Email marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi  Pics at http://uk.f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/frankiennikki </p>
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<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; Funny&#44; I just cut my long hair. It was real fine and brittle and   wouldn&#8217;t behave. Hair changes texture as you get older and many of us   get thin on top. Now with short hair it fluffs up and hides the   thinness on top. And I look better. And I don&#8217;t have all that weight   pulling on my neck. And it looks better with my wrinkles!   The picture i saw of you didn&#8217;t look like your hair was thin. That   means more hair to weigh you down. But before making a decision&#44; can   you try a short wig for awhile to see if the style fits you? Have you   checked into handicapped supplies? There may be something to help you   tend to your hair without raising your arms so high. You can use a   long-handle bath brush to help you shampoo your hair. Maybe a   spaghetti lifter can be used as a de-tangler&#8211;coarse comb; and a clean   bath brush as a hair brush. A lot of them have straight handles; but   occasionally I have seen them with curved handles. Just a couple   ideas. </p>
<p>Excellent ideas! I&#8217;m still in two minds about going short. I know I looked  good in short hair when I was younger&#44; but then I was considerably slimmer&#44;  too.  &#8212;  Marina&#44; Frank and Nikki  Email marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi  Pics at http://uk.f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/frankiennikki </p>
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<p>  Boy&#44; that&#8217;s wierd. I don&#8217;t blame you for doubts. Maybe you just need to   sleep on it a bit. Hair is hard to part with when you have had it that  long.   That being said&#44; it&#8217;s also kind of fun to have a sudden complete change&#44;   which only happens with cutting&#44; not growing out.Be sure to keep us  posted. </p>
<p>It is fun&#44; and I like going to extremes in this sort of &quot;safe&quot; way&#44; if you  know what I mean. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> ) Besides&#44; it&#8217;s time for something radical. When I  turned 30&#44; I quit smoking&#44; quit my job&#44; and entered university. I will be 40  this year&#44; and I need to do *something*&#44; even if it&#8217;s only cutting off my  hair.  &#8212;  Marina&#44; Frank and Nikki  Email marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi  Pics at http://uk.f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/frankiennikki </p>
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<p>  I&#8217;m sorry to hear you have probs with your shoulders and neck. Have you   tried &quot;stick-gymanstics&quot; (keppijumppa)? Many of my work buddies do it   and they say it helps their aching shoulders and necks. We&#8217;re all mostly   sitting at computers&#44; so many of us get stiff shoulders.   Here&#8217;s a Finnish site with pics (drawings) to give you the general idea:   http://www.yths.fi/suomi/terveystietoa/keppijumppa.htm </p>
<p>Thanks for the link&#44; Christine. I do some stretching exercises daily&#44; but  this has been going on for over three years already&#44; and the doc said it  should pass in 18 months. I&#8217;ve had physical therapy (fortunately&#44; the  university pays for ten sessions a year &#8211; well they should&#44; since my  shoulders hurt from working there ;o) ). Maybe I&#8217;ll try those gymnastics.   And it sure was spooky with the lady addressing you on the street about   your hair like that&#8230; </p>
<p>Especially since&#44; as you probably know&#44; people in Helsinki seldom talk to  strangers.  &#8212;  Marina&#44; Frank and Nikki  Email marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi  Pics at http://uk.f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/frankiennikki </p>
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<p> Funny&#44; I just cut my long hair. It was real fine and brittle and  wouldn&#8217;t behave. Hair changes texture as you get older and many of us  get thin on top. Now with short hair it fluffs up and hides the  thinness on top. And I look better. And I don&#8217;t have all that weight  pulling on my neck. And it looks better with my wrinkles! </p>
<p>A colleague once told me that she ties her hair back to give herself a  facelift. &nbsp;She might have been pulling my leg though. <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
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<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; I&#8217;ve had long hair about 15 years now.  &lt;&lt;snip  Funny&#44; I just cut my long hair. It was real fine and brittle and  wouldn&#8217;t behave. Hair changes texture as you get older and many of us  get thin on top. Now with short hair it fluffs up and hides the  thinness on top. And I look better. And I don&#8217;t have all that weight  pulling on my neck. And it looks better with my wrinkles!  The picture i saw of you didn&#8217;t look like your hair was thin. That  means more hair to weigh you down. But before making a decision&#44; can  you try a short wig for awhile to see if the style fits you? Have you  checked into handicapped supplies? There may be something to help you  tend to your hair without raising your arms so high. You can use a  long-handle bath brush to help you shampoo your hair. Maybe a  spaghetti lifter can be used as a de-tangler&#8211;coarse comb; and a clean  bath brush as a hair brush. A lot of them have straight handles; but  occasionally I have seen them with curved handles. Just a couple  ideas. </p>
<p>I have been &quot;stewing&quot; about my hair also. &nbsp;I want to get away from  perms if I can find a way to let it be straight. &nbsp;My hair is &nbsp;white  and grows very fast. &nbsp;I have a frozen right shoulder&#44; so it is harder  all the time to put it up. &nbsp;I have always done my own hair except for  cuts and perms. &nbsp;There are wide toothed combs available that make  combing easier. &nbsp;If the drug store doesn&#8217;t have them&#44; try a beauty  supply store. </p>
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<p>Funny thing is&#44; even arteries found in young children have tiny  fatty-streaks in them&#8230;it happens to all of us&#44; man. </p>
<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211;   Your fat thighs indicates clogged arterys in your heart. You are     having mini-coronarys&#44; and need to see a Dr IMMEDIATELY!    I don&#8217;t think anyone on this earth (except an anorexic) would consider  my    thighs to be fat&#8230;.    Funny&#44; though&#44; none-the-less&#8230;   Depleted fat cells in the region are a sure sign of massive coronary   artery disease. I&#8217;d give you more advice&#44; but you&#8217;ll be dead before   you can read it anyways&#8230;  </p>
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<p>   Your fat thighs indicates clogged arterys in your heart. You are    having mini-coronarys&#44; and need to see a Dr IMMEDIATELY!   I don&#8217;t think anyone on this earth (except an anorexic) would consider my   thighs to be fat&#8230;.   Funny&#44; though&#44; none-the-less&#8230; </p>
<p>Depleted fat cells in the region are a sure sign of massive coronary  artery disease. I&#8217;d give you more advice&#44; but you&#8217;ll be dead before  you can read it anyways&#8230; </p>
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<p>I get it quite a bit when I really exert myself.  &#8212;  Ask for my e-mail if needed </p>
<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; However&#44; for some reason I assumed that you were young    and fit&#44; which&#44; no offence&#44; you may not be. &nbsp;Cardiac pain can sometimes   only    be felt in the shoulder&#44; but you know yourself if you have any other    symptoms / risk factors which would make this more likely.   I am 25 and pretty fit&#8230;so yes&#44; it is probably referred  pain&#8230;.hopefully!   <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  &nbsp;I&#8217;ve had this problem for years now&#8230;probably the past 10 years on  and   off&#44; very infrequently.  </p>
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<p> Your fat thighs indicates clogged arterys in your heart. You are   having mini-coronarys&#44; and need to see a Dr IMMEDIATELY! </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think anyone on this earth (except an anorexic) would consider my  thighs to be fat&#8230;.  Funny&#44; though&#44; none-the-less&#8230; </p>
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<p>C3&#44;4&#44;5 keeps the diaphragm alive&#8230;remember that from gross anatomy class my  first year of dental school! <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Is this referred pain something to be concerned about? &nbsp;It doesn&#8217;t happen  every time&#8230;.just probably every few months&#44; or if I don&#8217;t run for a week  or so and have to get back into the swing of things. </p>
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<p> Is this referred pain something to be concerned about? </p>
<p>Not usually &#8211; it&#8217;s just a bit of a pain in the arse&#44; and caused by  diaphragmatic spasm. &nbsp;However&#44; for some reason I assumed that you were young  and fit&#44; which&#44; no offence&#44; you may not be. &nbsp;Cardiac pain can sometimes only  be felt in the shoulder&#44; but you know yourself if you have any other  symptoms / risk factors which would make this more likely.  Dave </p>
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<p>&nbsp;However&#44; for some reason I assumed that you were young   and fit&#44; which&#44; no offence&#44; you may not be. &nbsp;Cardiac pain can sometimes  only   be felt in the shoulder&#44; but you know yourself if you have any other   symptoms / risk factors which would make this more likely. </p>
<p>I am 25 and pretty fit&#8230;so yes&#44; it is probably referred pain&#8230;.hopefully!  <img src='http://www.feelthehurt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  &nbsp;I&#8217;ve had this problem for years now&#8230;probably the past 10 years on and  off&#44; very infrequently. </p>
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<p>  Hello everyone&#44;   Has anyone ever experienced radiating shoulder/neck pain during the end of   an intense run? &nbsp;I sometimes get this horrible ache right in the corner of   my neck and shoulder&#44; and I need to stop and try to &quot;stretch&quot; it out. &nbsp;Do   you think it is my trapezius telling me I am holding my head up in a poor   position when I run? &nbsp;I don&#8217;t think it is referred pain from the diaphragm   (at least I hope not).   Thanks&#44;   C.J.   BTW: thanks to whoever initially recommended the body glide for the   thighs&#8230;a miracle worker! </p>
<p>Your fat thighs indicates clogged arterys in your heart. You are  having mini-coronarys&#44; and need to see a Dr IMMEDIATELY! </p>
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<p>Hello everyone&#44;  Has anyone ever experienced radiating shoulder/neck pain during the end of  an intense run? &nbsp;I sometimes get this horrible ache right in the corner of  my neck and shoulder&#44; and I need to stop and try to &quot;stretch&quot; it out. &nbsp;Do  you think it is my trapezius telling me I am holding my head up in a poor  position when I run? &nbsp;I don&#8217;t think it is referred pain from the diaphragm  (at least I hope not).  Thanks&#44;  C.J.  BTW: thanks to whoever initially recommended the body glide for the  thighs&#8230;a miracle worker! </p>
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<p>Most probably referred pain from you diaphragm. &nbsp;When you breath hard at the  end of the run&#44; your diaphragm can get irritated and / or go into spasm.  The nerve supplies the diaphragm joins the spinal cord around the same level  as those that supply the shoulder &#8211; the brain is tricked into thinking that  it is in fact the shoulder hurting. &nbsp;The relief you feel if probably just  because your breathing normalises.  Of course&#44; it may be because you do something funny with your head&#44; but I  think it would be pretty obvious if that were the case &#8211; diaphragm  irritation / spasm is more common.  Dave  &#8212;  Ask for my e-mail if needed </p>
<p> &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text &#8211; Hello everyone&#44;   Has anyone ever experienced radiating shoulder/neck pain during the end of   an intense run? &nbsp;I sometimes get this horrible ache right in the corner of   my neck and shoulder&#44; and I need to stop and try to &quot;stretch&quot; it out. &nbsp;Do   you think it is my trapezius telling me I am holding my head up in a poor   position when I run? &nbsp;I don&#8217;t think it is referred pain from the diaphragm   (at least I hope not).   Thanks&#44;   C.J.   BTW: thanks to whoever initially recommended the body glide for the   thighs&#8230;a miracle worker!  </p>
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<p>Shit the bed&#44; I&#8217;m such a wanker.  OTS  &quot;dances_with_courgettes&quot; &lt;nos&#8230;@spamless.com&gt; wrote in message </p>
<p>news:9cPic.38599$_L6.17395@twister.auna.com&#8230;  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; HumungousFungusAmongUs &lt;omega.po&#8230;@ntlworld.com&gt; hat beschriffen or  &gt; whatever that phrase is that makes you look all German and intellectual:  &gt; ..  &gt; &gt; I could feel the pain even in my sleep. I woke up at around 6a.m OMT&#44;  and  &gt; &gt; discovered that as far as I can make out&#44; it was easier to look for bits  &gt; &gt; that weren&#8217;t hurting. I did think about having some of that generic  &gt; &gt; Ibuprofen I bought a few weeks ago from Tesco&#8217;s&#44; but that way insanity  &gt; lies.  &gt; &gt; Sometimes it is possible to nullify pain somewhat by thinking about  &gt; nooky &#8211;  &gt; &gt; the endorphins and so forth.  &gt; &gt; Well&#44; I&#8217;m up and about now&#44; and maybe the stiff joints etc will limber  up&#44;  &gt; &gt; as they would not have got any exercise while I was asleep.  &gt; &gt; I defy doctors etc. I will heal myself. Somehow.  &gt; &gt; OTS  &gt; Why have you got neck/shoulder pain?  &gt; I have atrocious back pain at the minute&#44; which is why I&#8217;m writing posts  to  &gt; this newsgroup instead of what I should be doing&#44; which is being out on  the  &gt; terrace gloating at my bougainvillea. This back pain is caused by a  &gt; combination of (a) adopting ill-advised semirecumbent wanking position&#44;  (b)  &gt; being overweight but now I&#8217;m on a diet which is basically just eating  &gt; anything crunchy and green and being hungry all the time and I&#8217;m now down  to  &gt; below 100k which is something I suppose&#44; (c) being middle-aged (i.e. old)  &gt; and (d) not having played football since I was 9.  &gt; DWC  &gt; &#8212;  &gt; Omnes lagani pistrinae gelate male sapiunt </p>
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<p>I could feel the pain even in my sleep. I woke up at around 6a.m OMT&#44; and  discovered that as far as I can make out&#44; it was easier to look for bits  that weren&#8217;t hurting. I did think about having some of that generic  Ibuprofen I bought a few weeks ago from Tesco&#8217;s&#44; but that way insanity lies.  Sometimes it is possible to nullify pain somewhat by thinking about nooky &#8211;  the endorphins and so forth.  Well&#44; I&#8217;m up and about now&#44; and maybe the stiff joints etc will limber up&#44;  as they would not have got any exercise while I was asleep.  I defy doctors etc. I will heal myself. Somehow.  OTS  &#8212;  Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free.  Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).  Version: 6.0.667 / Virus Database: 429 &#8211; Release Date: 23/04/2004 </p>
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<p>Well there are stronger anti-inflammatories available with a  prescription.  &quot;HumungousFungusAmongUs&quot; &lt;omega.po&#8230;@ntlworld.com&gt; spewed forth  most vilely from the darkest depths of  chaosnews:c6d85a$al3gi$1@ID-73971.news.uni-berlin.de:  &#8211; Hide quoted text &#8212; Show quoted text -&gt; I could feel the pain even in my sleep. I woke up at around 6a.m  &gt; OMT&#44; and discovered that as far as I can make out&#44; it was easier  &gt; to look for bits that weren&#8217;t hurting. I did think about having  &gt; some of that generic Ibuprofen I bought a few weeks ago from  &gt; Tesco&#8217;s&#44; but that way insanity lies. Sometimes it is possible to  &gt; nullify pain somewhat by thinking about nooky &#8211; the endorphins  &gt; and so forth.  &gt; Well&#44; I&#8217;m up and about now&#44; and maybe the stiff joints etc will  &gt; limber up&#44; as they would not have got any exercise while I was  &gt; asleep.  &gt; I defy doctors etc. I will heal myself. Somehow.  &gt; OTS  &gt; &#8212;  &gt; Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free.  &gt; Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).  &gt; Version: 6.0.667 / Virus Database: 429 &#8211; Release Date:  &gt; 23/04/2004 </p>
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<p>HumungousFungusAmongUs &lt;omega.po&#8230;@ntlworld.com&gt; hat beschriffen or  whatever that phrase is that makes you look all German and intellectual:  ..  &gt; I could feel the pain even in my sleep. I woke up at around 6a.m OMT&#44; and  &gt; discovered that as far as I can make out&#44; it was easier to look for bits  &gt; that weren&#8217;t hurting. I did think about having some of that generic  &gt; Ibuprofen I bought a few weeks ago from Tesco&#8217;s&#44; but that way insanity  lies.  &gt; Sometimes it is possible to nullify pain somewhat by thinking about  nooky &#8211;  &gt; the endorphins and so forth.  &gt; Well&#44; I&#8217;m up and about now&#44; and maybe the stiff joints etc will limber up&#44;  &gt; as they would not have got any exercise while I was asleep.  &gt; I defy doctors etc. I will heal myself. Somehow.  &gt; OTS </p>
<p>Why have you got neck/shoulder pain?  I have atrocious back pain at the minute&#44; which is why I&#8217;m writing posts to  this newsgroup instead of what I should be doing&#44; which is being out on the  terrace gloating at my bougainvillea. This back pain is caused by a  combination of (a) adopting ill-advised semirecumbent wanking position&#44; (b)  being overweight but now I&#8217;m on a diet which is basically just eating  anything crunchy and green and being hungry all the time and I&#8217;m now down to  below 100k which is something I suppose&#44; (c) being middle-aged (i.e. old)  and (d) not having played football since I was 9.  DWC  &#8212;  Omnes lagani pistrinae gelate male sapiunt </p>
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